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sexyred1 -> RE: Ever have a scare? (1/21/2012 9:10:48 AM)
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I am not scared that anyone will see me here or anywhere. I am actually more annoyed when this happens simply because when this has happened online, the men who approached me did it in such a moronic way.
I am on here and other sites, including vanilla. I have the same photos on all. I believe in letting people see you and I want to see who approaches me.
So, I get guys who see me on vanilla sites and instead of being upfront and saying, hey, I saw you on Collarme, they write me and act like idiots by chatting and then saying something like, so...I know a secret about you or guess where I saw you, or some such nonsense.
If I was interested even a tiny bit, I lose that interest by the behavior.
If you saw me on a kink site and you write me on a vanilla site you are allowed to actually say that you did.
The one time I was scared, was when a guy wrote me on another kink site. He told me he had seen me in my ELEVATOR and described what I was wearing. He had no photo so I freaked out. He said he watched me in my laundry room and wished he could do all sorts of things to me.
I totally flipped out on him and it turned out his MOTHER lived in my building for years and he would visit her, which was when he saw me. He never had the nerve to talk to me. So when he saw me on the other kink site, instead of having the balls to introduce myself, he watched me for years and then creepily wrote me.
When he finally told me who he was, he had the nerve to ask me out on a date. Jeez.
If someone from work or elsewhere saw me here, I would simply say, hey you are into kink too, cool. At one job I had a few years ago, one guy did say he saw me here and he was afraid of being outed. I said, don't worry about it. We just winked at each other passing by in the hall.
If someone wants to judge me for my sexual preferences, fuck them.
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