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LaTigresse -> RE: Appropriate punishment suggestions (12/28/2011 10:45:48 AM)

Maybe she decided she doesn't want to punish him for her blowing right on past his safe word after all.........

Blowing being the key word.




bighappygoth39 -> RE: Appropriate punishment suggestions (12/28/2011 2:45:30 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MistrixMsE

Watch for the curly toes... they can never fake the curly toes!

LOL (and if I am coherent when I am cumming... I am faking it [:D] )



I have to totally agree on both counts.
I'm loving the comments on this thread. You ladies rock! [:D]




OsideGirl -> RE: Appropriate punishment suggestions (12/28/2011 3:13:44 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady


He told you he was close, by safe wording.  Apparently, you figured he was going to verbalize it in some other way (which you don't say you did in your post), and because YOU weren't clear he is to be punished.  Nice.
That was precisely my thought. He did exactly what you asked him to do....only you weren't clear on how you wanted it done. YOU set him up to fail.




Higuysitsme -> RE: Appropriate punishment suggestions (12/28/2011 4:45:22 PM)

I always hate these 'suggest a punishment' threads. You're the dom/me, s/he's your sub; you should know yourself and them better than anyone on these boards does. If a punishment is appropriate, then you are in the best position to decide what would be suitable for the two of you. Fair enough, suggestions may be useful, I suppose. But nothing's any good unless it matches up with the way the two of you tick; which we can't tell, 'cos we ain't you.

What do you want to punish him for anyway? So he got over excited because he was enjoying serving you, and forgot to tell you he was on the edge soon enough? I don't see the big deal; be glad he gets off on you so well! Talk about it, ok; agree a traffic light system for next time maybe. If the idea of orgasm control turns you both on, fine, apply suitable punishment; didn't someone suggest edging him half to death? (I could stand some punishment like that myself!) And just enjoy one another and your good fortune in being together.




stellauk -> RE: Appropriate punishment suggestions (12/28/2011 5:49:55 PM)

Hang on.... You're coming onto a website asking for suggestions for punishment over the way a sub behaved when you was giving him a blowjob?

Seriously?




LafayetteLady -> RE: Appropriate punishment suggestions (12/28/2011 8:01:30 PM)

Easy punishment, too.  Don't suck his dick anymore.  This wouldn't be nearly as funny if it was some 18-21 year old girl who *maybe* had less experience with blow jobs.  A 43 year old woman who doesn't grasp the concept of teasing a guy during a blow job?  Really funny.




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Appropriate punishment suggestions (12/28/2011 8:06:55 PM)


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

Most guys can't even speak coherent words when they're that close to cumming.



HEY!  That is a sneaky way to imply that we ought to be coherent when we're NOT coming!

lol

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Maybe she decided she doesn't want to punish him for her blowing right on past his safe word after all.........

Blowing being the key word.


This is FUNNY!!!!!




MistressDarkArt -> RE: Appropriate punishment suggestions (12/28/2011 10:04:12 PM)

I use a 1-10 scale with Wayward. When he shouts out '8' I know I have time to stop and tease. 9 is too far gone.




intriguedLynn -> RE: Appropriate punishment suggestions (12/29/2011 8:08:50 AM)

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Maybe she decided she doesn't want to punish him for her blowing right on past his safe word after all.........


A safe word is sacred and always honored. There was no punishment, only discussion.

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I use a 1-10 scale with Wayward. When he shouts out '8' I know I have time to stop and tease. 9 is too far gone.


Thank you. I find this much more to my liking than traffic light references.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Appropriate punishment suggestions (12/29/2011 8:29:39 AM)


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ORIGINAL: intriguedLynn

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Maybe she decided she doesn't want to punish him for her blowing right on past his safe word after all.........


A safe word is sacred and always honored
. There was no punishment, only discussion.

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I use a 1-10 scale with Wayward. When he shouts out '8' I know I have time to stop and tease. 9 is too far gone.


Thank you. I find this much more to my liking than traffic light references.



Okayyyyy, so why did you want to punish him for using the safeword?




Ninebelowzero -> RE: Appropriate punishment suggestions (12/29/2011 9:21:32 AM)

She was sucking his dick he called the safeword he shot his load. Maybe she doesn't like the taste or a facial.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Appropriate punishment suggestions (12/29/2011 9:25:01 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

She was sucking his dick he called the safeword he shot his load. Maybe she doesn't like the taste or a facial.


Who likes the TASTE? As long as it doesnt get in the eyes or up the nose...




Ninebelowzero -> RE: Appropriate punishment suggestions (12/29/2011 9:29:19 AM)

So you up for a cream pie Hibby?




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Appropriate punishment suggestions (12/29/2011 9:30:34 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

So you up for a cream pie Hibby?



Wouldnt that be your job, babe? I never got that cuck thing straight... wanna see how far I can spit a snowball?




Ninebelowzero -> RE: Appropriate punishment suggestions (12/29/2011 9:34:31 AM)

can you do it with ping pong balls?
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

So you up for a cream pie Hibby?



Wouldnt that be your job, babe? I never got that cuck thing straight... wanna see how far I can spit a snowball?





LadyHibiscus -> RE: Appropriate punishment suggestions (12/29/2011 9:44:48 AM)

No, can you?[8D]




Fornica -> RE: Appropriate punishment suggestions (12/29/2011 9:45:56 AM)

*checks thread title...*
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ORIGINAL: intriguedLynn



A safe word is sacred and always honored. There was no punishment, only discussion.







LaTigresse -> RE: Appropriate punishment suggestions (12/29/2011 10:00:14 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Fornica

*checks thread title...*
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ORIGINAL: intriguedLynn



A safe word is sacred and always honored. There was no punishment, only discussion.






Ya...........guess there is some debate as to the meaning of punishment versus discussion, in that house.

Apparently if you are a weal twue domme.........when you say punishment it is supposed to mean, what us fakes call, discussion.




MissMollyWA -> RE: Appropriate punishment suggestions (12/29/2011 9:27:22 PM)

Oh child, I feel for you. Take no offense at being called 'child', I may not be that much older in age, but I it seems I started the life much earlier than you.You are asking questions and that is good. You seem to genuinely want to do right by your man.

Don't be discouraged by some of the comments I read here. I'm new to online and have been away from the life for a while, but it seems online anonymity allows for comments that I may never have heard from my mentors face to face so long ago. Do you have anyone to mentor you in person, places to go watch others play? Don't answer me here, just something to think about. I see where you are from, and know there may not be much available to you unless you go down to a "big city". Think about it, and don't be afraid of asking questions. Like they say in AA... take what you like and leave the rest.

Blessings to you,
Miss Molly




Lucylastic -> RE: Appropriate punishment suggestions (12/29/2011 9:42:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt

I use a 1-10 scale with Wayward. When he shouts out '8' I know I have time to stop and tease. 9 is too far gone.
yes, used this a few times:)..with sucess, and a couple not so much, but all were fun :)
I have to say I do like to hear different ideas, things I may not see in my normal day, sharing can be cool, until it becomes a YKINOK(your kink is not ok ) thing




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