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RE: Question for the group - 5/29/2006 7:24:48 AM

jamesthehumanrug

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ORIGINAL: sheareddelight

I have a question that I would like to throw out to the group...

How would you respond to a Master or Dom, that requested to see your picture before you even exchanged an email to determine if there was an interest by either or both parties?

Am I way off base here? I look forward to the replies.

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dear shear d-lite;
greetings
i'd get a picture taken asap
*have it developed on cd disc
*copy it to documents
* send it email, asap ,on attachment,
*or mail to their adress ....,IF you're ,THAT lucky ,to have ,THAT, info. ....

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RE: Question for the group - 5/29/2006 8:18:42 AM

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Personaly I like to know the face of someone I'm talking to even just as a friend (Not an absolute rule, there is one young lady I've talked to for months as a friend who I still have no idea what she looks like) but certainly if we are looking at wether there is any potential to go further than friend then a pic that shows their face is something I ask for pretty early on.

If it is someone asking for nude pics, before any relationship has started, then it is likely to be a HNG moron, block and delete!

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RE: Question for the group - 5/29/2006 9:56:20 AM

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ORIGINAL: MsMacComb

Until you relinquish power to a Dom/Domme of *your* choosing you have the right (and imho, the responsibility) to tell them no, not until you are ready or to fuck right off. You hold all the cards and its up to you to do what you want. Keep in mind that chances are good that a photo of yourself, any photo, clothed or nude sent to someone you don't know will end up on websites all over the world.

I can relate to that one...Just a few days ago, I had one sub, whom I have never had one email from or spoken to in any way shape or form, take my pic and reset it in a background of flowers and sent it to me in his very first contact with me, and then asked for more pics to pay "homeage" to me....

I don't even know this guy, he has no pic on his profile, and just had a two line profile at that...I thanked him, but declined to send any more pics, and wished him good luck on his search....it just kind of creeped me out. I'm sure he's just an over-zealous person, that thought he was doing something good, but I don't know this. It's not like we have had something going or anything like that, this was his first email to me. No telling what he did with that pic, and no telling what others do with our pics we don't even remotely know about

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RE: Question for the group - 5/29/2006 10:01:17 AM

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ORIGINAL: MrRodgers

I have had it both ways. I email even once or twice or even a few times ask for a photo and usually get one. Some I didn't have to ask for pics at all and got a whole portfolio of bondage photos, which for me at the time was totally off-subject but what the hell. Then with another and I thought we were doing so well after 1 email each, get to chat, right in the neighborhood, not 'mine' but very nearby, and she asks for a pic right away in our first chat. Said she wanted to know 'who' she was chatt'n with. I sent a clothed conservative pic and wooosh, she was gone like a virgin on prom night. Now to be honest, it could have been that one large eye right in the middle, but I was told my glasses did a good job of covering that up...but not really, I guess I was just hoping they were right.

well I guess it's good to know how superficial she is before you got to attached....been there lived that one. Kinda hurts your feelings, but in the long run was glad it happened up front. Funny thing is, all but about two guys, they all tried to come back at a later time with apologies and lame excuses for their behavior.....nah, their first impression was enough for me....lol

And I'm sure you look just adorable with your one eye...lol

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RE: Question for the group - 5/29/2006 10:03:05 AM

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I don't think a picture should be a necessity to have a friendly conversation with someone. When it appears that the conversation may lead to other things, pictures should be exchanged.

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RE: Question for the group - 5/29/2006 10:18:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: feastie

I don't think a picture should be a necessity to have a friendly conversation with someone. When it appears that the conversation may lead to other things, pictures should be exchanged.

Oh I totally agree...I was referring to those that claim they want to "apply"....I talk to a lot of people to just talk and I've never seen them. But I think it's only fair for those that so called want to serve and all they can do is talk about my pic and how I look, etc and etc...I just want to start out on the same foot.

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