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newvoyage -> is this a good idea? (12/23/2011 12:18:30 PM)
What do you think of this: I hooked up with this really hot dude about six years ago. It was great hook-up sex, and we fucked for hours. We hooked up a second time and then lost touch. I've emailed him a couple of times in the past when I saw him on hook-up sites, but he didn't respond. I've developed a fantasy that involves this guy: I want him to own me, to have possession and control of me. Although I've always conversed with him normally, I have this overwhelming urge to send him an email saying something like: "Sir, I confess that I became a slave to your cock and cum. I will do whatever you request to get your cock in my ass. I need it, it is life to me. I want you to own me, and to do whatever you desire to me as long as it satisfies and gratifies you. I know I am nothing, but I will humiliate myself for your hard cock. Thank you, Sir." Opinions?

OsideGirl -> RE: is this a good idea? (12/23/2011 12:22:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: newvoyage What do you think of this: I hooked up with this really hot dude about six years ago. It was great hook-up sex, and we fucked for hours. We hooked up a second time and then lost touch. I've emailed him a couple of times in the past when I saw him on hook-up sites, but he didn't respond. I've developed a fantasy that involves this guy: I want him to own me, to have possession and control of me. Although I've always conversed with him normally, I have this overwhelming urge to send him an email saying something like: "Sir, I confess that I became a slave to your cock and cum. I will do whatever you request to get your cock in my ass. I need it, it is life to me. I want you to own me, and to do whatever you desire to me as long as it satisfies and gratifies you. I know I am nothing, but I will humiliate myself for your hard cock. Thank you, Sir." Opinions? 1) Never make someone a priority when they only consider you an option 2) He's just not that into you 3) Desperation is not attractive

Snort -> RE: is this a good idea? (12/23/2011 12:23:50 PM)
I told you : I have moved on.. More seriously, no, bad idea. You are already obsessed and all you will get is maybe another hookup followed by an even harder time getting your emotional life unfucked. IMHO.

JanahX -> RE: is this a good idea? (12/23/2011 5:37:31 PM)
You're 41 years old and you have this great amount of logic and common sense? Absolutely brilliant !! If I were you, I would get to e-mailing him right away. I'm sure he will be grateful and relieved that you finally decided that this is what you wanted and took action !! I'm sure as soon as he gets the mail .. he will be on the next plane, train or automobile to collar you !! what are you waiting for??? get to!!

Higuysitsme -> RE: is this a good idea? (12/23/2011 5:43:04 PM)
Its a really nice fantasy, but sadly seems unlikely to happen with this particular guy. If he was interested, he'd have been back in touch before. It can be a turn on to have someone you fancy ignore you, of course; feeds into the humilation type feelings, for one thing. I think you'd be better filling out your profile in more detail and then trying to talk with other guys on the site who might actually be interested in helping you fulfill your dream. Although bear in mind, you have to also consider their dream! Good luck to you.

seababy -> RE: is this a good idea? (12/23/2011 6:43:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Snort I told you : I have moved on.. More seriously, no, bad idea. You are already obsessed and all you will get is maybe another hookup followed by an even harder time getting your emotional life unfucked. IMHO. heh!

seababy -> RE: is this a good idea? (12/23/2011 6:49:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: newvoyage What do you think of this: I hooked up with this really hot dude about six years ago. It was great hook-up sex, and we fucked for hours. We hooked up a second time and then lost touch. I've emailed him a couple of times in the past when I saw him on hook-up sites, but he didn't respond. I've developed a fantasy that involves this guy: I want him to own me, to have possession and control of me. Although I've always conversed with him normally, I have this overwhelming urge to send him an email saying something like: "Sir, I confess that I became a slave to your cock and cum. I will do whatever you request to get your cock in my ass. I need it, it is life to me. I want you to own me, and to do whatever you desire to me as long as it satisfies and gratifies you. I know I am nothing, but I will humiliate myself for your hard cock. Thank you, Sir." Opinions? 1) Never make someone a priority when they only consider you an option 2) He's just not that into you 3) Desperation is not attractive You can't get more concise than that. Rule number 1 I'm going to add to my rules to live by. Do we have a thread like that?

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: is this a good idea? (12/23/2011 7:44:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl 1) Never make someone a priority when they only consider you an option 2) He's just not that into you 3) Desperation is not attractive This. ^^^^ ALL of it.

hausboy -> RE: is this a good idea? (12/23/2011 7:50:57 PM)
Collar Me: Rule #4 Anytime a thread begins with "is this a good idea?" ....the answer is almost always.... wait for it...wait for it.... No.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: is this a good idea? (12/23/2011 7:54:29 PM)
Whenever anyone asks this kind of question, I always want to answer with a resounding YES!! Do it! Then come back and tell us everything. Pictures or it didn't happen.

peachgirl -> RE: is this a good idea? (12/23/2011 8:09:52 PM)
Wank. Wank. Wank.

DarkSteven -> RE: is this a good idea? (12/23/2011 9:06:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hausboy Collar Me: Rule #4 Anytime a thread begins with "is this a good idea?" ....the answer is almost always.... wait for it...wait for it.... No. And it's almost a rule that the OP never return after asking.

Fornica -> RE: is this a good idea? (12/23/2011 10:24:03 PM)
I think it's the best idea EVER. Go forth! Run! No really...go. Go on.

MasterSlaveLA -> RE: is this a good idea? (12/23/2011 11:00:37 PM)
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MasterSlaveLA -> RE: is this a good idea? (12/23/2011 11:16:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: newvoyage I have this overwhelming urge to send him an email saying something like: "Sir, I confess that I became a slave to your cock and cum. I will do whatever you request to get your cock in my ass. [image]local://upfiles/687741/36EF314A0F3E48D6878C6BDF6BD92E08.gif[/image]

SexyThoughts -> RE: is this a good idea? (12/24/2011 12:05:16 AM)
Sarcasm aside. If you like someone, do say it to them. Don't hint, act coy, be mysterious.. because your attempt to play it cool, will give them them impression, that they leave you cold. And they'll go off with someone who is warmer towards them.

searching4mysir -> RE: is this a good idea? (12/24/2011 5:06:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hausboy Collar Me: Rule #4 Anytime a thread begins with "is this a good idea?" ....the answer is almost always.... wait for it...wait for it.... No. Collar Me: Rule #5 The converse of Rule #4. Anytime a thread begins with "does anyone like....?" the answer is almost always...wait for it...wait for it... Yes....somewhere someone likes it.

UberDominant -> RE: is this a good idea? (12/24/2011 8:02:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: searching4mysir Collar Me: Rule #5 The converse of Rule #4. Anytime a thread begins with "does anyone like....?" the answer is almost always...wait for it...wait for it... Yes....somewhere someone likes it. Actually, that is a corollary to the generally accepted Internet Rule 34: If it exists, there is porn for it. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Rule%2034

ResidentSadist -> RE: is this a good idea? (12/24/2011 12:14:25 PM)
I think this sums up the reaction you will get with one word

DesFIP -> RE: is this a good idea? (12/24/2011 2:52:30 PM)
You've tried to hook up with him since then and he's ignored you. Why would you think he would suddenly change his opinion of you from uninterested to interested. It isn't the dynamic, it's the people involved and he's made it as clear as can be that he doesn't want to see you again. Why are you obsessing on a guy you know wouldn't give you the time of day rather than take the risk of getting into a real relationship? Why are you afraid of being in a relationship?

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