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Submissive/ Slaves women & age - 12/14/2011 9:49:53 AM

Achillesx7

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I wonder as far as submissive/ slave women which do doms or in general do you find the best age bracket is for finding a healthy sub/slave that is ready to embrace a realtionship or be serious and put concious effort into being the best sub/slave. I know there are natural subs as i am a natural Dom and consistently learning how to expand & further educate myself. I just wonder if there was an average age group be it ealy to mid twenties or mid thirties to more mature and wise women?

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RE: Submissive/ Slaves women & age - 12/14/2011 9:55:37 AM

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A person's willinngness and enthusiasm has nothing to do with age.
It's more to do with preferences in parters, and sometimes certain age groups are deemed "better" in order to justify preferences.

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RE: Submissive/ Slaves women & age - 12/14/2011 9:58:01 AM

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You are willing to put effort into a relationship when you find someone worth putting effort into. Simple really. I am sure there are times when life gets in the way, but mostly if you meet someone that you want to be with then you will make time.

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RE: Submissive/ Slaves women & age - 12/14/2011 10:03:08 AM

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Personally.....within your own age range.

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RE: Submissive/ Slaves women & age - 12/14/2011 10:12:28 AM

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Sorry, there is no easy way to find a submissive or slave who is compatible with you. For instance, you would have to define natural Dom and natural sub for me to have any clue as to what you mean by those terms. How can I tell the best age for a natural sub if I have no idea what a natural sub is to you? Then you woud have to define natural Dom to me so that I understand what one is. I might then look at your profile to see if you are the best age for a natural Dom.

Finding a submissive or slave is just the same as dating. You date those who are compatible with you. You date those you consider interesting and want to get to know better. There is no easy way to get around the dating and the getting to know stage. There is no secret formula you can use to help you find that perfect someone for you. You just have to meet people and get to know them.

The best way to meet people and wow them with your super personality is to go to munches and events. It's very difficult to wow people online. Somehow the wow factor is lost in the pixels.

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RE: Submissive/ Slaves women & age - 12/14/2011 10:26:18 AM

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Touch'e. I do agree with PEPPERMINT as far as in person is concerned and it weems even if you do meet someone online again "in the pixels" 1. are they actually who they state they are and what is being looked for. 2. Will you meet this person face to face if and attraction is established and communication enjoyed? As for LITTLEWONDER I feel also to have a monogamous relationship the same age range does create a solid foundation for longevity & happiness.

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RE: Submissive/ Slaves women & age - 12/14/2011 10:49:30 AM

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For me, I like to narrow it down to the 18-80 age bracket.

As other replies have said, it's all in your head. Attitude counts more than age for me.

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RE: Submissive/ Slaves women & age - 12/14/2011 11:21:05 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint

For instance, you would have to define natural Dom and natural sub for me to have any clue as to what you mean by those terms. How can I tell the best age for a natural sub if I have no idea what a natural sub is to you? Then you woud have to define natural Dom to me so that I understand what one is.

I've always had an issue with that term. You can naturally have a dominant or submissive personality, but being A dominant or A submissive is learned behavior.

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RE: Submissive/ Slaves women & age - 12/14/2011 1:44:18 PM

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The right age bracket is the age the right sub or slave happens to be.

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RE: Submissive/ Slaves women & age - 12/14/2011 1:56:24 PM

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Sigh. You people have it all wrong. The best subs/slaves were born in 1930, so they were married off and living the 1950's lifestyle as it happened. That would make them 81 years old.

Good luck. No need to thank me.

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RE: Submissive/ Slaves women & age - 12/14/2011 2:08:37 PM

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I would laugh at someone the op's age believing he could inspire submission in me.

As it is op, you will be lucky to get anyone. Most females your age want someone with experience and really, how much experience can you have guiding another's life when you've been on your own for just a few years.

Go find munches in your area, especially TNG groups. And hopefully you'll find someone who wants to explore with you.

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RE: Submissive/ Slaves women & age - 12/14/2011 2:15:48 PM

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Around here 19 seems to be the age of choice for sub/slave types.

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RE: Submissive/ Slaves women & age - 12/14/2011 2:29:19 PM

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Personally, I prefer men within 10 years of my age. I have very little in common with much younger men, we don't have much to talk about. It usually is a big brag fest or subjects that neither of us can relate to. I really don't want to talk about their glory high school and collage days.

Older men are hard for me to relate to as well. They tend to go to bed earlier and seem to be more critical of things. Stories about how things used to be so much better. Ugh!

Its an age gap thing. I have not been able to find many loopholes in those two categories, but I'm sure there's exceptions to every rule.

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RE: Submissive/ Slaves women & age - 12/14/2011 2:32:14 PM

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I'm open minded as to age. Although, the likelihood of someone under 25 or over 55 checking all the boxes is slimmer - not impossible mind you.

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RE: Submissive/ Slaves women & age - 12/14/2011 2:33:22 PM

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I am over 55 and bet we have alot of the same boxes checked craze. Not that we will be doing the turkey trot at any point.........

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RE: Submissive/ Slaves women & age - 12/14/2011 2:34:40 PM

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lol.

I did say "not impossible" you dream-boat you!

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RE: Submissive/ Slaves women & age - 12/14/2011 2:41:53 PM

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In general, I agree with Janah. That said, I have a great friend who is 45 and we have tons in common.
My previous guy was 7 years older.
I generally like for them to be older; I don't feel that I relate well to fellas my age (27) and certainly not to younger ones.

I'm kinda flexible on age, but I also know that most older dudes have been-there, done-that when it comes to things like "family," and... i'd really rather not experience another partner's death while I've still got "time on my hands."So... there's a limit. If I got with a 50 hyear old, he'd most likely die when I'm in my 50s.

That said... a neato person is still neato, whatever the age, and people die in accidents at any age, too. So there's no guarantee.

That's my sorta-morbid post for the day. :p

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RE: Submissive/ Slaves women & age - 12/14/2011 2:43:59 PM

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Yeah, thanks for cheering us all up Lilly :-P

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RE: Submissive/ Slaves women & age - 12/14/2011 3:03:37 PM

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You're welcome!

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RE: Submissive/ Slaves women & age - 12/14/2011 4:09:37 PM

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Usually after the age they stop believing in «natural dominants»...

The youngest I would consider would be middle 30s to late 40s...

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