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JstAnotherSub -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 8:02:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dscouple7383 LOL No back pedal!! I stand by what I said. It's funny, but the people who agree with me send me email. Those who don't, post on here. I have 467 mails stating you are a jackass. Ok, that is a lie. Only 320.

angelikaJ -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 8:03:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dscouple7383 It's simple, really. I just asked a question that was harsh. But I feel that the question is legitimate. I am sure that there is a certain percentage of people who have gotten into this lifestyle with the mindset of: "I'll do anything you want me to as long as you show me attention." I merely postulated that question. Obviously an unpopular question. But a legitimate question none the less. No, you asked a mean spirited question that was skewed. I went to my first munch a couple of months ago in my local area and no one looked like they just rolled out of bed. Both the couples, and unattached people who attended, were well groomed. The people came in all shapes and sizes; so some were thin, some not- but no one weighed 300lbs. The people were friendly and welcoming. Perhaps it is the area you live in; maybe the culture is more casual there. Or maybe you just wear cat puke colored glasses. I first became interested in this "lifestyle" because of a fascination I had with the thought of spanking. And now that I am owned I have discovered that my submission has a specificity to it: it is specific to Him. So there is no desperation there. My grandmother had a saying "Pretty is as pretty does.". You ain't so pretty.

Dscouple7383 -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 8:04:27 AM)
Ok. To be clear... I apologized for the dog comment and the cat puke comment. Those two comments were over the top and out of line. But I don't apologize for the question I raised.

ummmmNo -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 8:07:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dscouple7383 Ok. To be clear... I apologized for the dog comment and the cat puke comment. Those two comments were over the top and out of line. But I don't apologize for the question I raised. Of course not, recognizing that one is wrong comes with maturity and depth. You seem to have neither.

Fornica -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 8:08:05 AM)
Why don't you remind us what that was, since you feel we aren't addressing it? Oh, the one about if we feel fat ugly people join the BDSM club cuz they're too fugly to get fucked by anyone? That question?

Dscouple7383 -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 8:09:15 AM)
Because I don't agree with people on here makes me wrong. I get that. ;)

xxblushesxx -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 8:09:23 AM)
Of course you don't. [8\|] Because asking if people are into BDSM because it's the only way anyone will EVAH have anything to do with them is not out of line.

winspiritsbaby -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 8:09:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: seekerofslut quote: ORIGINAL: Dscouple7383 Ok, alright!!!! I confess!! I KNEW I would get the comments I got, and I also KNEW that by saying what I said in my op, that I would get the heat I got for it. It comes as no surprise. I was over the top in my critique and observation. I generalized on purpose. But I DID have a tiny point in there. The funniest part about the whole thing, is that people have just ripped into me, personally. They have even taken shots at my fiance, who has not said a word in this. And guess what? The vicious responses are doing EXACTLY what they are accusing ME of doing in my op. And they are too blind to see it. It's political correctness gone nuts. So, I have no problems with obese people. I have no problem with ugly people, as I am an ugly man myself. ;) And I DEFINITELY do not have a problem with old people, as I am an old man myself. I wish all of you guys the best, and hope that I've made some people think a little differently than they have become accustomed to thinking. The fighting retreat. Lovely. I hope not. Most of the people on these boards, especially those that have been here awhile, have a tendency to THINK before they post...I would certainly hate to see that change!

angelikaJ -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 8:11:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dscouple7383 Ok. To be clear... I apologized for the dog comment and the cat puke comment. Those two comments were over the top and out of line. But I don't apologize for the question I raised. You also live in a state with notoriously low wages; people often have to work 2 or 3 jobs just to make ends meet. So perhaps the people who attended were ummm, I don't know, tired? And maybe some of them had rolled out of bed, but did you put your judgments aside and actually try to get to know anyone? My guess is you couldn't be bothered.

Ninebelowzero -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 8:11:17 AM)
Just me here. I would love to hit a gym at the end of the day got a bit of a gut my ass could be smaller yadda yadda yadda, but here's the rub Derek, I'm one of those scruffy fuckers who would turn up at a munch straight from work covered in grease with oil under my nails, smelling of workaday sweat. You see I start work at 6.am & my shift finishes at 6pm. I build big fuck of construction plant equipment & I'm too shattered at the end of the day to hit a gym & besides I don't have any grip left, you see I have white finger. Now my friends who know me understand that if there's something going on on a week night then I am going to turn up all hot dirty & smelly. We live in the real world where some of us are blue collar working stiffs. Some of the ladies hold down equally hard jobs & raise kidfs & they don't have time to doll themselves up all the time either. Life well real life aint a bdsm porn vid. Well not all the time:-) quote: ORIGINAL: winspiritsbaby How do you know any of these people have given up on themselves? Did you spend time with any of them to see what kind of things they might be working on? Did you ask any of them if they have any medical conditions that might have led to their obesity? Did you ask them if there was a reason they don't wear make up? You assumed that these people have given up. With a closed mind, there is no way in hell you could ever know anything about these people.

ummmmNo -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 8:12:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dscouple7383 Because I don't agree with people on here makes me wrong. I get that. ;) It's not the agree/disagree part, darlin. It's the self-righteous b/s about how you are too good for most people in D/s.

angelikaJ -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 8:17:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dscouple7383 Somehow this got turned into being about obese. I said that people don't fix their hair, wear makeup, etc... People who don't TRY. Guess what? My Master prefers I not wear makeup. To Him it is hiding. So, a little eyeshadow, mascara is sometimes allowed, but foundation, blush, powder or lipstick? Never!

Dscouple7383 -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 8:18:44 AM)
When did I EVER say that I was too good for anyone else? NEVER!!!! Let me TRY to make my question more politically correct for everyone: Does the bdsm lifestyle GENERALLY attract more overweight and older people? There, I will leave ugly out, as that is subjective! Come on people, have SOME sense of humor here!! ;)

Fornica -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 8:20:47 AM)
We have a sense of humour. Just a different brand than yours. Why don't you answer the questions we are asking you?

ummmmNo -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 8:23:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dscouple7383 When did I EVER say that I was too good for anyone else? NEVER!!!! Let me TRY to make my question more politically correct for everyone: Does the bdsm lifestyle GENERALLY attract more overweight and older people? There, I will leave ugly out, as that is subjective! Come on people, have SOME sense of humor here!! ;) You are right. You never said that, you simply implied it. I mean, you used the words "cat puke" to describe how you viewed others in your (our) community. Honestly, that implies you are too good for them. You also said that fat people don't try. I am sure you think you try, so someone who doesn't try wouldn't be good enough for you. I am just taking logical steps.

Ninebelowzero -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 8:23:58 AM)
Because even the OP knows that his position is entirely indefensible

xxblushesxx -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 8:25:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dscouple7383 When did I EVER say that I was too good for anyone else? NEVER!!!! Let me TRY to make my question more politically correct for everyone: Does the bdsm lifestyle GENERALLY attract more overweight and older people? There, I will leave ugly out, as that is subjective! Come on people, have SOME sense of humor here!! ;) You already stated it as a fact. So you've answered your own question. And when did you ever state you were too good for anyone? When you said "These people are supposed to be submissive to me? How are they supposed to take care of MY needs, when they have quit on themselves?" And by implication, your OP and almost every post after that.

Hillwilliam -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 8:25:09 AM)
I'll agree with the 'older' to a point. Most young people are fucking CLUELESS about what they want and they havent had the time to experiment and develop preferences. It's called "Self Actualization" by the people with German Accents that have you lie on a couch in their office. It takes time to decide that what you REALLY enjoy is flogging someone until they bleed then writing your name in hot wax or with a razor blade on their privates or throatfucking some slut until she is whimpering, puking and begging for mercy. You don't see 18-year-olds with that kind of experience and those 10 years older than that are uncommon. This is why we goof so much on those duck-faced 19 year olds experienced Dommes on the other side.

bighappygoth39 -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 8:28:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dscouple7383 When did I EVER say that I was too good for anyone else? NEVER!!!! Let me TRY to make my question more politically correct for everyone: Does the bdsm lifestyle GENERALLY attract more overweight and older people? There, I will leave ugly out, as that is subjective! Come on people, have SOME sense of humor here!! ;) I don't think it's about being politically correct, at all. I think it's about general manners, and actually thinking about what you post before you do it. As for your revised question, I think the BDSM lifestyle doesn't particularly attract more overweight and older people. I think it attracts people who are into BDSM, plain and simple. All sorts of people. It's called the real world. It's called life. I suggest you concentrate more on *who* people *are*, not what they look like and stop making assumptions. It might help things. [8D]

angelikaJ -> RE: BDSM out of necessity? (1/15/2012 8:28:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dscouple7383 When did I EVER say that I was too good for anyone else? NEVER!!!! Let me TRY to make my question more politically correct for everyone: Does the bdsm lifestyle GENERALLY attract more overweight and older people? There, I will leave ugly out, as that is subjective! Come on people, have SOME sense of humor here!! ;) [sm=violin.gif] You realllly are determined to dig yourself in deeper aren't you? So people who discovered this 20, 30, 40 years ago should avoid going to munches and other events? (And you do know that older is subjective too, right?) Guess what? At some point, you will be one of those "older people".[;)] Edit to add: You also live in a state that people retire to. My suggestion? Move to another state.

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