sexyred1 -> RE: How does emotion figure into your on-line interactions? (12/10/2011 6:32:23 AM)
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ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr With only a very few exceptions (people that suffer from grave mental/emotional disorders), I don't see how anyone can be completely dis-passionate about a subject upon which they have formed an opinion. I would suggest that the very fact that they've formed an opinion suggests a certain amount of "emotional involvement". I think the very nature of being human beings means that some amount of emotion is involved in the reasoning process. Having said that, I am passionate about a few subjects and therefore; have very strong opinions about them. The only times I have ever gotten angry is when an ad hominem attack has been launched which I know to be untrue (either about me or someone else). Firstly, in civilized debate, personal attacks have no place. They don't move the discussion forward and they're just beneath people who are supposed to be loving, sentient, beings. Peace and comfort, Michael I completely understand your first two paragraphs. Certainly there is some amount of emotion in all aspects of our lives. It is the third paragraph I don't get, the getting angry at words on a screen typed by people you do not know well enough to care what they think. If I sincerely care about a person, respect that person.......then what they think really matters to me. It's the whole, being clueless about the type of person that is sitting on the other side.......that's what I struggle with. If I don't care about the person, if I don't have any respect for their opinions, then I don't really care what they think about me or my opinions. That's where I can't be arsed to be upset. Great topic, LaT. I think that if you are a fairly normal person, vs. someone with anger management issues or insanity, the only time you may demonstrate anger or hear anger in someone's words online is when the person is reacting to the words on the page on a touchy subject. Sometimes, you are just having a bad, freaking day and you want to vent to pixels. Of course, you really should not ever do that; even if a topic upsets you on a personal level, you don't know someone well enough to respond with real anger and you should walk away from the computer if something is affecting you that strongly. I understand what you mean about other posters; I don't know very many people personally on the boards, even though I have spoken on the phone to some. But I can still "like" or "hate" someone based only on their words and my initial response in the past was to react. Now, I don't post as a personal reaction, I only comment on a topic because I just do not care enough to get upset at strangers. I also think some people have too much free time so they become highly invested in the boards.
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