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Mercnbeth -> RE: I need an answer. (5/29/2006 8:56:02 AM)
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Does a dog have rights? Beyond the owner's responsibility to provide basic food and shelter there is no obligation; love an affection are at the whim of the owner. A dog can "get into trouble", needs constant feedback/training reinforcement, the thought process of a dog is basic; "how can I please My Master/Mistress?" The dog can enthusiastically bring a favorite toy, put their head under Master's hand to solicit petting, sit at Master's feet waiting for a order to fetch something; all at the whim of Master. Taken to the extreme, a human 'puppy' may not be able to communicate other than in the manner of a dog, and any 'requests' are just as basic; food, water, come in/go out.
Some/all of these activities may be interjected in "normal" BDSM play, but the full time or scene doggy role play, is a great tool to "let go". People constantly took for examples of how to maintain a M/s dynamic 24/7. Look to the example of puppy play as one guide. It also is a way for someone new to understand the responsibility of taking on either side of the flogger for an extended period of time. An experienced Master can use it to "shock" a submissive into the extent of his expectations, a experienced submissive can offer a first time dominant as a practical example of the extent of possible submission. How extreme you get is determined by both partners. Very basic 'puppy play' is a collar. Unless its just a fashion statement, a collar is the first, and basic a facet of puppy play, or 'pet' play.
Psychologically, puppy play also serves as a liberating emotional tool. Many people are still bothered by guilt concerning BDSM activities from either perspective. 'Playing' the role of a dog, or owning a 'dog'; dehumanizes the activity. You may never feel comfortable spanking a human, but you may have no problem disciplining a pet. You would NEVER parade naked out of doors, and would rather wet your pants rather than go to the bathroom outside; a puppy doesn't have any qualms about either activity - it's 'natural'.
Each person's reason's are unique and serve the relationship as determined by the members of it.
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