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RE: Stranger Danger - 12/10/2011 6:59:21 PM

ChatteParfaitt

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I think this situation is far more dangerous than hooking up at the late night bar.

So first, meet her in a public place like a restaurant so you can check her out. Second, Do not bring anything to the meeting, (jewelry, cash, credit cards), that you don't want stolen. Third, be prepared for disappointment and be pleasantly surprised if things go well.

Normally I don't suggest a safe call. Let her know you will be doing this at that public restaurant, so you can gauge her reaction.

If you feel in the least hinky, don't let her tie you up. Please, please attempt to think with your big brain as opposed to your little one.

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RE: Stranger Danger - 12/10/2011 8:35:27 PM

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I am not paying her to come here, this is a shared fantasy something she has also wanted. As for precautions we are going to be meeting and playing at a friend of mines house, so there will be people I trust near by. They may even want to watch. Why I haven't been able to find someone local to do this? Well it a not some strange and unusual practice, but I have very specific ways I want to do it, which do not follow typical protocol. I will come out of it will all my parts and no new ones.

As for stories, I have one. A friend of mine met a guy here on CM. She emailed back and forth and agreed to meet him. They hit it off and went back to her apartment. Suddenly she found herself hogtied and in short order severely beaten. Which was not what she wanted or agreed to. She was too embarrassed to call the cops and he started stalking her. I almost caught him late one night, I was at her place and went out for a pack of smokes. As I was walking back to her apartment A guy was heading the same direction then when he saw me go up the stairs to her place he turned and ran off. So she and I set up a new profile here on CM, he took the bait. When he went to meet his new conquest I was there waiting for him. He never bothered her again.

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RE: Stranger Danger - 12/10/2011 10:07:27 PM

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Ahhh so you really won't be at her mercy like you claimed, because you will be at a friends house. So basically, you really just wanted stories. You wanted to come off as if something could happen to you and thought people would tell you their stories of meeting for kinky stuff with strangers.

I don't know about anyone else, but I sure don't think its cool to misrepresent your situation wanting others stories.

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RE: Stranger Danger - 12/11/2011 12:57:42 AM

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Locket, I was very direct in asking people for their stories. I did not ask anyone to comment on what I was doing. That was not the point of this thread. I was really interested in other peoples stories. Such as the one I shard. Terribly sorry your life has been so dull that you do not have any to tell.

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