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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/13/2012 3:18:11 PM   
Arturas


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Don't be fooled. I really am still here. Your bloated fucking ego and supposed popularity that allows you to belittle folks just coming into this doesn't wash with Me. I have watched you play mean girls club in intros, but I'm here to tell you..... no fucking more.

I'm here... Still. Every time you decide that you will ostracize someone because they don't suit you, I will still be here.


I agreed with everything you said until:
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"this doesn't wash with Me....but I'm here to tell you.... no fucking more"
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This tone should only be valid for a MOD I would think. I realize you have gotten passionate about this treatment of newbees and I agree with your feelings but one could easily take this as a warning and threat only valid coming from a MOD and we all know you are not a MOD.

< Message edited by Arturas -- 1/13/2012 3:21:05 PM >

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/13/2012 3:18:51 PM   
NuevaVida


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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

I want to know why the Haytch house thread got locked. I'd ask there, but...I can't.


Well I'm glad it's there as it's confirmation that they are all the same person, but maybe because he said he's not supposed to be posting yet?  Dunno.


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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/13/2012 3:19:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Fornica

Who's Bob?


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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/13/2012 3:19:25 PM   
Fornica


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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/13/2012 3:24:11 PM   
Fornica


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I asked a question in the "how common is bdsm" thread. It said "define common?" and it poofed.

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/13/2012 3:24:13 PM   
ModTwentyOne


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ORIGINAL: Fornica

I said "Um. Ok." in response to Mod21 telling me that I hadn't refreshed. Why on earth would that be reason to delete?


There is no post that says that (or anything like it), pulled or not pulled.



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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/13/2012 3:24:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Fornica

Is there a reason random posts of mine are poofing all over the place tonight?

I asked a question in the "how common is bdsm" thread. It said "define common?" and it poofed.


Log out, then log back in. I'm not sure why they are disappearing, but it's not moderator action.


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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/13/2012 3:28:58 PM   
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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/13/2012 3:35:32 PM   
JstAnotherSub


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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

I want to know why the Haytch house thread got locked. I'd ask there, but...I can't.
It just says Alpha is away and wants it locked til she can review it.  Makes sense to me.

I really don't get all this conspiracy shit, but, then, I aint real bright.


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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/13/2012 3:40:26 PM   
Fornica


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ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub





I really don't get all this conspiracy shit, but, then, I aint real bright.




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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/13/2012 3:42:15 PM   
MissKittyDeVine


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Status: offline 		The point being that if someone is behaving like an asshole (no idea what an asshat is) then it actually serves a purpose for others to point that out. I would like to think that thus we may be helping out posters or lurkers who might not be so clued up or aware of what certain people are doing.

Frankly, the intro thread deserves to die a death if it gets turned into a ´Pollyanna thread´ as, I think, LadyHib called it. It is in many cases NOT being used for the intended purpose, so why are we being criticised for responding to that? I repeat, WHY has the infamous advertising thread been allowed to stand when many posts (including mine), which were not rude or offensive, were removed?

I wonder, at what point does moderation become censorship?


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ORIGINAL: ModTwentyOne


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ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine

But surely it goes both ways. If people behave like assholes when they start an introduction thread, then they should expect to be called out on it. They are adults, and should be able to take it. One intro included a link to their clips4sale which was peddling fetish-themed porn clips - is that what the Introduction forum is for? And that post and link are still standing.

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ORIGINAL: ModTwentyOne
This. If you cannot be welcoming, please stay out of that section. Thank you.



We have stated that the Introduction Forum is where we welcome people. If someone is an "asshat" in your opinion, do not respond to their intro thread.





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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/13/2012 3:44:27 PM   
Fornica


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ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine
(no idea what an asshat is)



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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/13/2012 3:47:07 PM   
MissKittyDeVine


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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/13/2012 3:48:33 PM   
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Well I'm glad it's there as it's confirmation that they are all the same person, but maybe because he said he's not supposed to be posting yet?  Dunno.


I read it as satire in response to the conspiracy post.

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/13/2012 3:50:11 PM   
Fornica


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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/13/2012 3:52:00 PM   
ModTwentyOne


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ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine

Frankly, the intro thread deserves to die a death if it gets turned into a ´Pollyanna thread´ as, I think, LadyHib called it.


We appreciate your opinion; however, at this time the options are to be welcoming in the intro forum, or to not post in it. If no one posts in response to an intro they disagree with then it won't turn into anything.

Mod21


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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/13/2012 3:52:22 PM   
doctorgrey


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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/13/2012 3:53:15 PM   
TheFireWithinMe


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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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Well I'm glad it's there as it's confirmation that they are all the same person, but maybe because he said he's not supposed to be posting yet?  Dunno.


I read it as satire in response to the conspiracy post.


So did I. I'm puzzled that some see it as a confession that they are socks.

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/13/2012 3:54:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Bravo, Lady Pact!! I stand up and applaud you for having the courage to say outright what I merely hinted at in some of my posts!

I don't know how many times I've gone back and apologized to some innocent newbie for the way the majority of Y-O-U have treated him when he's attempted to introduce himself! You keep b*tching about the people this forum attracts, when it is the majority of Y-O-U who are so rude to the decent people, they don't ever want to come back! They wouldn't lower themselves to be a part of you! And trust me, the only reason I've stayed (even though you gave it your best shot to "tear me a new one" when I first arrived) is because I was d*mned if I was going to give you the satisfaction of running yet another newbie off the site!

You absolutely FEED off each other. One starts in and pretty soon the hive starts swarming, and you all start stroking each other's egos and wow aren't you just the toughest thing on this website. The rest of us are just shivering in our boots....NOT!

Did anyone ever consider that by giving attention to those you deem "unworthy" of your presence, you are merely opening the gates for exactly the same sorts of people to keep pouring in? Stop giving them attention if you don't want them here. The Internet buzzes. The word will go out that they'll be ignored and they will crawl to another website.

As for your "can be" and "might be" and "the potential to be nasty"...trust me, you ARE! If you want to attract decent, intelligent, wise and worthy people to this website? Then you've got to start acting that way yourselves.
And if you can't say something nice? Kindly keep it shut. I assure you, no one is going to miss the comment.

Stands by Lady Pact and submits this post
Respectfully,
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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/13/2012 3:55:11 PM   
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Polianna?

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Pol•ly•an•na

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1. an excessively or blindly optimistic person.

adjective
2. (often lowercase) Also, Pol•ly•an•na•ish. unreasonably or illogically optimistic: some pollyanna notions about world peace.
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Origin: from the name of the child heroine created by Eleanor Porter (1868–1920), American writer; the character always saw good in every situation.




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