|
Casteele -> RE: Dom's ? (1/1/2012 12:41:30 AM)
|
Had to go back and re-read the first page.. "Do Dom's show lots of interest in a sub and then as time goes on show less." Then a bunch of posts jumping to various conclusions based on almost zero information about the situation, only a simple question about a very general situation.
OP: Without details about how and why you feel he is less interested in you, I can only answer you in an equally generic sense. In general, losing interest as time goes by is a bad thing, showing he's not that in to you. But I do not like saying that because for all I know, it could be something more mundane; Most relationships, vanilla or kink, tend to start off like a roller coaster with highs and lows, but eventually tend to level out as familiarity grows. I've seen many people mistake this for "losing interest" when all it really is "we've done all the wild and crazy shit, now we're settling in to the relationship." You can only jump out of so many airplanes before that, too, seems "less interesting."
I see so many people who base a relationship on the constant thrill of the new and exciting, which kind of ends up being.. at some point.. the only new and exciting thing left to do is find someone new and exciting to start over again. I'm not saying this is the case with you--You don't provide enough info. And it could be on either or both sides of the relationship.
|
|
|
|
