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sheisreeds -> RE: I'm so happy right now :) (1/11/2012 4:52:18 AM)
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ORIGINAL: SAMHAIN09
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Okay my Mistress she contacted me and she it turns out she does feel something for me she actually has for a while she even said that before she met me her life was empty and dull and that all she had was her job.
I don't view this as her whole life sucking, but rather being very happy to have feelings for one of her submissives.
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Any way she's decided that I will be her official right hand man this means I get to help her run her Dominate clients, dominate clients when she can't, help her pick out new gear and clothing, cook for her and give her massages. That's not even the best part I am now required to kiss her on sight and tell her I love her as my new tribute. I even got my own collar(well it's a tie to go with my suit that I wear when I serve her but it's the symbolizm that really matters I think). She is truly the best.
This is how I would expect her to start. She's not only a domme, she's a pro domme. She's taken back the reigns, and has changed things up to allow their feelings to be involved, and to increase contact with him.
Pro dommes have a tough time, and they can be pretty eccentric chicks. I get why, people pay them for a service usually because it gets them off sexually.
So yeah, she probably does have some issues, and her emotions are probably pretty protected. However, this is a step in the right direction. The OP obviously cares for her, and she obviously cares for him.
She's also using the D/s dynamic as the means of adjusting and increasing contact.
The only thing to watch out for is that a lot of pro dommes, are not lifestyle dommes. She sounds like she wants to be a lifestyle domme, the question is whether or not she has support and community exposure to make that work. As a lot of the expectations on her and maintaining her dominance in a pro session, are fantastical and unsustainable.
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