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OsideGirl -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 1:05:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dscouple7383 But I am NOT shallow. Well, your OP certainly says otherwise.

ResidentSadist -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 1:06:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl quote: Yuppers, I’m gonna’ be in tall cotton when I hit the club wearing my jammies & jeans and getting’ head from a chubby subby… livin’ the BDSM dream I am, making friends and influencing people! I gotta ask.. and Im prolly gonna get kicked for this... Does your cock truly care who is down there sucking away when you close your eyes and grip her hair? (provided said hair isnt greasy and snarled?) Dear fat ass quivery legs, I'm so fat, I can't see who's sucking my cock down there anyway. At them wild BDSM sex parties, I just hope its a girl bobbing on my apple 'cause I'm homophobic. There was that one time at band camp, I caught a glimpse of a girl picking torn musty old pajamas out her teeth. Personally, I don't like dating people unless they smell like a dirty laundry hamper and have that look of desperation in their eyes. Do you have that look? If so, we could make a beautiful pair and you can come cook, wash my clothes (mostly torn jeans & jammies), keep the double wide clean and I'll let you blow me now and then. It would be a pefuckt BDSM type relationship. Yours in leather lifestyle, Master Lord Kalon Eric {edit type-o)

Lucylastic -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 1:07:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ummmmNo Shocking! The people who agree with you are gutless bastards. I am soooo surprised. LMAO THIS To the OP you got more attention than you deserve. sad and not only shallow, but utterly unaware of "normal" people and feelings that is a trait I have a hard limit on. not what you look like, but how you percieve those" less worthy than YOU"[8\|] some people are inside out... careful dont drip on the clean floor

xxblushesxx -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 1:28:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero What purpose does a peacock serve apart from being a brightly coloured noisy fucker? They make the world a more beautiful place and they make me happy. Don't dis the peacock just 'cause someone is "cocky" enough to identify with them. : )

Ninebelowzero -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 1:33:29 PM)
That's me told innit:-)

SilverBoat -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 1:35:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero What purpose does a peacock serve apart from being a brightly coloured noisy fucker? The primary purpose of peacocks is making more peacocks. Everything else they do is pretty much accessory before and after the fact to either that or the heat-death of the universe. Not a big deal either way. [sm=sex.gif]

xxblushesxx -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 1:35:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fucktoyprincess quote: ORIGINAL: Dscouple7383 What is the percentage of people (on this site in particular) are into bdsm out of necessity? What I mean by that, is I wonder how many people on here have discovered that the ONLY way to be with someone is through d/s? I have many things to say about your post, but others have already said it more eloquently than I ever could have. But I do want to focus for one moment on your two statements quoted above. There is a very insidious implication to these statements. At some deep subconscious level, you actually feel that BDSM proclivities are "wrong" or "bad". Your statements above can only be interpreted as accurate if you assume that BDSM is somehow an undesirable state of being to begin with. Because implied in your statements is the implication that an attractive person does NOT need to be part of the BDSM world to be able to have relationships (which then begs the question of why you are even here). You need to look into yourself for what brought you to this world and why you want to continue it it, because obviously at a deep-rooted level you are conflicted about what the BDSM world represents to you. At some level you are still struggling with the notion that BDSM seems abnormal to you. This is something you will have to work through. You should be clear in your own mind on what it is that brought you to BDSM and why you find it compelling. And that has to do with your inner workings, not anything to do with how you look. I am not going to engage in a debate of whether you are attractive, whether I am attractive, or whether other posters on this thread are attractive because I really could f***ing care less. I am here because I enjoy BDSM. I make friends with a wide range of people in the BDSM world. I play with those who I personally find attractive, and with those who personally find me attractive (define attractive however you want because beauty is in the eye of the beholder). Beyond that, I don't see what the point is of discussing this. You're right!

tazzygirl -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 1:38:57 PM)
quote: Dear fat ass quivery legs, I'm so fat, I can't see who's sucking my cock down there anyway. At them wild BDSM sex parties, I just hope its a girl bobbing on my apple 'cause I'm homophobic. There was that one time at band camp, I caught a glimpse of a girl picking torn musty old pajamas out her teeth. Personally, I don't like dating people unless they smell like a dirty laundry hamper and have that look of desperation in their eyes. Do you have that look? If so, we could make a beautiful pair and you can come cook, wash my clothes (mostly torn jeans & jammies), keep the double wide clean and I'll let you blow me now and then. It would be a pefuckt BDSM type relationship. Yours in leather lifestyle, Master Lord Kalon Eric {edit type-o) Oh my!! Im all a flutter (prolly cus I had to run back to the screen after grabbing a big mac and im out of breath). You are the man of my dreams (I always wanted me one of them purdy trailers, and a double wide is a step up from mom's single. She had hopes her baby would do better than her and wow! You are making her dreams a reality) I would so gladly do your wash, and I am very adept at getting out the skid marks. No man of mine will be embarrassed to get into his truck drunk and get arrested. That strip search will find your tidy whities are clean and pearly white! And, wow, I get to blow you too? I cant blame you for only wanting blow jobs. Pushing my tummy flap out of the way to fuck would be way too much to ask. I am just honored you would ever consider me!!!! Lemme pack the trash bag and I will be all ready!!!!

MissKittyDeVine -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 1:40:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero What purpose does a peacock serve apart from being a brightly coloured noisy fucker? [image]local://upfiles/1286414/EFB3EA4E668F45D0AB6464B988B8F1CE.jpg[/image]

xxblushesxx -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 1:42:27 PM)
I'm not going to quote it all but #202 is a very good post!

LaTigresse -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 1:49:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx I'm not going to quote it all but #202 is a very good post! Do you mean Celeste's, # 203? Cuz on my screen RS's short and sweet gagging one is #202.

xxblushesxx -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 1:51:46 PM)
Hmmm, it was bitatrouble if that helps?

Lucylastic -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 1:52:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl I just cant get into self-centered men who are only into this for the photo look. You don't like the S&M (stand & model) crowd? [:)] I prefer a man who gets his kicks out of me.. not his own picture. [;)] Did you say you wanted a man to kick you? Lemme get off my old, unkempt, sloppy fat ass and find my glasses, brb. Oh you sexy, fat, lazy, unkept, huge hunk of a man, you do know how to turn a fat, old, cross eyed, sloppy and illiterate slut on! [sm=hearts.gif] My thighs are all a quiver.. and not just because I stopped moving and they decided to keep going on their own, either. [;)] god that turned me on...... Tell the man, you're MINE winks at the man slaps my poor scarred gut and rides the ripple

LaTigresse -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 1:55:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx Hmmm, it was bitatrouble if that helps? Cool! Then we are on the same page. So to speak.

GotSteel -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 1:57:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dscouple7383 We have started to reach out into our local community here, and even communities that are a drive for us to get to. And we are shocked at what we are finding. Most women we have come across look the same. Nearly ALL of them are moderately to severely overweight, and honestly have looked like they have stopped caring. Hair that isn't styled or attempted to be styled....no makeup....and just looked like they rolled out of bed. The men are no better, believe me. I've never seen so many men who don't take care of themselves, and don't do ANYTHING to make themselves presentable. Yet, they call themselves doms. I don't know where you're looking but it's the wrong place, the BDSM scene that I'm used to is disproportionality young and hot.

ummmmNo -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 2:03:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GotSteel I don't know where you're looking but it's the wrong place, the BDSM scene that I'm used to is disproportionality young and hot. It's Central Florida, the state itself tends to be disproportionately older than other states. Anyways, tone, tone, tone, tone... I'm glad that people are still seeing the lack of respect and courtesy that OP has shown.

sincelo -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 3:27:37 PM)
Yep BitaTruble Nice posting. Funny AND intelligent.

sincelo -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 3:29:57 PM)
Some people have more charisma than other and having been a long time reader of these forums, I can safely say that yours is high.

OsideGirl -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 3:35:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dscouple7383 So, yes, I do apologize for the mean spirited tone of my op. But....I will stand by the fact that more people should give a damn about the way they look and present. We all aren't thin, and we all aren't perfect. But that doesn't mean we should all just give up. And it damn sure doesn't mean that we need to make excuses for everyone, when just a TINY bit of effort would go a LONG way. If that upsets anyone, then I am truly sorry. Take care and God bless. Derek Here's the thing: Apathy is not relegated solely to the overweight. Apathy goes across every weight section from anorexic to morbidly obese. It is unattractive in ANYBODY. If someone is overweight it does not mean they are apathetic. If someone is overweight it does not mean they are unattractive. Which is pretty much the view you presented. The majority of Americans are overweight for a number of reasons, which I won't debate why here. BDSM communities are just a slice of society, so why you think it would be any different than the rest....I have no idea. Apathy is unattractive. Period. So, is condescending arrogance. I've encountered more of the latter than the former.

DaddySatyr -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 3:40:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero Yo Derek, I look lived in cos I am, I don't care cos I'm not some metrosexual tosser. But I'll lay fucking odds that were we both to hit a nightclub (bearing in mind also that I'm older than you) I'd pull faster & higher up the league than you old son. Because I might be a bit ugly on the outside & I reckon I am, but I'm fucking gorgeous on the inside. I like women I don't sit in judgement cos she's had a couple of kids, those battle scars, those extra pounds are earnt the hard way. Some of us work long hours & don't have time for health clubs & spa's & facials & shit & some realise that this search for eternal youth & beauty is just to keep the unemployable in fucking clover. Your premise is insulting & patronising simultaneously, well done. Your true colours are now firmly nailed to a mast for all to see. Speaking as an accused (and probably rightly so) metrosexual who has been forced to toss off out of necessity on occasion, I can tell you that I couldn't pull in a whorehouse with a fistfull of fifties on most nights. I don't care to put in the effort! LOL As far as the original post: I have always believed that there is some element of "broken women" that are in this lifestyle because verbal or physical abuse is all they've known. Unfortunately, I think what perpetuates their presence is misogynistic pieces of cheese that tend to be judgemental and hateful (whether they are attempting to be that way or not). I can't help but wonder if you are the latter and that's why you keep running into the former? Maybe ladies that aren't "old, fat, and lacking self-esteem" won't give you the time of day so your experience(s) have been limited to the kinds of ladies that will tolerate your behavior because they're scraping the bottom of the barrel? Peace and comfort, Michael

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