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RE: Which would you prefer...? - 1/21/2012 7:01:33 PM   
Baroana


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Now, why would the OP's question possibly be insulting to women? Everyone knows that women want two things in a guy: looks and money. All the OP is doing here is conducting some legitimate research to determine the order of importance.


Oh wow. Thank you for presuming to know what I want in a man!

How comforting it is that another woman gets to decide for me.




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RE: Which would you prefer...? - 1/21/2012 7:25:44 PM   
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By any chance, is the Check Engine light blinking on your sarcasm detector?
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Brilliant!

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RE: Which would you prefer...? - 1/21/2012 9:35:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		the first. money isn't really all that important, if you run out, you get more of it in two weeks.


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RE: Which would you prefer...? - 1/21/2012 11:49:56 PM   
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RE: Which would you prefer...? - 1/22/2012 2:02:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		Lol. like most, I was surprised that you think 45k is "poor." It's obviously not rich, but it's not povert (unless you live in Southern California or N.Y., New York. But to be honest, a lot of self-perceived poverty comes from a) bad expectations management, and b) bad money management. People who have discipline in spending and diligence in saving seldom feel truly impoverished for very long.

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RE: Which would you prefer...? - 1/22/2012 3:16:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		Since money isn't that important to me, as long as there's enough to pay the bills, and I'd prefer to keep working anyhow, I'd prefer the first. I'd rather have a healthy Master in my life.

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RE: Which would you prefer...? - 1/22/2012 8:27:45 PM   
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Lol. like most, I was surprised that you think 45k is "poor." It's obviously not rich, but it's not povert (unless you live in Southern California or N.Y., New York.
It's not poverty in So Cal either....


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RE: Which would you prefer...? - 1/22/2012 8:31:57 PM   
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I feel sorry for the submissives that prefer a medium built guy who makes 46k - 199k.  They are left out of the pole. Alas, the middle class... left out of the action again.  :(


Ahem... I am there... you got one in mind?

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RE: Which would you prefer...? - 1/22/2012 8:33:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Baroana

By any chance, is the Check Engine light blinking on your sarcasm detector?

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: Baroana

Now, why would the OP's question possibly be insulting to women? Everyone knows that women want two things in a guy: looks and money. All the OP is doing here is conducting some legitimate research to determine the order of importance.


Oh wow. Thank you for presuming to know what I want in a man!

How comforting it is that another woman gets to decide for me.






Nope, its working in prime condition and seems to always go off when you post. Imagine that!

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RE: Which would you prefer...? - 1/23/2012 4:23:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		How about neither i want a smart man who loves  me as i do him.  His bank blanace does not matter to me. Iif he is overweight so what, if necessaery he cah alway lose the weight so i will take my  option.

3. A smart man who loves me and can make me laugh.  That is exactly what i got

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RE: Which would you prefer...? - 1/24/2012 2:41:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		So much false idealism in this thread... Can we all just admit, as a group, all at once so no one feels exposed, that we like sexy rich people? Like, a lot? Because I just want to go on record as saying I fucking love money and attractive sexual partners. Those are two things which are well within my top 10 favorite things on earth. We can all go on about how we want "brains" or "compatibility" or my personal favorite "healthy" partners and all those things are true in varying degrees, as are a million other factors of attraction, but we also want comfort and something highly fuckable to share it with. Bury that fact under however many tons of sophistry you like, but that's the truth of it.

For my part, I'm not a sub but in the interest of practicing what I preach; if I'm not allowed to force them to lose weight as part of training, I'll take the slim poor sub over the fat rich sub. I'm the guy that shoots everyone down when they insist "no man wants a woman that thin" as they look at runway models, after all. A balance would be nice, but if we have to sit on one end of the bell curve or the other I'll take that one.

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RE: Which would you prefer...? - 1/24/2012 2:55:26 AM   
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So much false idealism in this thread... Can we all just admit, as a group, all at once so no one feels exposed, that we like sexy rich people? Like, a lot? Because I just want to go on record as saying I fucking love money and attractive sexual partners. Those are two things which are well within my top 10 favorite things on earth. We can all go on about how we want "brains" or "compatibility" or my personal favorite "healthy" partners and all those things are true in varying degrees, as are a million other factors of attraction, but we also want comfort and something highly fuckable to share it with. Bury that fact under however many tons of sophistry you like, but that's the truth of it.



No, not true. I will say that I would prefer someone who is not dead broke. I've been through my own financial tough times and that's nothing I want to ever go through again. But rich? I'm sure I've made a joke or two in my life about it, but in all seriousness, rich is not on my list of likes. It's not important. At all. And...at the risk of sounding like an idiot, it's almost a turn-off.



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RE: Which would you prefer...? - 4/1/2012 8:48:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		What would matter most to me is the chemistry between my Master and I. It doesnt matter to me how wealthy, how in shape(though I do want my Master healthy), or even what age they are. What I think is important is mutual interests, chemistry, and honesty.

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RE: Which would you prefer...? - 4/1/2012 10:31:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		This is, to me, a fascinating question. Quite predictably all the answers will say "health". The actual facts though as identified by both common sense and scientific study say "wealth" (for females selecting males). So the fascinating part to me is that this is one of those places where our society hides the actual facts from us.

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RE: Which would you prefer...? - 4/1/2012 12:49:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		The first. I'm used to be being poor, so super hot and sexy? Bring it on!

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RE: Which would you prefer...? - 4/1/2012 1:28:25 PM   
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RE: Which would you prefer...? - 4/1/2012 3:23:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Epytropos

So much false idealism in this thread... Can we all just admit, as a group, all at once so no one feels exposed, that we like sexy rich people? Like, a lot? Because I just want to go on record as saying I fucking love money and attractive sexual partners. Those are two things which are well within my top 10 favorite things on earth. We can all go on about how we want "brains" or "compatibility" or my personal favorite "healthy" partners and all those things are true in varying degrees, as are a million other factors of attraction, but we also want comfort and something highly fuckable to share it with. Bury that fact under however many tons of sophistry you like, but that's the truth of it.



Different people have different priorities. That's not "idealism", it's just hard, cold reality. I suppose I do want "comfort", or at least I want discomfort that's deliberately imposed by a sadist rather than a natural result of poverty, but I don't necessarily want or need actual wealth. I'm happy enough to fly economy class and drink the blended stuff instead of single malt.

As for sexiness, it comes much more from personality than from physique as far as I'm concerned. So, although I'm a male submissive and the OP wasn't intended for me, I'd very much prefer a smart, sane, genuinely dominant woman with some extra kilograms and a chronic shortage of filthy lucre to a skinny but vacuous princess type who had more money than she knew what to do with. Good thing I belong to someone who is anything but a vacuous princess.

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RE: Which would you prefer...? - 4/1/2012 5:03:58 PM   
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What would matter most to me is the chemistry between my Master and I. It doesnt matter to me how wealthy, how in shape(though I do want my Master healthy), or even what age they are. What I think is important is mutual interests, chemistry, and honesty.


Well said, my dear, and I second that!

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RE: Which would you prefer...? - 4/1/2012 5:05:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Epytropos

So much false idealism in this thread... Can we all just admit, as a group, all at once so no one feels exposed, that we like sexy rich people? Like, a lot? Because I just want to go on record as saying I fucking love money and attractive sexual partners. Those are two things which are well within my top 10 favorite things on earth. We can all go on about how we want "brains" or "compatibility" or my personal favorite "healthy" partners and all those things are true in varying degrees, as are a million other factors of attraction, but we also want comfort and something highly fuckable to share it with. Bury that fact under however many tons of sophistry you like, but that's the truth of it.



Different people have different priorities. That's not "idealism", it's just hard, cold reality. I suppose I do want "comfort", or at least I want discomfort that's deliberately imposed by a sadist rather than a natural result of poverty, but I don't necessarily want or need actual wealth. I'm happy enough to fly economy class and drink the blended stuff instead of single malt.

As for sexiness, it comes much more from personality than from physique as far as I'm concerned. So, although I'm a male submissive and the OP wasn't intended for me, I'd very much prefer a smart, sane, genuinely dominant woman with some extra kilograms and a chronic shortage of filthy lucre to a skinny but vacuous princess type who had more money than she knew what to do with. Good thing I belong to someone who is anything but a vacuous princess.


Man after my own heart! Bravo!

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RE: Which would you prefer...? - 5/18/2012 5:19:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		40K is anything but poor, and moneys not an issue if she truly loves him. But the answer to number 2s problems is a gym membership.

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