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RE: the benefits of....... - 5/29/2006 6:41:00 AM

mistoferin

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After 8 years in the lifestyle, has what is written on these boards caused you to rethink your limits and even whether you are sub or slave....or has something else occurred that has left you second guessing?

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RE: the benefits of....... - 5/29/2006 6:45:42 AM

mew

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There are other things going on in my life that cause me to wonder at times.
And reading here gives me much to think about.
Mostly though, it is generalized just to get others people's opinions.

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RE: the benefits of....... - 5/29/2006 8:50:49 AM

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I do not know about how "beneficial" doing things that you may have not desired before is or isn't, I can only say what my experience has been.

Whenever there is something I havent been interested in doing that the dom in my life wants to try I begin to think about that activity a lot more, I begin to want to do that activity because they want me to. I do not let myself date doms that love doing things on my hard limits list, but there are many activities I have no interest in that when my dom expresses an interest in that activity I start to fantasize about it and end up enjoying it.

So while I do not necessarily "benefit" from it, I end up "benefitting" through my enjoyment of the activity, but even more I enjoy serving my One in that way. It is what totally gets me off about D/s, pleasing my dominant... thats why I avoid the ones that like to do things on my hard limits list.

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RE: the benefits of....... - 5/29/2006 9:10:19 AM

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How is having sex beneficial if you aren't trying to have a baby?

If you don't want to do something, then don't do it.

Other people will want to do things you don't want to do. Don't get involved with them.

We all have a kink that we look at and go "WTF?" Then we go "Whatever works for you" and move on.

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