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Hillwilliam -> RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives (12/6/2011 9:54:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: notthetongs Based on letters I get fairly often, most of them suddenly decide that despite being very Rawr and Grr, they simply must surrender to this urgent craving to worship at the feet of some Asian chick they don't really know. Meh, I'd rather tie her up and do evil things to her body. [sm=whip.gif]

notthetongs -> RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives (12/6/2011 10:39:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam quote: ORIGINAL: notthetongs Based on letters I get fairly often, most of them suddenly decide that despite being very Rawr and Grr, they simply must surrender to this urgent craving to worship at the feet of some Asian chick they don't really know. Meh, I'd rather tie her up and do evil things to her body. [sm=whip.gif] ... and see, that would make sense! But nooooo. I get these guys who describe themselves as if they're trying to impress me with their uber-dom-ness and then say, "but I've always wanted to worship an Asian dominant woman like you. Just give me a chance!" rolls eyes

LillyBoPeep -> RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives (12/7/2011 5:12:39 AM)
Ahh yes, the shapeshifters. :p gotta love those!

stacey4u2luv -> RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives (12/7/2011 5:22:38 AM)
Singing the tune of Ghost Busters.

Hillwilliam -> RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives (12/7/2011 7:38:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: notthetongs quote: ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam quote: ORIGINAL: notthetongs Based on letters I get fairly often, most of them suddenly decide that despite being very Rawr and Grr, they simply must surrender to this urgent craving to worship at the feet of some Asian chick they don't really know. Meh, I'd rather tie her up and do evil things to her body. [sm=whip.gif] ... and see, that would make sense! But nooooo. I get these guys who describe themselves as if they're trying to impress me with their uber-dom-ness and then say, "but I've always wanted to worship an Asian dominant woman like you. Just give me a chance!" rolls eyes Last time I bottomed was 93. Ain't happenin' that way again. By the way, welcome to the forums notthetongs. [:)]

reydrx -> RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives (12/13/2011 10:14:09 PM)
Don't forget you have to totally remodel the basement; half to store your leather and latex goods, another quarter goes to the toys and "video production studio" leaving you with a whole quarter to actually play in. All of that is insanely expensive as well. Which is why we live in our mother's basement (way easier than remodeling a cave). Ooh. I think I hear some prey approaching. Where's that damn club? God I need to get this place cleaned... I am sick of McDonalds, beer and cheezits....I need someone to cook. Will the Salvation Army pick up dirty clothes as a donation? I can always buy more. Damn, what do we do without our subs? ROFLMAO

Achillesx7 -> RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives (12/14/2011 9:40:15 AM)
Thats a good question as I've been pondering it since my last sub and I ended things, however we didnt meet on a lifestyle website so this is all new to me leading me to question the success on can have in using CM to actually FIND a real sub looking to meet, or if just vanilla life hoping to find a sub is more efficient?

ResidentSadist -> RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives (12/14/2011 10:57:46 AM)
What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives? I hate it when you find yourself fresh out of slaves. I don't know about others, but I would be taking applications for an immediate replacement.

David519 -> RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives (12/14/2011 12:44:47 PM)
When my go to isn't around I use Poser (a 3D rendering application) as an outlet, creating S&M scenes. The advantage is that you truly have a no-limits sub, the draw back is that it takes a huge amount of technical skill, and over time more money that it would cost to go to a pro :) I just started a blog to feature my work (and my techniques) a few days ago. My first piece of work, and my last are posted, if you're curious. Warning: Link contains explicit sexuality http://dark3darts.blogspot.com/?zx=42edd948a86f8227

kalikshama -> RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives (12/15/2011 10:56:39 AM)
quote: Thats a good question as I've been pondering it since my last sub and I ended things, however we didnt meet on a lifestyle website so this is all new to me leading me to question the success on can have in using CM to actually FIND a real sub looking to meet, or if just vanilla life hoping to find a sub is more efficient? The M:F ration being what it is, the odds are not in your favor. Also try attending local BDSM events and putting kinky keywords in your profile on a vanilla site such as OKCupid, which is where my D found me. OKC's kinky quizzes are a way to screen.

Higuysitsme -> RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives (12/15/2011 3:24:41 PM)
They could always come and talk to me!

anniezz338 -> RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives (12/15/2011 3:28:07 PM)
Well what in the hell do you want? flip....if you knew what you wanted, this would be a non issue What do YOU want?

BeanTwiceOver -> RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives (12/18/2011 2:18:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stacey4u2luv Number three would have it to the closest. i myself when i had no Dom did not stop me from attaching nipple clamps to myself i would go in the tub actually and spread my legs under the water faucet with clamps attached, sometimes with a butt plug too. haha It is easy for a sub to grab one of her own floggers and stike the sides of his or her own legs etc... On other occasions i would light up candle sticks and drip them on myself. i do not suppose Doms would do such things, but maybe other things. Why do you not suppose? I've never quite understood why this idea seems so weird to people. This came up in a Fetlife thread I saw once, and pretty much everyone was saying things like, "I'm a masochist, so I hurt myself, but a sadist couldn't do that." Why the heck not? That's pretty much what I did when I was younger and in a hungry mood - force myself to take whatever form of discomfort I knew I could actually make myself take (not a fan of discomfort, me, I'm rather known to avoid any and all discomfort, actually) until I'd gotten some satisfaction out of having forced someone to suffer my arbitrary and cruel whims. Over-exercise generally worked best, because I was into sports and that was a type of pain I was used to and would feel too lazy/ashamed to back out of. I wondered for years (and well before I really knew what BDSM was) if this behaviour made me "some sort of masochist." Wasn't until I talked to a few maso friends about how they like to hurt themselves that I saw how our approaches to it and motivations were nearly polar opposites. I don't really do it so much anymore, I guess because I'd be too aware of the mental processes involved for it to "work" now - this was something I did when I was very young and very clueless. I think now instead of watching myself suffer, I'd just end up watching myself watching myself and feeling ridiculous about the "masturbation" attempt. If I had less shame, I'm sure it would still "work," though.

KneelOpenly -> RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives (12/18/2011 1:57:41 PM)
We spend time with females who have a curiosity for the lifestyle. We work, practice, check out Collarme and listen to all the female slaves talk about the fakeass Masters that they have the unfortune to run into. It's a fact that there are fake slaves out there and Masters spend alot of time dodging them as well. So, see, Our lives without a real slave is just as fucked up as the real slaves' lives without a real Master or Dom. Reality is a bitch when it comes calling.

BKSir -> RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives (12/18/2011 2:03:20 PM)
Uh, Same thing I do when I have a sub, only, I do it without a sub. Work, shop, keep the household running, watch football and hockey if I have tha chance, go christmas shopping, have dinner, pay bills... Only difference is, instead of taking care of a sub, I look for a sub.

SimplyMichael -> RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives (12/18/2011 3:22:14 PM)
We write bad porn too...

J1M -> RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives (12/18/2011 3:41:15 PM)
I stay home on the days that the cleaning ladies come, and break out my riding crop if they miss a spot. Gone through 17 cleaning companies so far.

ScottFreakshow -> RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives (1/3/2012 11:00:32 PM)
I lol'd. Hard. This whole thread is brilliant.

MistressMeltz -> RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives (1/9/2012 1:57:48 AM)
Mostly just normal stuff. I might toy with a slave that presents himself while Im bored...

DivineDemise -> RE: What do Doms do when they do not have a sub in their lives (1/9/2012 6:16:38 AM)
wither away??

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