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No Strings attached cleaning - 12/20/2011 6:46:13 PM   
SpeakupSlut


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Status: offline 		At 50 it is always fun to hear about something new. I had never heard of no strings attached cleaning until I started to fill out the interests section. Anybody here actually received or done this with no other sexual contact?

I keep my house clean for a man. :) It intrigues me, though I can't imagine letting somebody into my house on a regular basis who I didn't think I could at least be friends with. So if they are getting turned on scrubbing my toilet I would think one thing would lead to another.
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RE: No Strings attached cleaning - 12/20/2011 6:48:10 PM   
Azonier


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Status: offline 		You've given me an idea!
Anyone wanna cum clean my spaceship?
I have candy!!

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RE: No Strings attached cleaning - 12/20/2011 6:58:50 PM   
hausboy


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Status: offline 		Yes. 
I have.  And do.

But here's a newsflash: it's not about the toilet (for me, that is.  I'm sure we've got folks on here that hold a different view)
Scrubbing a toilet in general doesn't get my rocks off.  Scrubbing a toilet for a local Domme who I respect....does.  Scrubbing a toilet for my Sir....who I know will inspect it ridiculously close...and will paddle my bum hard if I miss a spot....totally gets my rocks off.

Will I go to just ANYONE'S house and clean?  Yes...for $25/hour.  No, I'm not prostitute..I moonlight as a housecleaner!  Will I go clean anyone's house for free?  Hell no!  It has to be someone that I respect, adore, and in some cases, play with. (very seldom did it ever involve sex--and that was mostly with my [ex]wife)

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RE: No Strings attached cleaning - 12/20/2011 7:03:15 PM   
Azonier


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Status: offline 		How do you feel about aliens? (well actually, lessor-gods) 

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RE: No Strings attached cleaning - 12/20/2011 7:08:29 PM   
LafayetteLady


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ORIGINAL: hausboy

Will I go to just ANYONE'S house and clean?  Yes...for $25/hour. 


Ok, so how fast do you clean? Oh yea, and is mileage included in your hourly charge?

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RE: No Strings attached cleaning - 12/20/2011 7:16:45 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		My office, it is dusty. Well, actually only a few spots are dusty, let me show you them! Bring cookies.

OP, verrrrry few people are into DOING the cleaning. Me, I'd just as soon hire someone.

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RE: No Strings attached cleaning - 12/20/2011 7:31:54 PM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: Azonier

You've given me an idea!
Anyone wanna cum clean my spaceship?
I have candy!!



Yeah, right.  I've heard the stories about the alien probes.


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RE: No Strings attached cleaning - 12/20/2011 7:41:39 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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Status: offline 		I have a service sub who occasionally comes over and does organizing jobs and domestic chores for me. He's very good at it; so much better than I am. I generally give him the choice of whether he'd like to be nude or not because I don't give a fig one way or the other. We've never had sex and are only casual friends. He seems to enjoy it and I certainly appreciate his skill in this regard where I have none. This has been going on for a few years and I don't anticipate anything about the dynamic will change.

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RE: No Strings attached cleaning - 12/20/2011 8:03:37 PM   
Azonier


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: Azonier

You've given me an idea!
Anyone wanna cum clean my spaceship?
I have candy!!



Yeah, right.  I've heard the stories about the alien probes.



Oooh goody! My first volunteer! Come forth young man, and present yourself.

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RE: No Strings attached cleaning - 12/20/2011 8:34:55 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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Status: offline 		NSA cleaning?  yes, and no.  I've had guys painting naked for me, and guys who did my lawn, or cleaned my home etc.  I even had a guy go with me and a female dominant friend of mine to fetch and carry our arrows when we went to the archery range.  While sex wasn't involved, I wouldn't exactly say it was no strings attached.  They had needs, that service alone didn't always meet.  I had to be present.  I don't mean literally, but rather ...emotionally.  I enjoyed them, as much as they enjoyed serving.  It was something of a symbiotic exchange.  As much as it could be, with me not really being actually dominant, but more of a Top.  Some don't differentiate between the two, but I do. 

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RE: No Strings attached cleaning - 12/20/2011 8:40:19 PM   
LanceHughes


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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt
I have a service sub who occasionally comes over and does organizing jobs and domestic chores for me. He's very good at it; so much better than I am. I generally give him the choice of whether he'd like to be nude or not because I don't give a fig one way or the other. We've never had sex and are only casual friends. He seems to enjoy it and I certainly appreciate his skill in this regard where I have none. This has been going on for a few years and I don't anticipate anything about the dynamic will change.

// Lance counts laundry quarters.... //
DAMN!  Not enough for a round-trip ticket for him, and certainly not enough to get a one-way ticket, 'cause that'd include other, shall we say, "fees."

Can you say "FedEX in a box."?

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RE: No Strings attached cleaning - 12/20/2011 8:56:08 PM   
stellauk


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Status: offline 		I'm another one who has done and in some cases will still do no strings domestic work.

The core of my BDSM interests is service and discipline.

I don't get turned on by scrubbing toilets, or floors. In fact sometimes it doesn't register that I'm doing it.

I do it for certain people (mainly women but also couples) because of what it gives them. It's part of my entire philosophy in WIITWD that you do things for certain people because they either need them or want them.

I get off on pleasing people, making them happy, giving them the warm fuzzies.

I also get off on the discipline aspect - mainly internal discipline. Discipline is all about the process, cause and effect, and in this example it's me arriving, undertaking to do stuff, doing the stuff, and doing it so that it has an effect.

It's why I accept punishment. The punishment itself isn't that important. Being whacked with a cane or a paddle hurts. But it's part of a process, an emotional process which is part of the relationship and dynamic and that's what makes it important.

In my case it's no strings completely because there's never any expectation of play or anything in return. If a dominant wants to play then we'll play, preferably after I've finished the chores. If I want to play I'll ask and leave it for the dominant to make the decision.

But it's also the intimacy. It's when a dominant turns to you immediately when they have a problem and shares it with you.

That's when you are really in service.

But for those who aren't certain people I charge the standard £10 an hour. You get the same service but none of the intimacy.

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RE: No Strings attached cleaning - 12/20/2011 9:15:21 PM   
hausboy


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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

quote:

ORIGINAL: hausboy

Will I go to just ANYONE'S house and clean?  Yes...for $25/hour. 


Ok, so how fast do you clean? Oh yea, and is mileage included in your hourly charge?


It depends on the size and condition of the house. No mileage--I only clean locally (for paying customers) 

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RE: No Strings attached cleaning - 12/20/2011 9:16:32 PM   
hausboy


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

My office, it is dusty. Well, actually only a few spots are dusty, let me show you them! Bring cookies.

OP, verrrrry few people are into DOING the cleaning. Me, I'd just as soon hire someone.


dusty....     bring...cookies...wait a second.....     is...this...a trap??!??

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RE: No Strings attached cleaning - 12/20/2011 9:29:29 PM   
MissImmortalPain


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Status: offline 		I have had this done more than a few times actually. Thing one and thing two often do little other than clean and talk(a lot) I have never had sex, of any kind, with either because...well to be honest I'm not sure what their genders are. I think one is male and the other female, but they might actually both be female. Anyway....yes, clean...they do that and ask for little in return other than that I listen to them speak(a lot) and from time to time speak back to them.

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RE: No Strings attached cleaning - 12/20/2011 9:33:51 PM   
tazzygirl


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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

I have had this done more than a few times actually. Thing one and thing two often do little other than clean and talk(a lot) I have never had sex, of any kind, with either because...well to be honest I'm not sure what their genders are. I think one is male and the other female, but they might actually both be female. Anyway....yes, clean...they do that and ask for little in return other than that I listen to them speak(a lot) and from time to time speak back to them.


Its times like these that I truly question if I am on the wrong side of the kneel.

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RE: No Strings attached cleaning - 12/20/2011 10:00:31 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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ORIGINAL: LanceHughes

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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt
I have a service sub who occasionally comes over and does organizing jobs and domestic chores for me. He's very good at it; so much better than I am. I generally give him the choice of whether he'd like to be nude or not because I don't give a fig one way or the other. We've never had sex and are only casual friends. He seems to enjoy it and I certainly appreciate his skill in this regard where I have none. This has been going on for a few years and I don't anticipate anything about the dynamic will change.

// Lance counts laundry quarters.... //
DAMN!  Not enough for a round-trip ticket for him, and certainly not enough to get a one-way ticket, 'cause that'd include other, shall we say, "fees."

Can you say "FedEX in a box."?


"If it fits, it ships" Oooops, I think that's USPS.

Sorry, amigo...I think he only does it for women. Maybe if you put on a burka he wouldn't know, Lance?

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RE: No Strings attached cleaning - 12/20/2011 10:04:43 PM   
BKSir


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Status: offline 		I really need to find me someone to do that... *sigh* Soooo much shit to do before this weekend.

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RE: No Strings attached cleaning - 12/20/2011 11:50:36 PM   
FrostedFlake


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Status: offline 		Obviously, I am an idiot.

But I read it totally differently. Totally. Completely. Differently.

What I thought that checkbox meant is, WILL I do house work. As opposed to that other checkbox, which I took to mean, will I do housework... and have a good time.

Of course, I will certainly do housework. Someone has to do it. What possible objection could I have? (shoulda got a clue right here) But it does nothing for me. It's just something that needs doing. Y'know, work.

And now I gotta go change my profile. Excuse me.

And I am an idiot. Thanks for clearing THAT up.
FF


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RE: No Strings attached cleaning - 12/21/2011 4:14:01 AM   
thishereboi


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ORIGINAL: SpeakupSlut

At 50 it is always fun to hear about something new. I had never heard of no strings attached cleaning until I started to fill out the interests section. Anybody here actually received or done this with no other sexual contact?

I keep my house clean for a man. :) It intrigues me, though I can't imagine letting somebody into my house on a regular basis who I didn't think I could at least be friends with. So if they are getting turned on scrubbing my toilet I would think one thing would lead to another.


I have done it. But we were friends first and no I have never gotten turned on cleaning a toilet.


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