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LadyHibiscus -> RE: Oral sex (1/11/2012 7:30:42 AM)

Put it this way, Kana... I only need to swallow ONCE. [;)]




Iamsemisweet -> RE: Oral sex (1/11/2012 7:32:44 AM)

Ah, the ides of March. Works for me
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ORIGINAL: ashjor911

mentally uncomfortable, from eating you ??.... did you at least cum once when someone eating you down there ??

if yes, then how the fuck its "mentally uncomfortable" ?
if no , well you should book an appointment & let me show you how its done [8D]



March 15 is that ok ? [8D]






Kana -> RE: Oral sex (1/11/2012 7:39:57 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Put it this way, Kana... I only need to swallow ONCE. [;)]


Even in the Viagra era?
:-)

Nothing beats tantra mouth raping some slut to test this theory...




Iamsemisweet -> RE: Oral sex (1/11/2012 7:47:12 AM)


This kind of describes how I feel about it. May not be rational, but there you are
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ORIGINAL: Kana

It just feels (Oh man, this is gonna start a shitstorm) kinda submissive to me. Therefore I don't.
She blows me, but I don't reciprocate.
I know, I'm all one-way here and that's just not fair.
Grins
Which is why I am prone to pointing out that I run a benevolent dictatorship, not a freaking democracy.





LadyHibiscus -> RE: Oral sex (1/11/2012 7:54:30 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Kana

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Put it this way, Kana... I only need to swallow ONCE. [;)]


Even in the Viagra era?
:-)

Nothing beats tantra mouth raping some slut to test this theory...




Um. CHOMP. get it?

Kinder gentler Hib




Kana -> RE: Oral sex (1/11/2012 7:57:37 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Put it this way, Kana... I only need to swallow ONCE. [;)]


Even in the Viagra era?
:-)

Nothing beats tantra mouth raping some slut to test this theory...




Um. CHOMP. get it?

Kinder gentler Hib

Makes extra pained face. Crosses legs, places hands over the kibblesnbits.
Proof positive women are crueler than men!

edited to mention that where's a ring gag when a guy needs one :-)




outlier -> RE: Oral sex (1/11/2012 8:06:00 AM)

I disagree that it is submissive.  I think you are correct that the
essence of any submission is mental, but almost any act can be done
from either perspective.

That is the most intimate, delicate, sensitive, feminine part of her anatomy.
The part she has been told to guard and keep safe since childhood.  If
a woman will lay back and expose it completely to me I will show her who
is in control.  But the mindset has to be in place first. 

Same thing with a blowjob really.  It is all about the respective attitudes of
the parties involved.  Some women feel in control giving one.  Other times
you can show them that they are not.  Yet again proof that sex is in your head.

A lesson everyone talks about but very few internalize. 





LaTigresse -> RE: Oral sex (1/11/2012 8:10:13 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

Kana ain't licked pie in at least a decade.
No shit.
It just feels (Oh man, this is gonna start a shitstorm) kinda submissive to me. Therefore I don't.
She blows me, but I don't reciprocate.
I know, I'm all one-way here and that's just not fair.
Grins
Which is why I am prone to pointing out that I run a benevolent dictatorship, not a freaking democracy.




That shit makes me laugh. But yanno? You are there to please yourself, so do or don't do what makes you feel good!

(and just saying, when I have someone's Useful Bits reeeely close to my teeth? not feeling submissive AT ALL)


Every time this subject comes up I am reminded of a post a resident sadist and master, KoM, made on the topic. I don't think either of his girls have any doubts about his feelings, or their own.




Moonhead -> RE: Oral sex (1/11/2012 8:10:13 AM)

I'm a bit worried by the thought of dominant orals, frankly:

"Spread 'em, bitch! And if you don't come it's the tawse!"

Dearie me.




ashjor911 -> RE: Oral sex (1/11/2012 8:13:47 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I love how you men are such GIVERS!![:D]

I have never been uncomfortable about my body and its Body Stuff, but women of my generation and earlier had to fight that whole notion of it being "dirty" in the Down There Region, and kind of a DMZ for anything but a peen, and not to be looked at or touched except by a washcloth or a medical professional.

I missed out on ALLLL that indoctrination, it slithered right on by, but the undercurrent was definitely there.


I am free after march 16? [8D]




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Oral sex (1/11/2012 8:16:22 AM)

I am free after April 17, Ash...




mnottertail -> RE: Oral sex (1/11/2012 8:17:43 AM)

I am a financial dom, its never free to give me oral sex.




ashjor911 -> RE: Oral sex (1/11/2012 8:20:53 AM)

sorry, i am booked for Mrs. Clinton all April...... [:D]




slvemike4u -> RE: Oral sex (1/11/2012 8:39:03 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Iamsemisweet

I have always felt like I should enjoy oral sex, but instead, it has always made me uncomfortable. Not physically, but mentally. I have a mindset that performing it is not enjoyable for my partner, so I can't relax and just enjoy it. I have never gone down on another woman, so I have no personal experience. But for those of you who have, do you actually enjoy licking pussy or are you just indulging your partner?

"enjoy licking pussy"...no,I absolutely LOVE licking pussy.Nothing is as sweet,no treat is as complete,no act feels as right as when my tongue is lapping at the Female nectar.
From the first( I was 14) when I thought that I was the first to ever do something so wicked and decadent I knew where my own personal heavan was located.Of course I later found out that this act was not so unique when she asked me to "eat her" again and I had to ask what she meant......lol,she just told me to go back to what I had been doing earlier....lol.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Oral sex (1/11/2012 8:51:31 AM)

See, that is why the unnecessary SLURPING. Bleargh. and GAH! THERE IS MORE WHERE THAT CAME FROM, so jeez, remember that it's about stimulation! The woman's!




bighappygoth39 -> RE: Oral sex (1/11/2012 8:58:13 AM)

Since I've been able to let my true self shine, I've always thought that it is going to help a lot if you're in a relationship with someone who enjoys giving oral, but I feel it's much more important that you're with the right person, or it wonn't matter how good they are, as it just won't feel 'right'.
If you meet the right person and they're not that good at it, there's always going to be time for them to learn to do it better, and have plenty of practice. If they're right for you, you'll have that patience, and it could be fun getting them to do it just how you want it done.
Of course, some people have a natural talent and liking for it when you meet them, so it makes it all the better when they can't get enough of giving you the orals, and it makes me feel very smug about it. [;)][:D]

Just to add: I do enjoy giving it, and I can honestly say I've never felt in the slightest submissive when I've got him tied down and he's at my mercy. I just choose to only do it now and then... [8D]




DesFIP -> RE: Oral sex (1/11/2012 9:29:14 AM)

He doesn't do it often but when he does, it's because he feels like doing it. We were away for a weekend over the holidays and he tied me to the desk in the hotel room and went to town. I think because it was comfortable on his back to sit in the desk chair and do so.

I felt that way about being on top. He cured me of it by tying me up and then picking me up and placing me where he wanted me. I'm definitely not in charge when I resemble a trussed turkey.

Did you tell him how you feel about this? Because I bet he can swiftly convince you that he's the one in charge, doing it because he wants to. Or do you also feel that ever getting to orgasm isn't submissive and a twue sub never wants to cum?




tazzygirl -> RE: Oral sex (1/11/2012 9:38:57 AM)


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ORIGINAL: TheHeretic

LOVE IT!!!


A bit louder, Rich. I couldnt hear you, speak up man!!




tazzygirl -> RE: Oral sex (1/11/2012 9:41:35 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

Kana ain't licked pie in at least a decade.
No shit.
It just feels (Oh man, this is gonna start a shitstorm) kinda submissive to me. Therefore I don't.
She blows me, but I don't reciprocate.
I know, I'm all one-way here and that's just not fair.
Grins
Which is why I am prone to pointing out that I run a benevolent dictatorship, not a freaking democracy.



No shitstorm from me. My ex and my current both are that way too. Good thing I am orally fixated, huh. [:D]




tazzygirl -> RE: Oral sex (1/11/2012 9:43:43 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I am free after April 17, Ash...


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