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RE: picking a Mistress - 12/4/2011 6:33:50 PM

LookieNoNookie

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ORIGINAL: will2please

As a newbe sub we can pick how I want my Mistress too look or must I accept her because she choose me?

once you have declared your eligibility, i am afraid you are simply going to have to go with the first organization that drafts you, even if they're in a rebuilding process, as long as you are selected in the first round. now i have seen your projections, and there is a good chance you may slip down into the 2nd or even 3rd round, in which case, per the collective bargaining agreement, you could decline to sign a contract and take your chances with the next draft. in that scenario you would need to ask yourself if you realistically think you're going to land in a more favorable situation next time around, or whether you should just try to sign a short-term, incentive-laden contract and hope for the best.

Excellent advice, and I can hardly add much to it but, do make sure your contract states that she "shall" provide for you in the style you've become accustomed to.

That's just a given.

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RE: picking a Mistress - 12/4/2011 6:36:36 PM

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Also add in the fact that your profile makes no sense whatsoever, and you're down to .25

Do you need me to translate:

I'm almost 50 and have never had a Mistress (or gotten laid). Since this is the case, if you don't like how I do something, you can't blame it on an old mistress.

Oh now that's just simply not true.

I for one have more than successfully blamed all my failures over the last 10 or so years on my ex wife.

Nothing to it.

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RE: picking a Mistress - 12/4/2011 6:42:00 PM

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once you have declared your eligibility, i am afraid you are simply going to have to go with the first organization that drafts you, even if they're in a rebuilding process, as long as you are selected in the first round. now i have seen your projections, and there is a good chance you may slip down into the 2nd or even 3rd round, in which case, per the collective bargaining agreement, you could decline to sign a contract and take your chances with the next draft. in that scenario you would need to ask yourself if you realistically think you're going to land in a more favorable situation next time around, or whether you should just try to sign a short-term, incentive-laden contract and hope for the best.

Damn this sounds like picking teams in school netball
god that was horrendous

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RE: picking a Mistress - 12/4/2011 6:59:14 PM

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The RochSub is in a mood.

I am soooo loving it Mistress Roch.

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RE: picking a Mistress - 12/5/2011 6:10:18 AM

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The RochSub is in a mood.

It's that time of the month.

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RE: picking a Mistress - 12/5/2011 7:39:51 AM

Arienos

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Many male Doms get off on picking out the sub's clothing. It's a control thing. That's why I'm puzzled to see it coming from a male sub.

I too find it both pleasurable and intriguing when buying cloths for a lady, it has nothing to do with domination or control, more it’s the image in my mind of the gleam in her eyes when they find them hanging in her closet days or even weeks after I have left. I’ve had a woman call me and heard the pleasure and excitement in her voice after finding found shoes and boots still in the box I hid in the back of their closet and in that particular case it was two months after I left Prague.
It’s no different than buying her flowers except she gets the flowers that same day, but when she finds something in her closet that is simply saying I appreciate you, it makes her day a little brighter.

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RE: picking a Mistress - 12/5/2011 9:33:39 AM

LillyBoPeep

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You have a different motivation, Arienos.
You leave the things for her to find, or give them to her without expecting that she's going to wear them and dress up how you want her to. You have probably gotten to know her and know what she likes to wear, instead of buying things you like.

The OP seems to be about deciding what his Dominant wears to cater to his own desires. I don't understand that at all.
If a Dominant asks, or gives you the responsibility, or you can make suggestions and critiques, sure whatever. But deciding what the D will wear, period? Weird...

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RE: picking a Mistress - 12/5/2011 10:58:26 AM

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You have a different motivation, Arienos.

Indeed I have a different motive; it’s selfish and totally self-satisfying. It pleases me, in fact, it thrills me to say without words how thankful I am for the moments she shared with me. There are many things in my life words alone cannot do justice to, especially coming from a man with a bottom line mentality.

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RE: picking a Mistress - 12/5/2011 1:46:01 PM

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As a newbe sub we can pick how I want my Mistress too look or must I accept her because she choose me?

Just establish that she isn't mad, will2. I don't think femdoms are any more mad than most women these days, but that's no great recommendation.

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RE: picking a Mistress - 12/5/2011 2:08:15 PM

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As a newbe sub we can pick how I want my Mistress too look or must I accept her because she choose me?

Just establish that she isn't mad, will2. I don't think femdoms are any more mad than most women these days, but that's no great recommendation.

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RE: picking a Mistress - 12/7/2011 5:12:57 AM

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We are not object we are people OP so that whole picking thing did not sit well with me. The relationship between a Dom/me & a sub/slave is a mutual agree.

As for picking out her clothes why? To me that sounds as if someone just want to play dress up or you are hoping to find one yahoo will allow you to top from the bottom.

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