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Of course no inflicting permanent marks etc... more along the lines of mental is what i mean here. Other means of getting inside someones head without causing mental damage along side with a beating or other possibilities.

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Make him/her cut onions for me. I hate cutting onions.

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Make him/her cut onions for me. I hate cutting onions.

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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

Well she does say "without causing mental damage"...

The truth is, stacey, none of us know enough about what's hiding in your brain, what skeletons you have in your closet, what would reeeeally set you off. All anyone could tell you is "this is what makes me/my s-person fall apart" -- but what good is that going to do you?

Do you want titillation? Or what?

Have you ever tried a sjambok?

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sjambok

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ORIGINAL: stacey4u2luv


No cannot say that i have tried sjambok, looked it up however. Which one do you use the plastic or the one made of hide?

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She was a very strong-willed, very intelligent woman who was a dominant lesbian.

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ORIGINAL: JanahX

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She was a very strong-willed, very intelligent woman who was a dominant lesbian.

You had a relationship with a dominant lesbian huh ....

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ORIGINAL: Mazterlock

I think many pain sluts cry a lot but they do not want you to interpret crying as a bad thing. Pain is very cathartic and the emotional release is intense. They cry long before they reach a limit. That said, your question is different and here's one experience that I had with a women who absolutely did not cry no matter what.

I had a wonderful relationship with a pain slut but it was a challenge and it had a sad ending. She would act bratty in hopes that this would get me to punish her more severely. She would never cry and never use a safe word to help manage how much pain was inflicted. For her, orgasms were difficult to achieve without intense pain. To make things more complicated, she made her living as a stripper and she could not work if she had marks on her body. But, she would not protect her need to work and I had to make sure that I left no marks that would last too long or be too obvious.

I learned to modify her bratty behavior with bondage that was comfortable but inescapable. I would enjoy myself around the apartment without touching her and I would make love to her gently instead of rough. I needed to be very careful about bondage because she would try to choke herself out if there was any possible way to do this. Believe it or not, that cured the obnoxious attitude that she would try out on me once she learned that I knew that pain was always a reward for her.

She was very open to public degradation but I think that was different from the pain for her. She was an attention whore as well. Frankly, she would call my bluff and do things in public that called too much attention to us. I think that she enjoyed shocking me in this way. For example, she once had me write "Whip Me" on her ass in big black letters before we went out to a party. She wore a mini-skirt and would flip up her skirt to show this message to my friends. I learned that some fantasies can get awkward if you know what I mean! I still have a picture of that.

She was a very strong-willed, very intelligent woman who was a dominant lesbian. She spotted submissive strippers easily and took advantage of those opportunities. But, for some reason, she submitted to me and I was very lucky for it. I got to know her well and she never cried no matter what - even when discussing very difficult experiences from her past.

She started taking pain killers without my knowledge as a way to handle even more pain. She got addicted to a prescription pain killer. I got her into rehab and she moved away from New York. I lost touch with her and I wish I knew if she was doing OK today.