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What is.... - 5/31/2006 7:16:55 PM   
cuddleheart50


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Status: offline 		A Domestic Dominant? 

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RE: What is.... - 5/31/2006 7:18:56 PM   
Padriag


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Status: offline 		I've never heard the term before.  So if you meet one, ask'em and come tell us!

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RE: What is.... - 5/31/2006 7:21:20 PM   
cuddleheart50


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Status: offline 		I was on another site...and one said he was a sexual Dominant, one said he was a Domestic Dominant...it was in their profiles, so I didnt have a chance to ask him what he meant.  Thought someone here might know.

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RE: What is.... - 5/31/2006 7:24:46 PM   
Padriag


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Status: offline 		Given that context I would make a guess that one only was dominant in the bedroom (sexual) and one was interested in domestic service (domestic).  But that's just a guess.

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RE: What is.... - 5/31/2006 7:41:14 PM   
TallDarkAndWitty


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Padriag

Given that context I would make a guess that one only was dominant in the bedroom (sexual) and one was interested in domestic service (domestic).  But that's just a guess.


Sounds right to me...though the "sexual dominant" might just want a "sex slave" and the location of said sex need not only be in the bedroom.  I might be considered somewhat of a Domestic Dominant.  Though I certainly have a sensual, if not always sexual, side to my dominance.  I enjoy the service of a submissive who is very very service oriented, as opposed to one that is romantic or sexually oriented.

Though I doubt we'll ever know unless someone asks the Domestic Dominant in question...

Perhaps he just means he is from this country, as opposed to being an Imported Dominant???

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RE: What is.... - 5/31/2006 8:18:25 PM   
SmokeyM


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Status: offline 		I think a Domestic Dominant is describing the fact that this figure is the dominant since of working out side the house doing what is needed to be taken care of. Basically wearing the pants of the relationship. Though soon home he is doing chores and being ordered around while the wife 'wears the pants'.
thats my two cents and thoughts...
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RE: What is.... - 5/31/2006 8:43:38 PM   
NCSilverWolves


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ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50

A Domestic Dominant? 


My first thought was.... beats the hell outta me...lol... but that's Wolf's place..
But so far.. what others have said makes sense to me. Not knowing for sure myself... i'll go along with others on this..and only guess... (but my guesses where spoken already).


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RE: What is.... - 5/31/2006 8:47:11 PM   
Reflectivesoul


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Status: offline 		*looks around* Where the hell is LAM ?????????? lol lol He'll know lol

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RE: What is.... - 5/31/2006 8:54:09 PM   
NCSilverWolves


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Status: offline 		LOL RS.... got that one right....

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RE: What is.... - 5/31/2006 10:06:15 PM   
jamesthehumanrug


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Status: offline 		greetings ,cuddle heart,
are you asking me : DID MARTHA STUART.....WELL....THERE WAS A MS. STEWART....,in JERSEY CITY,NEW JERSEY....early 1990's....
out of respect i have to ponder what to focus on first :her title with me ,or our problem, because, she was ,with me?....
A  true domestic goddess,
godess

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RE: What is.... - 5/31/2006 10:51:29 PM   
enigmabrat


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Status: offline 		LOL well if the egyptions could damesticate cats why cant we damesticate Doms??

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RE: What is.... - 5/31/2006 10:55:50 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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Status: offline 		I've never heard either, but if I were going to guess, I'd say someone who's bossy at home (more about service), as opposed to those of us who are bossy all the time, lol.   M

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RE: What is.... - 6/1/2006 12:47:01 AM   
UtopianRanger


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ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50

A Domestic Dominant? 


Sounds to me as if it's someone who's domineering instead of dominant - Huge difference!

Also sounds like someone who wants you to work and hand-over the cash once you come home.


Run away! HAR!  ; }


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RE: What is.... - 6/1/2006 12:48:58 AM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		perhaps the term sexual dominant meant bedroom dominant only (like a top). Domestic dominant stands for someone who is into domestic discipline?.. I wonder, maybe you can email them and ask?...lol

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RE: What is.... - 6/1/2006 12:53:12 AM   
HarryVanWinkle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: jamesthehumanrug

greetings ,cuddle heart,
are you asking me : DID MARTHA STUART.....WELL....THERE WAS A MS. STEWART....,in JERSEY CITY,NEW JERSEY....early 1990's....
out of respect i have to ponder what to focus on first :her title with me ,or our problem, because, she was ,with me?....
A  true domestic goddess,
godess


I'd recommend that you first focus on focusing.

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RE: What is.... - 6/1/2006 1:00:01 AM   
becca333


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RE: What is.... - 6/1/2006 2:26:31 AM   
ExistentialSteel


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Status: offline 		It means I see you once a week and you clean my house, wash my car, cook my dinner and drive back home. I may even throw in a flogging and fucking every few weeks.

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RE: What is.... - 6/1/2006 2:30:00 AM   
becca333


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Status: offline 		You make it sound so enticing.

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RE: What is.... - 6/1/2006 3:10:32 AM   
cuddleheart50


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Status: offline 		Since no one has any ideas about this, I'm going to ask them directly...will let everyone know when I find out.

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RE: What is.... - 6/1/2006 3:43:20 AM   
Dustyn


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50

A Domestic Dominant? 


Mr. Mom with a flogger?


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