BootyBoy
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Hmm.. I could (and probably will) theorize about seduction as a concept and practice. But in this case, I have one example in mind, which was the best I've experienced on a date. I hesitate to do this because I don't want it to come off like a dime store novel, but it would be much easier to tell this story, then to spend pages of boring analysis and supposition. I should also disclose that this happened on a totally vanilla date. Like many, I haven't been in the lifestyle all of my life, and neither am I incapable of dating vanilla, I just strongly prefer it to be kinkier. So even though this was on a vanilla date, I hope it still has some general connotation here.
BTW, guys if you bother to read this beware, there is NONE to very little wankable material contained within.
I was having the first real date with a girl who I had liked, but only knew sporadically through friends and a few chance meetings. Finally, I did ask her out for coffee, and that went well, so this was our first real sit down for dinner date. I chose a pretty upscale restaurant that required that we dress, and that was interesting because we had only seen each other in casual clothes, so it was a change of pace to have me in my suit and her a sleeveless dress. I have to gratuitously add here that she looked absolutely beautiful in that dress! OK, so we ate, but we talked a very long time after dinner. In fact the waitresses wee blowing out the table candles and collecting the place settings when we finally did leave. she was a very intense person who always seemed to be genuinely interested in what you were saying, and I liked being witty and making her laugh. But it was more than that! We really did connect and it was one of those times when you realize that talking to another human being can be so much more entertaining and exciting than watching a movie or going to an event. We were performers for each other, and audience for one another. I think you have to experience those kind of moments to know what I mean.
So we left the restaurant and my car was maybe 1/8th of a mile away in a parking structure, but it was a nice evening and we were in a mixed-use urban neighborhood full of fountains trees and small gardens mixed between the downtown buildings. So we continued talking and laughing as we strolled along when I realized that we could cut off half a block or so if we went through the courtyard of this older looking building (it might have been a Christan Science building). Anyway, the attached courtyard spanned the block, but had these really cool looking arched pillars supporting a trellis roof or pergola.
So, up to now, we'd been talking pleasantly, but when we walked into this courtyard she gave me a long evaluative look and walked across and away just beyond we're the first pillar was and before I could follow she put her index finger up against her lips in a shush. She smiled, lingered, and disappeared behind the pillar so that it was now between us and emerged, still shushing on the other side. She began walking and so I just matched her stride, not talking (probably for the first time that night) just walking slowly and gazing at each other from about 2feet away. As the next pillar in the row came between us, she lingered briefly on one side as if she didn't want to take her eyes off of me, then emerged on the other side, smiling. There must have been 8 to 10 pillars in the row an we just kept walking, like mirrors to the other, looking into each other's eyes, smiling, slowly, but not speaking. Disappearing for a moment, and then emerging with a smile finding each other's eyes again. When you can't speak, your eyes do all the talking, and she looked so alluring and sexy staring back at me like that, never breaking her gaze. I felt like my eyes were burning holes into her with my emotion.
So, as we were moving towards the end of the courtyard, at the 7th or 8th pillar, I had an impulse. When we disappeared behind the pillar, I took two or three quick, but silent steps. When she came around the pillar I had disappeared, she stopped walking and almost turned, when I put my hand lightly in the small of her back, standing right beside her on her other side. She turned around and looked up into my eyes and smiled the most beautiful smile I have ever seen.
And of course, I don't really have to tell you what happened next.
That is without a doubt, my best experience being seduced. It was really spur of the moment. She could not have known where I would park, or what route we would take walking back. It must have just come into her head when we walked into the courtyard. But that was a one time thing, and it felt like I was in a movie or something. It was just perfect timing and the perfect environment for it to happen as it did. It was simple, it didn't cost any money, it wasn't pre-planned.
I assure you, the art is not dead. :-)
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