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RE: Ever have a scare? - 1/18/2012 1:54:22 PM

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Is having the book published and supporting SOPA/PIPA mutually exclusive?

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RE: Ever have a scare? - 1/18/2012 2:01:29 PM

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Nor would I want the only topic of conversation be what I do in bed.

You use a bed? ppfftt. How vanilla.

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Twue submissives do it on a bed of broken glass.....

Hey I've said before I'd be happy to get my vanilla cone back. Better if it was a hot fudge sundae though.

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RE: Ever have a scare? - 1/18/2012 2:51:59 PM

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I did meet up with a guy who was local (he lived just a few blocks away.) Turns out he knew my sons, and when I told him that I wasn't interested in a relationship with him, he threatened to "out" me to my kids (3 of the 4 were young adults already). I wasn't terribly worried for myself, but I knew if that guy tried talking bad about me, my son's would seriously be in trouble because they'd have stomped him into dust. They are overly protective of their old mom, and I wouldn't want them to have gotten into trouble defending 'my honor.' I just laughed and told him for his own sake, he should probably rethink the wisdom of that threat.

It isn't as if they aren't already aware that their mom is a freak. When you've had the address to the home you're living in, and story of the kinky fundraiser that takes place there once a year for the last 5 years, plastered on the front page of the city newspaper; you are pretty much outed as much as you can be. Especially when it all ends up on the 6:00 news (sighs). Just about anyone who has been to Whipstock in Michigan, knows what I'm talking about.

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RE: Ever have a scare? - 1/18/2012 3:05:08 PM

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I could give a shit who sees me on here -----> and my question to them would be What are you doing here?

As far as anyone VANILLA knowing and giving me shit?... they can kiss my tiny ass. and go suck a dildo.

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RE: Ever have a scare? - 1/20/2012 4:35:46 PM

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I'm not ashamed of my lifestyle choices. If someone wants to clutch their pearls about it, have at it.

I wish the above wasn't a response to this type question. I am not ashamed of my lifestyle choices. However, there are people in my world, one of whom happens to be my employer, that wouldn't even begin to try and understand why I live the way I live. That is their right, just as my kink is mine. However, because doing otherwise would negatively affect some friends, some family, and my ability to support myself, I remain anonymous. It doesn't make me less "real", just needful of serious discretion. It would be great if everyone was accepted for exactly who and what they are, but it's not that advanced where I live and exist. Yet. One can hope.

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RE: Ever have a scare? - 1/20/2012 5:07:53 PM

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I was outed to my family by a family member who was on here. The funny thing was that nobody bothered to wonder why *she* was on this site. Ah well. The high road is flipping lonely sometimes.

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RE: Ever have a scare? - 1/20/2012 5:31:27 PM

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I'm not ashamed of my lifestyle choices. If someone wants to clutch their pearls about it, have at it.

I wish the above wasn't a response to this type question. I am not ashamed of my lifestyle choices. However, there are people in my world, one of whom happens to be my employer, that wouldn't even begin to try and understand why I live the way I live. That is their right, just as my kink is mine. However, because doing otherwise would negatively affect some friends, some family, and my ability to support myself, I remain anonymous. It doesn't make me less "real", just needful of serious discretion. It would be great if everyone was accepted for exactly who and what they are, but it's not that advanced where I live and exist. Yet. One can hope.

I have got to chime in here and say just how amusing it is from my perspective when people like you play the 'poor persecuted me because I'm so kinky' game.

Thing is, it's your life, you make the choices and decisions over how you live your life, society and other people aren't responsible for the choices you make, you are.

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RE: Ever have a scare? - 1/20/2012 10:12:23 PM

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I had it recently. I think one of my ex fiance's is on this site. I just don't have the balls to ask, because if it is..

I'm comfortable just leaving it alone, though.

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RE: Ever have a scare? - 1/21/2012 1:35:39 AM

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I outed myself years ago when I wanted to be able to wear my collar all the time. By now everyone that knows me knows my kink.

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RE: Ever have a scare? - 1/21/2012 6:25:00 AM

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I could give a shit who sees me on here -----> and my question to them would be What are you doing here?

As far as anyone VANILLA knowing and giving me shit?... they can kiss my tiny ass. and go suck a dildo.

It doesn't matter who you are because My dryer will eat you this afternoon when I do laundry. BWAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAA

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RE: Ever have a scare? - 1/21/2012 7:41:44 AM

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I had it recently. I think one of my ex fiance's is on this site. I just don't have the balls to ask, because if it is..

I'm comfortable just leaving it alone, though.

I don't think I'd be able to live with not knowing if someone I'd been engaged to was secretly kinked... also how many ex fiances do you have lol?

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RE: Ever have a scare? - 1/21/2012 7:43:23 AM

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I had it recently. I think one of my ex fiance's is on this site. I just don't have the balls to ask, because if it is..

I'm comfortable just leaving it alone, though.

Well, now I wanna know!

Tell me who it is. I'll find out for you. :)

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RE: Ever have a scare? - 1/21/2012 8:29:36 AM

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I have had someone spot me in a nilla setting and know who I was immediately, apparently the picture of my eyes was fairly accurate before I modified it. It was a bit obvious where his mind was as I was repairing his computer and once he stood way too close to my shoulder as I worked. I thought he was just a jackass until as I was leaving he said 'I have seen those eyes before' and I knew what he meant, these sites are the only places where I have the just eyes avatar up. I left and have never returned to work on his machine again. Let the boss handle him.
And another time I have recognized someone I see here on the other side of CM. He looks exactly like his image. lol and there is NO way that guy is dominant. Bully maybe.

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RE: Ever have a scare? - 1/21/2012 9:10:48 AM

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I am not scared that anyone will see me here or anywhere. I am actually more annoyed when this happens simply because when this has happened online, the men who approached me did it in such a moronic way.

I am on here and other sites, including vanilla. I have the same photos on all. I believe in letting people see you and I want to see who approaches me.

So, I get guys who see me on vanilla sites and instead of being upfront and saying, hey, I saw you on Collarme, they write me and act like idiots by chatting and then saying something like, so...I know a secret about you or guess where I saw you, or some such nonsense.

If I was interested even a tiny bit, I lose that interest by the behavior.

If you saw me on a kink site and you write me on a vanilla site you are allowed to actually say that you did.

The one time I was scared, was when a guy wrote me on another kink site. He told me he had seen me in my ELEVATOR and described what I was wearing. He had no photo so I freaked out. He said he watched me in my laundry room and wished he could do all sorts of things to me.

I totally flipped out on him and it turned out his MOTHER lived in my building for years and he would visit her, which was when he saw me. He never had the nerve to talk to me. So when he saw me on the other kink site, instead of having the balls to introduce myself, he watched me for years and then creepily wrote me.

When he finally told me who he was, he had the nerve to ask me out on a date. Jeez.

If someone from work or elsewhere saw me here, I would simply say, hey you are into kink too, cool. At one job I had a few years ago, one guy did say he saw me here and he was afraid of being outed. I said, don't worry about it. We just winked at each other passing by in the hall.

If someone wants to judge me for my sexual preferences, fuck them.

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RE: Ever have a scare? - 1/21/2012 1:18:50 PM

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I had it recently. I think one of my ex fiance's is on this site. I just don't have the balls to ask, because if it is..

I'm comfortable just leaving it alone, though.

I don't think I'd be able to live with not knowing if someone I'd been engaged to was secretly kinked... also how many ex fiances do you have lol?

Well if it is them, the only thing that surprises me is that they're with a man now. I already knew they were into the kink, but we're both subs, so we didn't work. It does gnaw at the mind, though. Also.. Five.

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I had it recently. I think one of my ex fiance's is on this site. I just don't have the balls to ask, because if it is..

I'm comfortable just leaving it alone, though.

Well, now I wanna know!

Tell me who it is. I'll find out for you. :)

Haha, thanks for the offer Kaliko :) But I'll have to pass. Don't want to open that door.

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RE: Ever have a scare? - 1/21/2012 1:39:33 PM

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I'm more afraid of the religious, personally.
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I was outted via email to my Pastor and (I'm not positive) to my siblings by my last vanilla bf.

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RE: Ever have a scare? - 1/21/2012 1:57:27 PM

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whoa..story please?

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RE: Ever have a scare? - 1/21/2012 1:59:05 PM

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You're 23 and have five ex-fiances?

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Also.. Five.

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RE: Ever have a scare? - 1/21/2012 2:02:26 PM

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You're 23 and have five ex-fiances?

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Also.. Five.

Yes. In my defense, I never proposed.

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RE: Ever have a scare? - 1/21/2012 2:06:41 PM

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thast a lot of dodged bullets... they asy cats have nine lives..lmao...

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You're 23 and have five ex-fiances?

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Also.. Five.

Yes. In my defense, I never proposed.