angelikaJ -> RE: Oral sex (1/13/2012 9:51:11 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Iamsemisweet I have always felt like I should enjoy oral sex, but instead, it has always made me uncomfortable. Not physically, but mentally. I have a mindset that performing it is not enjoyable for my partner, so I can't relax and just enjoy it. I have never gone down on another woman, so I have no personal experience. But for those of you who have, do you actually enjoy licking pussy or are you just indulging your partner? So does your mindset arise from the fear that you smell or taste bad? If not, what else do you think makes (or would make) it un-enjoyable to your partner? For me, being the recipient of oral makes me feel very vulnerable. I am very sensitive and too much pressure or direct attention is sometimes nearly painful. I love the journey through that into 'just right land'. As for giving, in past vanilla relationships it has seemed to be a dominant act and that was what I didn't like about it; but in this relationship? - It is submissive when I do it for Him... and I love that.
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