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cuck55 -> marriage to sub men? (12/21/2011 2:34:40 PM)

Dear Sirs,
i feel that i would make a good male/wife to a female slave that has a Master. Is this something that is desirable for Your female slaves? What percentage of the time?  Is it realistic?
Sincerely, cuck55




littlewonder -> RE: marriage to sub men? (12/21/2011 2:43:40 PM)

It wouldn't be to me and personally I don't understand why it would be desireable to a femslave unless she was also a switch.





DarkSteven -> RE: marriage to sub men? (12/21/2011 2:45:52 PM)

I'm trying to wrap my brain around this one.

You're looking for female slaves to add you to their families.

1. Why would the slave want this?  A slave wants to serve, not be served.
2. If a family did want this, why would they want you specifically?  That's like saying that as a Dom man, sub women should want me, without examining what makes myself and a sub woman tick and whether we mesh.
3. Why wouldn't you just serve a Domme, or a Dom/Domme couple?

I guess I just can't fathom your idea. 




searching4mysir -> RE: marriage to sub men? (12/21/2011 3:02:03 PM)

FR

FFS....I'm a female slave and frankly I wouldn't come near you with a 10 ft pole or the cock of my worst enemy. I looked at your profile and it is all about you and your fetish. What would be in it for me? Absolutely nothing.




Lockit -> RE: marriage to sub men? (12/21/2011 3:08:11 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I'm trying to wrap my brain around this one.

You're looking for female slaves to add you to their families.

1. Why would the slave want this?  A slave wants to serve, not be served.
2. If a family did want this, why would they want you specifically?  That's like saying that as a Dom man, sub women should want me, without examining what makes myself and a sub woman tick and whether we mesh.
3. Why wouldn't you just serve a Domme, or a Dom/Domme couple?

I guess I just can't fathom your idea. 


Easy... he can't find a femdom to do it. Last ditch effort before the new year.




Fetters4U -> RE: marriage to sub men? (12/21/2011 3:23:18 PM)

Are you extremely wealthy and willing to pay tribute?
Do you have great health and dental insurance?
Are you great at housework and laundry?
Would you be content with 0 percent contact?

Seriously, just why would a slave or her Master want you?







peppermint -> RE: marriage to sub men? (12/21/2011 3:40:12 PM)

That is certainly a strange way to try to get a woman in your life. So she is supposed to keep dating and seeing her Master while you wait at home, work, clean, and pay the bills? Is she supposed to tell you about what she does with her Master? Is she supposed to use you for clean up service? Are they supposed to let you watch? What if she just uses you to work, pay the bills, and clean house? Would that be enough for you?

Quite frankly, I wouldn't mind having someone work, pay the bills, and clean if I didn't have to have anything to do with him and I could live my life just as I always have done.




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: marriage to sub men? (12/21/2011 3:47:06 PM)

Most sub women are not looking for a sub man, but then again, I could be wrong. I'm a Domme and I wouldn't be looking for someone like you either because, like someone else said, your profile is pretty much all about your fetishes and what your prospective partner can do to fulfill them.




lizi -> RE: marriage to sub men? (12/21/2011 3:56:52 PM)

Hey there OP, your single minded approach to marriage for the sole purpose of you getting your kink on is creepy beyond belief. From your profile you obviously don't care about a woman beside her ability to fit a caricature of what is attractive to you for your fetish. You honestly think your obsession makes you marriage material? What planet do you live on?

Lockit is right, you're looking for slave because you couldn't find a Domme to play house with you, and you figure maybe  you'll get lucky in this avenue. You're willing to settle for less at this point while still trying to get someone to pay attention to your all-encompassing kink. Ugh.




cuck55 -> RE: marriage to sub men? (12/21/2011 4:11:56 PM)

i'll have to look at my profile. i did intend to be open up front about what pushes my buttons. i have good success with Women in general, but i have never had a cuckold relationship. There does seem to be anger and a lack of maturity in a response or two. But thank You for the response none the less.




searching4mysir -> RE: marriage to sub men? (12/21/2011 4:30:24 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: cuck55

i'll have to look at my profile. i did intend to be open up front about what pushes my buttons. i have good success with Women in general, but i have never had a cuckold relationship. There does seem to be anger and a lack of maturity in a response or two. But thank You for the response none the less.


Anger? Nope. Incredulity? Yep.

It amazes us how at your age you could be so clueless about women. In reality we are not all that different from vanilla women (which leads me to doubt that you have good success with women in general because you don't seem to be able to understand that men and women are different in more ways than just our genitalia).

Being upfront about what pushes your buttons is fine to a point, but understand until we give a shit about you as a person, your kinks don't matter to us all that much other than a way to rule you out (if they are hard limits). We have to like the man you are before we are willing to indulge your kink. Your profile and this post say nothing about that man.




Lockit -> RE: marriage to sub men? (12/21/2011 4:38:06 PM)

Actually his post and profile say a great deal about the man. lol

Me, me, me, me... do me and do it lookin good. All well and fine.. just not very successful. Women... expect a bit more in a man.




MissToYouRedux -> RE: marriage to sub men? (12/21/2011 5:04:03 PM)

Can't blame a guy for trying, I guess. Essentially, if it worked, he would get his cuckold relationship with a built-in bull. There's a logic of sorts. [:D]




Fornica -> RE: marriage to sub men? (12/21/2011 6:02:37 PM)

You guys are all way ahead of me, I can't even understand what the hell the original post is asking, it's all jumbly.




RaspberryLemon -> RE: marriage to sub men? (12/21/2011 6:42:25 PM)

To be honest this question is laughable. Everything relevant has already pretty much been said, but...

Why would I want to marry someone other than my Master, the love of my life? Why would I give that special commitment and priority to someone other than my Master, especially someone I don't want and don't care about? I don't want or need to be with anyone else but him--I'm a monogamous person and he is my #1, always and in everything. Marriage is about love, commitment, and devotion--all three are things I share deeply with my Master. It's sad that you see a marriage as something to help you get your rocks off/fulfill your cuckolding fetish. There's also a fundamental flaw in your little request/plan here: They're slaves for a reason. They like to serve, not be served. And what would the prospective Master get out of this arrangement? Nothing? Why would he want it, then? Think before you speak, man.




cuck55 -> RE: marriage to sub men? (12/21/2011 8:15:57 PM)

WOW!!!  Angry, yes. Me thinks She doth protest too much! And Your missouri friend has more baggage than the airlines!
This venue is; Ask a Master. Not ask a bimbo. Not ask a psycho.




cuck55 -> RE: marriage to sub men? (12/21/2011 8:22:12 PM)

Everyone seeks to get something from a relationship. this lifestyle is no different. i had hoped that some experienced mature Masters might have experience with some married female slaves and would know if there was any desire among single female slaves for a marriage that would allow them to pursue a Master as well. This appears to be common in swinging and cuckoldry. At this point i'm asking for response from experienced MATURE Masters as to what they have experienced in this area. Thank You.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: marriage to sub men? (12/21/2011 8:24:06 PM)

Anyone can post anywhere, cuckman. This is not a swinger site, either. Aren't you puttng the cart before the horse? What master is going to findyou a wife?




littlewonder -> RE: marriage to sub men? (12/21/2011 8:52:44 PM)

yeah because a slave with a Master would have no thoughts or experiences or views on marrying a malesub. [8|]




LafayetteLady -> RE: marriage to sub men? (12/21/2011 8:55:10 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: cuck55

WOW!!!  Angry, yes. Me thinks She doth protest too much! And Your missouri friend has more baggage than the airlines!
This venue is; Ask a Master. Not ask a bimbo. Not ask a psycho.



And exactly WHO are you saying is angry?  From where I'm sitting, you are filled with anger.  The men who answered said they aren't interested and the women who answered said they aren't interested.  What about that are you having difficulty understanding?




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