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Iamsemisweet -> RE: I am about to wash my hands of this guy (12/22/2011 10:53:21 PM)
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Well, I can't exactly get the fuck away, we work in the same building. I think you misunderstand. This guy is my friend, we have known each other for years, we go to lunch together, we talk a lot at the office. Kind of like office spouses, you know? Never has been, never will be a romantic relationship, I am in love with someone else. Besides, I am not convinced he is dangerous, but what do I know? I just see him every week day. I'm certainly not nervous enough that he is going to go all Ted bundy on me that I am changing buildings over it.
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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie
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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ
Telling him may enable him to see that it is in fact over... for good.
So, tell him and if he weirds out on you you can make a decision then to tell him he needs to get perspective and you are going to take a break until he does.
No.
Say "goodbye" in a very friendly fashion, and then find someone appropriate.
There's a difference between passion/lust.....and love.
Discern for yourself those items clearly, determine where you stand amongst them and then....run like the fucking Devil.
(Now, notice, I didn't say...."move away slowly"....I said {essentially}...."GET THE FUCK AWAY NOW!!!!!!!").
(As in.....like....now....today...before you do anything else....put down the pen and make this occur....become a reality....STOP what you're doing!!!!!.....don't do what you've been doing....and.....when in doubt...read the above....rinse.....repeat).
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