DaddySatyr
Posts: 9381
Joined: 8/29/2011 From: Pittston, Pennsyltucky Status: offline
|
~FR (having only read the initial post)~ quote:
ORIGINAL: fucktoyprincess For example, is it more likely that someone who commits adultery will lie, cheat, steal, kill in their lives outside of their relationship. I have seen lots of research about how someone who commits adultery is more likely to commit adultery again. I have also seen research supporting the notion that those who have divorced are more likely to divorce again. However, I have not seen any research linking adultery, in and of itself, with other crimes. Well, I can tell you that according to some churches (I was raised in the Catholic faith), there are many people that are adulterers;if you accept their definition. I know I am. I was married for 8 long, misera ... oooops! "wonderful" years and have certainly engaged in sexual activities with other ladies since my marriage ended in 1996. The Catholic church (and a few others) would describe my activities as "adultery". I promise not to use this space to debate adultery but it sickens me that something that some religions consider a "sin" is also considered to be a crime . Isn't that one of the big complaints with Muslim extremists; that they make violation of their religious beliefs a crime against the state? quote:
ORIGINAL: fucktoyprincess Of my close personal friends who have committed adultery - because it happens - most of the marriages (but not all) ended in divorce. But my friends are completely trustworthy otherwise. Several of them have very important professional positions where they have large responsibilities over things like money, other people's children, etc., and not one of my "adulterous" friends has ever been involved in anything even remotely resembling a scandal at work, despite their moral failing on the relationship front. I like to think of myself as a decent sort who would never steal, etc. and children are always ultra safe around me (having been abused, as a child, myself). But, one of the reasons for that assertion is that I live a lifestyle that requires absolute honesty. I'm polyamorous. So, I guess, by definition, I'm an unapologetic adulterer? quote:
ORIGINAL: fucktoyprincess In addition, certainly those who are faithful to their lovers/spouses are not necessarily any more trustworthy or morally superior to others when it comes to matters outside the home. Certainly, Bernie Madoff was, I believe, faithful to his wife - but it didn't make him any more trustworthy to invest money with. I am sure there were many Nazis during WWII who were faithful to their spouses, but it certainly did not enable them to make better moral choices during the war. "many Nazis". Well, anyone who didn't become a Nazi (in the rank-and-file) was killed. A large portion of Germans were Nazis because to not be one meant a death warrent. If you're speaking of the higher-ups, it's pretty well documented that Göebels (I think. I know it was one of the "inner circle") was a playboy and that his behavior was frowned upon by the "upstanding" hierarchy of the Nazi party. quote:
ORIGINAL: fucktoyprincess And whether rightly or wrongly, I still have a soft spot for JFK politically, even though, of course, he was an adulterous husband. He was a great president that refused to begin WWIII, during the Cuban Missile Crisis. That said, he liked to "spread the seed" and if I were that good looking and that powerful, there'd have been about twenty little "Satyrs" running around. quote:
ORIGINAL: fucktoyprincess Does adultery, in and of itself, really make someone unfit for political office? I would appreciate any information that anyone has on this as I try to sort this out in my own mind. Thanks. I just don't see how someone who may be having trouble with conforming to what society says is the "norm" being morally deficient (other than just not being forth-coming about their sexual proclivities). We're still fairly "Victorian" in how we as a society approach things of a sexual nature and there is still some element of "we don't talk about things like that in polite company". I truly believe that "adulterers" are people that just aren't wired for monogamy. I don't think most humans are or we wouldn't have as much "adultery" as we do. I believe (my own opinion) that we aren't made to be monogamous and we're just hanging on to some archaic ideal that originally comes down to us from the advent of Christianity. I don't think being an adulterer makes anyone more likely to rob a bank or to cheat on their taxes. I think it makes them a person that is struggling with the idea of society telling them they must be something that they're not capable of being. Peace and comfort, Michael
< Message edited by DaddySatyr -- 1/20/2012 3:28:24 PM >
_____________________________
A Stone in My Shoe Screen captures (and pissing on shadows) still RULE! Ya feel me? "For that which I love, I will do horrible things"
|