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RE: marriage to sub men? - 12/21/2011 11:04:41 PM

tazzygirl

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WOW!!! Angry, yes. Me thinks She doth protest too much! And Your missouri friend has more baggage than the airlines!
This venue is; Ask a Master. Not ask a bimbo. Not ask a psycho.

Problem is, you are looking to be owned by a female slave. They typically dont own anything their Master doesnt allow them to own. I asked the man not too long ago if I could have a boy toy to do the house work. Lead balloon should give you a good idea of how well that went over.

Im not saying you cant find one... I just think that your search will be extremely difficult.

Have you thought about looking for a Dom/me couple?

Most slaves... I do say most, but not all... dont see themselves as you wish to view them.

I have a huge problem with sitting on pedestals.
I tend to fall alot.
It hurts
I cry
My face turns red
Nose starts running
Just not a good look with winter fashions.

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RE: marriage to sub men? - 12/22/2011 12:02:12 AM

myotherself

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As a female slave, I'm struggling to wrap my head around the benefits of having a slave husband.

I'm wired for slavery because I want a man who will lead, control and make decisions.

If I was to have a male slave partner, surely he'd want the same? And who would do that leading? Certainly not me, because that's not the way I'm wired. I can think of nothing worse, quite frankly.

So what you're really looking for is a Master who wants to control multiple slaves, and has no problem with two of his slaves being married to each other. Not an impossible scenario, but certainly not common.

You have a better chance of finding a Domme, once you get over the 'me me me' thing and start thinking 'her her her'.

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RE: marriage to sub men? - 12/22/2011 5:05:30 AM

DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: cuck55

Everyone seeks to get something from a relationship. this lifestyle is no different. i had hoped that some experienced mature Masters might have experience with some married female slaves and would know if there was any desire among single female slaves for a marriage that would allow them to pursue a Master as well. This appears to be common in swinging and cuckoldry. At this point i'm asking for response from experienced MATURE Masters as to what they have experienced in this area. Thank You.

Let's try to rethink that situation for you and try to make it work by changing the dynamics. You want a woman, already serving (or intending to serve) a man, who would be open to an additional relationship with a sub man. The only way I could see that working is if she was a switch that needed to have BOTH her Domme and sub sides fulfilled.

Enough for abstraction. I checked into some profiles for local women and some friends I know to see what's happening out there.

Here is an excerpt from the profile of a local woman, aged 26: "So let me explain, briefly, the situation and you can decide if the situation fits you. My husband is gay and we have separate bedrooms. I needed health insurance and he didn't want to tell his parents about his alternative lifestyle. We don't have sex but he is my best friend. He means a lot to me and i cannot imagine a world where he isn't a part of my life. We arnt traditionally married."

Another from a local 23 year old switch: "I am married to my hubby and i keep him in chastity pretty much most of the time. I keep him locked up and he lets me do what I want with who i want, So we are now looking to expand from just our house to other people and play maybe move in with another couple or woman."

There is a local woman named Chris who is a switch and likes to be Topped and has a man whom she Tops. He wants it to be a full relationship, but she doesn't seem to want more than a play relationship.

Finally, there is a woman, very active here, who is in her fifties. She is late to the lifestyle and identified as a pure submissive until the last year, when she discovered her Domme side. She's in a solid relationship with her Dom and is also looking for a sub for herself but has been burned by poly dynamics before and I suspect she's be very leery of taking on a male sub, as opposed to female, as a result.

So this does occur, although it's rare.

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RE: marriage to sub men? - 12/22/2011 5:59:06 AM

masternoname

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quote:

ORIGINAL: cuck55

Everyone seeks to get something from a relationship. this lifestyle is no different. i had hoped that some experienced mature Masters might have experience with some married female slaves and would know if there was any desire among single female slaves for a marriage that would allow them to pursue a Master as well. This appears to be common in swinging and cuckoldry. At this point i'm asking for response from experienced MATURE Masters as to what they have experienced in this area. Thank You.

As a master I would have to say the above posters have hit it on the head. Very few submissive women are going to want you to play with, when they already have a master. From my own perspective, if you want a girl to play with, go find your own. You can't play with mine. Now if you honestly want to find someone, I would suggest changing your screen name. Anyone can click on the links in your profile and see what a charming little boy you really are just by reading past posts. If your do me attitude doesn't kill your chances, your whiny replies will.

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RE: marriage to sub men? - 12/22/2011 7:41:09 AM

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I have to pretty much echo what everyone else has said. I would have no interest in being married to and controlling a sub male. I think your best bet is finding a poly situation or a Dom/Domme couple.

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RE: marriage to sub men? - 12/22/2011 7:48:27 AM

NiceButMeanGirl

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First you say:

quote:

ORIGINAL: cuck55
Dear Sirs,
i feel that i would make a good male/wife to a female slave that has a Master. Is this something that is desirable for Your female slaves? What percentage of the time? Is it realistic?
Sincerely, cuck55
Then you say:

quote:

ORIGINAL: cuck55
This venue is; Ask a Master. Not ask a bimbo. Not ask a psycho.

Oh yeah, being a rude ass to the ladies is really going to impress the other ladies. The ones you want to get next to. The deal is, I don't see a lot of the Masters/Dommes here answering your original query in the affirmative. Even if they would have, your rude-ass attitude is not making you any points here.

NBMG

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RE: marriage to sub men? - 12/22/2011 8:00:52 AM

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Quite frankly NBMG, if my Master ordered me, as his slave, to marry someone like OP so he could act the bull, it would be the end of our M/s relationship. I wouldn't be able to tolerate the whiny ass OP in my home for even 5 minutes, even if I wasn't fucking him. If I'm going to marry anyone it would be my Master.

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RE: marriage to sub men? - 12/22/2011 8:14:30 AM

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ORIGINAL: cuck55

WOW!!! Angry, yes. Me thinks She doth protest too much! And Your missouri friend has more baggage than the airlines!
This venue is; Ask a Master. Not ask a bimbo. Not ask a psycho.

As far as I know, I am the only one on the thread from Missouri... so... I will take this. lol Baggage? Why in the world would you say that? Because I am sick, have a brain damaged son and am poor? lol That isn't baggage dear... that is life. Do you ever see me crying the blues? No you don't, I never have and never will. You don't see me acting out as you have and I am not angry. So unless you have something of worth to prove I have baggage... I will simply laugh at your attempts to call something that isn't as something that is.

Come on... get it out... it helps with real baggage to get that shit out and healed. I'm not afraid. So go for it.

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RE: marriage to sub men? - 12/22/2011 8:16:14 AM

DarkSteven

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OP, in my above post, I mentioned four instances where I have seen any vague possibility of your ideal relationship, in my ten years in the lifestyle. You'll have to amend that to three cases because you managed to piss off one of those four women in your posts in this thread.

You may wish to reflect on that. Should you ever manage to get a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, blowing it right away is pretty horrible.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: marriage to sub men? - 12/22/2011 8:21:14 AM

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He could be a minion. Being a minion is a lot like being a cuck. You don't get sex, you have to serve someone, another person gets treated like a (lessor) god (because of course, he is one) you're treated as disposable and you get to wear interesting clothes. Think about it. This could be your life's calling.

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RE: marriage to sub men? - 12/22/2011 9:00:37 AM

GreedyTop

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quote:

You don't get sex, you have to serve someone, another person gets treated like a (lessor) god (because of course, he is one) you're treated as disposable and you get to wear interesting clothes.

HEY!! sounds like my job! Can I be a PT minion for you, dear nose snatcher?

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RE: marriage to sub men? - 12/22/2011 9:01:05 AM

OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir

Quite frankly NBMG, if my Master ordered me, as his slave, to marry someone like OP so he could act the bull, it would be the end of our M/s relationship. I wouldn't be able to tolerate the whiny ass OP in my home for even 5 minutes, even if I wasn't fucking him.

Especially in a community property state.......

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RE: marriage to sub men? - 12/22/2011 9:02:49 AM

OsideGirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: cuck55
This venue is; Ask a Master. Not ask a bimbo. Not ask a psycho.

Gee, it's shocking that with all that charm displayed that you're still looking.....

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RE: marriage to sub men? - 12/22/2011 9:22:26 AM

Azonier

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

quote:

You don't get sex, you have to serve someone, another person gets treated like a (lessor) god (because of course, he is one) you're treated as disposable and you get to wear interesting clothes.

HEY!! sounds like my job! Can I be a PT minion for you, dear nose snatcher?

Of course! (don't forget about the interesting clothes part.) I'll expect a full description and pictures.
Lots of pictures. (or as you earthlings are fond of saying "it didn't happen")

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RE: marriage to sub men? - 12/22/2011 9:23:21 AM

GreedyTop

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oh. I thought YOU were gonna dress me. *sigh*

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RE: marriage to sub men? - 12/22/2011 9:25:07 AM

Azonier

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Only if you're "undressed" to begin with. (waggles eye brows sexily) (yes, sexily, gotta problem with that?)

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RE: marriage to sub men? - 12/22/2011 9:30:40 AM

GreedyTop

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well, since yer a lessor god type, I need to know what YOUR idea of "undressed" is.. yanno, since you godly types have different standards than us mere humans.. ;)

(hey,, do that waggle again! that was kinda cute!)

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RE: marriage to sub men? - 12/22/2011 9:37:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: Azonier

Only if you're "undressed" to begin with. (waggles eye brows sexily) (yes, sexily, gotta problem with that?)

Arent gods supposed to be above the sex thing? I thought that became the rule after Zeus.

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RE: marriage to sub men? - 12/22/2011 9:38:40 AM

Azonier

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Undressed? Well dear, that's when you're NEKKIE!!

I still think the OP would make a good minion. Hey OP, wanna be a mindless follower of a (lessor) god? It doesn't pay much, but the benefits are "out of this world".

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RE: marriage to sub men? - 12/22/2011 9:52:52 AM

GreedyTop

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ORIGINAL: Azonier

Undressed? Well dear, that's when you're NEKKIE!! So.. how is that different than a mere human?
I still think the OP would make a good minion. Hey OP, wanna be a mindless follower of a (lessor) god? It doesn't pay much, but the benefits are "out of this world".

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