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Chivalry is not dead, just captive. - 1/3/2012 9:32:37 AM

rumiboy

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I was raised in the Roman Catholic tradition of male ascendancy and exclusion of women from the priesthood. In my heart, though, I followed Sir Gawain and the other mythical knights, and took from them the notion that serving, defending, and pleasing a powerful woman was the highest calling a to which a man could aspire. Needless to say, I didn't get laid a lot, and was never completely consistent in practicing my beliefs. Then I met and courted the One who today I call my Queen, and whom I recently lost to cancer. While we were surely what would be called vanilla sexually, I had often thought and read about BDSM, and found some things frightening and some things fascinating. I have gone to a few local munches, but have never joined in any play. This will change soon. And I will post about my experiences. I hope that on CM I will find good conversation and friendship, and encouragement to jump into the pool and join the fun.

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RE: Chivalry is not dead, just captive. - 1/3/2012 9:57:47 AM

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I'm going to restrain the urge to correct your literary interpretations and just say welcome to CM. I hope you find what you're looking for.

Condolences on the loss of your Queen.

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RE: Chivalry is not dead, just captive. - 1/3/2012 11:26:28 AM

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good luck in your journey

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RE: Chivalry is not dead, just captive. - 1/3/2012 12:51:40 PM

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Welcome

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RE: Chivalry is not dead, just captive. - 1/3/2012 5:38:17 PM

Casteele

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Welcome to CM

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RE: Chivalry is not dead, just captive. - 1/4/2012 3:42:14 AM

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Welcome rum, speaking of which, nights under a round table, i've had a few!

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RE: Chivalry is not dead, just captive. - 1/4/2012 5:05:29 PM

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Yes, welcome and all good fortune to you in finding the companionship and friendship you seek.

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Peace and happiness is the way.'
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