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Natural progression? - 10/24/2004 9:44:27 AM

lilninotchka

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i am wondering...is there 'usually' (meaning more often than not) a 'natural' (meaning not forced or intentionally directed) progression from 'submissive' to 'slave' within a relationship? i realise that realtionships are not static - they are ever-changing, but is that change usually toward being 'more submissive' or 'slave-like'? Are you (generic you) more likely to try to direct the progression or let whatever happens happen?

Let me, before the whole 'sub-slave' issue starts, explain that i am using those terms to show a difference in depth of servitude in this instance. This is not how i would usually use the terms, but for this question, i am...i understand that everyone does not see eye to eye on the definitions, which is why i am explaining my use of the terms here.

Please understand, i am not interested in debating the differences or definitions of those terms here - that's been done elsewhere.

Perhaps there are better ways of saying this, but i'm not able to think of any right now.

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RE: Natural progression? - 10/24/2004 9:56:16 AM

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i think there is a natural progression that occurs if you are truely a slave mentality inside. But if you arent one to begin with then it wont progress. If you are though it will come naturally and you shouldnt fight it.

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RE: Natural progression? - 10/24/2004 11:11:14 AM

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Nobody can answer your question about if there is "usually" a progression because all they can report is their experience. However, you can put yourself into the role of researcher to get the answer by summarizing the responses. Since this recent thread in the ssbb newsgroup discussed similar ideas, reading it will increase your sample size.

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RE: Natural progression? - 10/24/2004 12:55:07 PM

lilninotchka

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Thanks for the link.