payingoinker
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Joined: 1/19/2009 Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24 Yes the whole relationship has been about mental control. Over time it advanced to him asking for gifts to redeem myself. He wanted control over everything, and recently asked to start a bank account together and mind you we dont live together. This is when I started really thinking, something is definitely off with this guy. He has always knew i wanted more so he would say things to lead me on. I am sure there are alot of people out there wondering how anyone could be so dumb. Trust me this man is a master manipulator, charming, demanding, and handsome. He has a gift of getting his way and being powerful in the world, and I fell for it. But now Im done. If I was the person on the other end reading what this relationship has been, I would think what a freaking idiot!!! But Im not an idiot, I just got wrapped up in a guy who I loved and wanted to believe in. I dont have low self esteem, I never had trouble having relationships...........I just did a really foolish thing and that is keep talking to a controlling pursuasive man who after months got me to fall for his game. I am sure the challenge of getting me to comply was intoxicating for him. If anyone else comes across this thread having the same problem. My advice is STOP ALL CONTACT AND RUN! Honestly, I don't think he is a bad guy. We all have different fetishes and desires here. If you don't like his then don't go back, but why keep going back and then bash him and run him down. There are a lot of subs that would be happy to serve him. Sorry, but you sound like a whinny insecure little teeny-bopper
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