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Kaliko -> RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? (1/26/2012 7:08:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DBWhiskey Yeah, way off base, I was yelling at the original poster. Poise is my fav. Whew. Well, just FYI, when you post, the person you're responding to is listed in the corner. On your angry outburst post (the first one) is listed our wonderful Poise, so that is why I questioned it.

DBWhiskey -> RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? (1/26/2012 7:09:44 PM)
I just totally learned that. You learned me that. Now I understand the confusion, having been learned. Yay?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? (1/26/2012 7:14:29 PM)
YAY!

poise -> RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? (1/27/2012 8:43:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kaliko quote: ORIGINAL: DBWhiskey Yeah, way off base, I was yelling at the original poster. Poise is my fav. Whew. Well, just FYI, when you post, the person you're responding to is listed in the corner. On your angry outburst post (the first one) is listed our wonderful Poise, so that is why I questioned it. Thank you Kaliko, for attempting to save me from the threat of LARGE ANGRY GREEN FONT. I got your back too, sistah! [:D] And DB? Thanks for the kind words!

LaTigresse -> RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? (1/27/2012 9:00:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Awareness Why, yes. Yelling at someone and displaying your lack of control and inability to deal with a dissenting view does rather imply you're not really cut out for any kind of mature, interpersonal interaction with another human being. Thank you for asking. priceless

LadyHibiscus -> RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? (1/27/2012 10:09:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse quote: ORIGINAL: Awareness Why, yes. Yelling at someone and displaying your lack of control and inability to deal with a dissenting view does rather imply you're not really cut out for any kind of mature, interpersonal interaction with another human being. Thank you for asking. priceless Irony! I have the love of it.

SilentSlade -> RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? (1/27/2012 10:27:42 AM)
To me an Alpha male is 4 simple things. He leads others in achieving their goals. Calm, Rational. He has passion and acts upon it. Driven He is emotionally expressive and available. Good natured, Expressive, Inspiring He is protective of those he cares for. Loving, Empathic It is those qualities that make him attractive to others, both men and women. In my opinion every person has the ability to be "alpha" as the above are found in all human beings to some level. Does anyone feel there is anything missing in those 4 base qualities ?

FemmeDominion -> RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? (1/27/2012 11:05:30 AM)
Folks, I think the OP ran unless she has been peaking at the replies. She hasn't posted since the op. Just sayin.

Endivius -> RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? (1/27/2012 11:31:31 AM)
The fantasy : A real man has Marine tatooed on his arm, right below the heart with mom scribbled in the middle of it. They eat thier meat raw, don't ever get sick, and only wear black. The reality : A real man works a 50 hour week, comes home late on a saturday after working twelve hours and plays with his daughter. He lets her paint his nails, and reads her a story before putting her to bed. Instead of turning on sportscenter and watching the highlights from the games he missed, he massages his so's feet and listens to her bitch about one of the girls she works with.

MistressRuin -> RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? (1/27/2012 11:33:11 AM)
Hello everyone, normally I just lurk and enjoy the entertainment but for this subject just have to give my view. In my opinion the right man is the one that makes you feel like the person you're most happy being, I don't believe there's a set formula

Ninebelowzero -> RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? (1/27/2012 11:39:09 AM)
Hello Ruin welcome to the dark side of CM.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? (1/27/2012 11:42:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Endivius The fantasy : A real man has Marine tatooed on his arm, right below the heart with mom scribbled in the middle of it. They eat thier meat raw, don't ever get sick, and only wear black. The reality : A real man works a 50 hour week, comes home late on a saturday after working twelve hours and plays with his daughter. He lets her paint his nails, and reads her a story before putting her to bed. Instead of turning on sportscenter and watching the highlights from the games he missed, he massages his so's feet and listens to her bitch about one of the girls she works with. See, in my world, Sportscenter is on so he can watch it while I rest my feet in his lap.

MistressRuin -> RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? (1/27/2012 11:48:11 AM)
Hello, Thank you

Ninebelowzero -> RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? (1/27/2012 11:50:05 AM)
The reality. Work a 60 hr week by Friday then spend all weekend building stuff with only son. Never listen to his mum bitch cos she's an ex. Works for me. quote: ORIGINAL: Endivius The fantasy : A real man has Marine tatooed on his arm, right below the heart with mom scribbled in the middle of it. They eat thier meat raw, don't ever get sick, and only wear black. The reality : A real man works a 50 hour week, comes home late on a saturday after working twelve hours and plays with his daughter. He lets her paint his nails, and reads her a story before putting her to bed. Instead of turning on sportscenter and watching the highlights from the games he missed, he massages his so's feet and listens to her bitch about one of the girls she works with.

Tseegno -> RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? (1/28/2012 10:44:32 AM)
Sometimes, you have to learn enough to ask the right questions. What you want is someone who can put you where you want to be and keep you there. I feel dominance is about boundaries and control. Would you want an alpha male who would take away your freedom to leave the house or talk to anyone outside? Just as an extreme example. The short answer to your query is that you can get an alpha male defined for you, but when you found him, you would probably not care for a relationship with that man. Looking for any kind of relationship is not going to be easy unless you really care very little about what relationship you get. Life itself is about making choices. I find that when I work with submissives, what I am trying to do is craft an invisible box of restrictions that puts them into a place where the choices they have remaining to them are intensified by the absence of choices they did not want to think about in the first place. Each set of boundaries and control is custom designed for the person who needs those boundaries, so that they feel they ‘belong’ where they are put. People will routinely get overwhelmed by too many choices. The trick is to not think about them. Sometimes this is a tall order. I give the submissives I work with boundaries they can tell are there because, when they try to step out of the box they want to be in the first place, they get forcefully put back in. That process of someone caring enough to put you back where you belong forcefully, is to me, what gives the submissive feeling that their dominant cares about them. How can you tell if in an invisible boundary is there without testing? How can you tell if it is still there without testing it again? ‘Nough said. So, to sum up. The person who you likely seek, has the hard to define qualities of being confidant of himself, who he is, and what he likes. He will be able to make you respond positively to being restricted and made to follow his lead. Sometimes it is hard to tell the difference between rude, vindictive and sadistic when compared to forceful, intense and uncompromising. Both are examples of alpha males, but one may suit you where the other will not.

SilentSlade -> RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? (1/28/2012 4:51:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Tseegno Sometimes, you have to learn enough to ask the right questions. What you want is someone who can put you where you want to be and keep you there. I feel dominance is about boundaries and control. Would you want an alpha male who would take away your freedom to leave the house or talk to anyone outside? Just as an extreme example. The short answer to your query is that you can get an alpha male defined for you, but when you found him, you would probably not care for a relationship with that man. Looking for any kind of relationship is not going to be easy unless you really care very little about what relationship you get. Life itself is about making choices. I find that when I work with submissives, what I am trying to do is craft an invisible box of restrictions that puts them into a place where the choices they have remaining to them are intensified by the absence of choices they did not want to think about in the first place. Each set of boundaries and control is custom designed for the person who needs those boundaries, so that they feel they ‘belong’ where they are put. People will routinely get overwhelmed by too many choices. The trick is to not think about them. Sometimes this is a tall order. I give the submissives I work with boundaries they can tell are there because, when they try to step out of the box they want to be in the first place, they get forcefully put back in. That process of someone caring enough to put you back where you belong forcefully, is to me, what gives the submissive feeling that their dominant cares about them. How can you tell if in an invisible boundary is there without testing? How can you tell if it is still there without testing it again? ‘Nough said. So, to sum up. The person who you likely seek, has the hard to define qualities of being confidant of himself, who he is, and what he likes. He will be able to make you respond positively to being restricted and made to follow his lead. Sometimes it is hard to tell the difference between rude, vindictive and sadistic when compared to forceful, intense and uncompromising. Both are examples of alpha males, but one may suit you where the other will not. I like what you have to say here.

Clickofheels -> RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? (1/28/2012 5:02:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BoxwineForBrunch old spice swagger. j&b on the rocks. bitchin camaro. snaps at the waitress and makes her cry because he sees her noticing his receding hairline. knows why it's all bullshit, and explains in great detail "how they get you" throughout dinner. took a pua course with mystery and mastered how to use neg hits to keep you in your place. lots of strong, loud opinions. has pictures of a deer he and his buddies hooch and slapdick shot on his cellphone (pictures actually stolen from the internet). facebook friends with ketel one. short spiky hair. dressed like he aspires to someday be in an 1800 tequila commercial. vibes...lots of vibes. vibe on vibes on vibes on vibes. you'll KNOW. LMAO OMG!!! I thought this answer was soooo hilarious! I was going to suggest something MUCH less creative... Tell the guy to drop trou, grab ahold of his penis and give it a good pull. If it stays attached...VOILA!

Awareness -> RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? (1/28/2012 5:03:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse quote: ORIGINAL: Awareness Why, yes. Yelling at someone and displaying your lack of control and inability to deal with a dissenting view does rather imply you're not really cut out for any kind of mature, interpersonal interaction with another human being. Thank you for asking. priceless Yes, and excellent advice for you too. You'll learn more if you start to pay attention.

GotSteel -> RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? (1/28/2012 9:17:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BoxwineForBrunch vibes...lots of vibes. vibe on vibes on vibes on vibes. How many vibes do I need before I can be a Real Man? P.S. HULK SMASH [image]local://upfiles/566126/36F0D7575C8F4EB2881D1BFBF9104B92.gif[/image]

tazzygirl -> RE: How Can I tell if He's a Real Man? (1/28/2012 9:18:13 PM)
quote: See, in my world, Sportscenter is on so he can watch it while I rest my feet in his lap. In my fantasy world, its on so I can watch it while he rubs my feet. I like my fantasy world. Leave it alone. [8D]

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