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LookieNoNookie -> RE: Don't call me "Mistress," call me "Chief." (1/10/2012 6:52:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: servuspet Ok, I'm one of "those guys" who has a thing for the term "mistress". I don't know why, it's simple, traditional. I think I'd feel weird using other terms, at least the first few times I did. But, this is why I never use those terms, until told which one. See? It's what it is.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Don't call me "Mistress," call me "Chief." (1/10/2012 6:54:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Fornica It's a bit of an irritant to me to be called anything on here other than Fornica, or my real name, in messages..although I realize (sometimes) the intention is good. In a D/s situation, I do use Mistress, only for lack of a term I would like better. I haven't thought of one yet. I hate the whole Goddess/queen crap. I prefer "*Master of the Supreme Universe" (Said, of course, in the most submissive of ways).*

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Don't call me "Mistress," call me "Chief." (1/10/2012 6:56:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus There is a local woman who launches into a RANT if you call her "ma'am". Very unseemly. I say we kill her. Maim her.....tear her into unknowable shreds. Dishevel her, as if she never existed.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Don't call me "Mistress," call me "Chief." (1/10/2012 6:58:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl I cannot stand Mistress, Goddess, and the like. Miss and Ma'am are my favorites if I'm in a dynamic with someone already. If we're not in a dynamic with each other, my first name is fine. Your first name is "Fine"? (Kinda unusual but....wtf....who am I to say?)

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Don't call me "Mistress," call me "Chief." (1/10/2012 6:59:20 PM)
(I've never known anyone by the first name of "Fine". That's different).

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Don't call me "Mistress," call me "Chief." (1/10/2012 7:07:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus There is a local woman who launches into a RANT if you call her "ma'am". Very unseemly. I say we kill her. Maim her.....tear her into unknowable shreds. Dishevel her, as if she never existed. YES!! RIGHT NOW!!

hausboy -> RE: Don't call me "Mistress," call me "Chief." (1/10/2012 7:35:01 PM)
I'd like to quote from my absolutely FAVORITE one-handed read, "The Guide to the Correction of Young Gentlemen" written anonymously by "A Lady" in 1920, later identified as Alice Kerr Sutherland. She was a real-life head mistress of a boys school...and later found that her skills applied to, er....boys of all ages, shall we say? Nothing in the book is sexual specifically...but they obviously figured out that it wasn't a book for governess' and it was banned and burned in 1924. Anyhow: there is a chapter on behaviour expectations, this section under the header : "Respect" "Pupils address me as "Madam" at all times--I barely tolerate Ma'am" and both "Mam" and "Mum" are entirely unacceptable. I will accept "Miss" from new pupils until they have been instructed differently. Young gentlemen rise to their feet whenever I enter the room, and whenever I address them directly "Young ladies" also rise on these occasions, but curtsey whenever they are given a command. Any failure in elementary politeness--I make allowances for lack of instruction--is answered by corporal punishment." [just a note here: "Young Ladies" refers to boys who wish to be dressed/treated as girls...yep! even in 1920!] Let me tell you, the section on spanking is exquisite.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Don't call me "Mistress," call me "Chief." (1/10/2012 7:46:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus There is a local woman who launches into a RANT if you call her "ma'am". Very unseemly. I say we kill her. Maim her.....tear her into unknowable shreds. Dishevel her, as if she never existed. YES!! RIGHT NOW!! FUCK that whore!!!! Her eyes are *too* close together! That's a sure sign of criminal neglect if I ever saw one!

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Don't call me "Mistress," call me "Chief." (1/10/2012 7:49:35 PM)
Whoa! She does have beady little eyes! And Hausboy, I l,ove that book!

PeonForHer -> RE: Don't call me "Mistress," call me "Chief." (1/10/2012 7:55:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: to me, ma'am is actually a way to try to insult and take away power, its not an honorific, its a way of saying "fuck you" without it being able to come back to them as being hostile on review I can see why women, especially, might feel that way. Shame - I can get turned on just by saying the word to myself. 'Mistress', though - nup. It sounds corny to me. But if it had the right effect on her - well, I'd get used to it and eventually enjoy it. Likewise 'boss', 'chief', or simlar.

hausboy -> RE: Don't call me "Mistress," call me "Chief." (1/10/2012 7:56:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Whoa! She does have beady little eyes! And Hausboy, I l,ove that book! Totally. It's my absolute fave. I actually had a copy STOLEN from my apartment. I was really pissed--it was an early edition. It took me a year to find another hard copy of it. It is truly the BEST book on corporal punishment that I've ever read--you can totally"hear" the voice of the author.....and just knowing the era she wrote it, the torrid history...makes it hotter! And for those who don't like "Madam"...she does have a chapter on the "the Goddess" and "the Mistress".

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Don't call me "Mistress," call me "Chief." (1/10/2012 9:54:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie quote: ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl I cannot stand Mistress, Goddess, and the like. Miss and Ma'am are my favorites if I'm in a dynamic with someone already. If we're not in a dynamic with each other, my first name is fine. Your first name is "Fine"? (Kinda unusual but....wtf....who am I to say?) Actually, it's....Hazel. It is what it is, but I don't hafta like it. lol NBMG

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Don't call me "Mistress," call me "Chief." (1/11/2012 7:21:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: ORIGINAL: to me, ma'am is actually a way to try to insult ..... Shame - I can get turned on just by saying the word to myself. Me too! Nothing is hotter than saying "Yes Ma'am" and knowing that it is said out of respect, admiration, and pure submission.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Don't call me "Mistress," call me "Chief." (1/11/2012 8:14:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009 quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: ORIGINAL: to me, ma'am is actually a way to try to insult ..... Shame - I can get turned on just by saying the word to myself. Me too! Nothing is hotter than saying "Yes Ma'am" and knowing that it is said out of respect, admiration, and pure submission. I'm glad someones understands! Hey, it's good enough for the Queen...

Ninebelowzero -> RE: Don't call me "Mistress," call me "Chief." (1/11/2012 10:35:29 AM)
Actually calling someone Ma'am is a real turn on for me.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Don't call me "Mistress," call me "Chief." (1/11/2012 10:52:54 AM)
No worries, Niney, you're assured a place in the harem!

PeonForHer -> RE: Don't call me "Mistress," call me "Chief." (1/11/2012 11:02:35 AM)
quote: Guide to the Correction of Young Gentlemen Available as a .pdf or .txt file here (so it should be transferable to a Kindle). It's a Scribd site, though, so you have to jump through some hoops.

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Don't call me "Mistress," call me "Chief." (1/11/2012 11:02:51 AM)
Harem? Did someone say "harem"? I want to join! Where do I sign up, Ma'am? ........errrrrr, I mean "Chief". [:D]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Don't call me "Mistress," call me "Chief." (1/11/2012 11:04:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009 Harem? Did someone say "harem"? I want to join! Where do I sign up, Ma'am? ........errrrrr, I mean "Chief". [:D] Now that I have the four lined up, I think it's up the men to decide who the other henchmen are... ETA and yeah, it's ma'am, kthx. Unless I get to wear a fireman hat.

MsSylverdawn -> RE: Don't call me "Mistress," call me "Chief." (1/11/2012 12:04:54 PM)
thats a new one.. Ive seen Nazi and Captive, Police Lady and Interrogation, Ive seen Doctor and Patient, Ive even seen AgePlay role play.. But Fire Chief and ??? resucee roleplay thats a new one.. I wonder who gets to do the fireman carry out of the burning building thing?

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