LanceHughes
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Fornica, Fornica....my sweet Fornica. Come sit next to me and I'll dry your tears. What I did was what was any good Dom would do. Instruction delivered in a firm tone of voice. You want to be yelled at? NOT going to happen. I don't yell. On a keyboard, BIG LETTERS are yelling. In real life, punishment is simple.... withdrawal. If the sub wants interaction, is there a better punishment than withdrawal? Time-outs, or corner-time, or "Do not send an e-mail or call or in anyway try to contact me for the next 36 hours." (Of course, length of punishment depends on the severity of the misbehavior.) My very favorite: "I'm so disappointed in you. Please take as much time as you think you need to think about what you've done. Come back when you're ready to chat about it and how you intend to prevent that from happening again." After hearing that, that would be the time to start crying..... but only if that was directed at you..... which it most certainly is NOT!
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"Train 'em the right way - my way." Lance Hughes "Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer, but wish we didn't." Erica Jong 10 fluffy points 50 nz points Member: VAA's posse
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