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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 11:58:09 AM   
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Oh here we go!

I told him I needed to end it and he told me He is not done so therefore its not done. He went into how I knew he was not usual and that I knew he was the TRUE ALPHA for me, and that if a man was screened thru him then I could have my needs met thru someone else. TOld me our mental dynamic was to beautiful to release, and was I aware I was the only one who would wear his collar. Also told me only one other had wore it before for years which he had never even told me that story before.

Gotta be strong, I want to fall for it again!!!




Oy. Ok, well tell him it is done and to kiss your ass as you walk out on him, unless of course, that would be construed as too much sex for him.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 11:58:23 AM   
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" if a man was screened thru him then I could have my needs met thru someone else." translates to "I will tell you no man is right for you but me."


Just more of those crumbs I spoke about. Nothing concrete, no promises, just enough to make you want to think... maybe.

Maybe will never come.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 12:01:22 PM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		Seems like he tried giving you what was designed to make you overlook your basic issues. So he'll 'allow' you to get fucked by someone else, great, you however would like it to be him, so that's something, but not what you want. Plus, who says he'll ever 'approve' someone for that position? He'll probably have issues with anyone you bring up. And why wear the guy's collar if he's not what you want? If your mental dynamic is so beautiful then why were you having issues with it?  It's just so empty in the end what he gave you. Btw, he doesn't need to release you, just walk the hell away- you release yourself.


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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 12:01:30 PM   
xXLithiumXx


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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

Oh here we go!

I told him I needed to end it and he told me He is not done so therefore its not done. He went into how I knew he was not usual and that I knew he was the TRUE ALPHA for me, and that if a man was screened thru him then I could have my needs met thru someone else. TOld me our mental dynamic was to beautiful to release, and was I aware I was the only one who would wear his collar. Also told me only one other had wore it before for years which he had never even told me that story before.

Gotta be strong, I want to fall for it again!!!





How about this...You said it's over, so it's over.

Don't drive to see him again, and if he comes to you, don't let him in.

Go out, buy yourself a giant vibe and fuck yourself into a three day coma, get up, have a shot of tequila and go cougaring. That's how I got over my last ex. Ive been single two years and every time a man approaches me, I remember why.

;)


Edited to add, the tequila gave me a massive hang over, no man is worth that feeling, ever again. =D

< Message edited by xXLithiumXx -- 1/24/2012 12:04:38 PM >

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 12:05:16 PM   
lizi


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If I knew nothing else about him, I would tell you to run based on the above alone.

" if a man was screened thru him then I could have my needs met thru someone else." translates to "I will tell you no man is right for you but me."

What a dickwad.



You and me DS, there we go thinking alike

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 12:10:07 PM   
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I often wondered if there is a degree offered somewhere for that shit, girl.


There is..........It's the *Degree of Shit you can Take before you Float* :)

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 12:20:48 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

Oh here we go!

I told him I needed to end it and he told me He is not done so therefore its not done. He went into how I knew he was not usual and that I knew he was the TRUE ALPHA for me, and that if a man was screened thru him then I could have my needs met thru someone else. TOld me our mental dynamic was to beautiful to release, and was I aware I was the only one who would wear his collar. Also told me only one other had wore it before for years which he had never even told me that story before.

Gotta be strong, I want to fall for it again!!!




Oy. Ok, well tell him it is done and to kiss your ass as you walk out on him, unless of course, that would be construed as too much sex for him.


Hahaha, I think it would be darling. Too funny. I am just going to do the ignor thing now, if i dont he will just talk me into stuff again.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 12:23:34 PM   
LaTigresse


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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 12:27:27 PM   
agirl


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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24


quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1


quote:

ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

Oh here we go!

I told him I needed to end it and he told me He is not done so therefore its not done. He went into how I knew he was not usual and that I knew he was the TRUE ALPHA for me, and that if a man was screened thru him then I could have my needs met thru someone else. TOld me our mental dynamic was to beautiful to release, and was I aware I was the only one who would wear his collar. Also told me only one other had wore it before for years which he had never even told me that story before.

Gotta be strong, I want to fall for it again!!!




Oy. Ok, well tell him it is done and to kiss your ass as you walk out on him, unless of course, that would be construed as too much sex for him.


Hahaha, I think it would be darling. Too funny. I am just going to do the ignor thing now, if i dont he will just talk me into stuff again.


Funny stuff aside; If you still think he can *talk* you into things then you really haven't got to *that place*.

There's a difference between *wanting out* and *getting out*.

agirl


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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 12:32:59 PM   
xXLithiumXx


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Status: offline 		I love the mind set of 'I have to because he said so'. The whole point of this is consensual, meaning there is an absolute and definitive gain for each person. As the sub, you set the pace, you put the lines in the coloring book, and if you aren't getting what you need, you solely have the right to wave a big foamy middle finger at his bogus ass and tell him to kick rocks.

So, for you, blocking every way that he has to contact you is good, but you ultimately have to make up your mind that you are done. Period. End of fecking story. And if he does show up, you have to have the strength of will to leave the door closed, not talk through it, and realize this is happening because it is a choice that you needed to make. For you.

If that doesn't work, call me, I have a team of baseball bat wielding flying monkeys that can handle him. Pro Bono.

I hate pushy doms that want and take everything and give zero back. That isn't how this should work.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 12:34:07 PM   
xXLithiumXx


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ORIGINAL: agirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: chatterbox24


quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1


quote:

ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

Oh here we go!

I told him I needed to end it and he told me He is not done so therefore its not done. He went into how I knew he was not usual and that I knew he was the TRUE ALPHA for me, and that if a man was screened thru him then I could have my needs met thru someone else. TOld me our mental dynamic was to beautiful to release, and was I aware I was the only one who would wear his collar. Also told me only one other had wore it before for years which he had never even told me that story before.

Gotta be strong, I want to fall for it again!!!




Oy. Ok, well tell him it is done and to kiss your ass as you walk out on him, unless of course, that would be construed as too much sex for him.


Hahaha, I think it would be darling. Too funny. I am just going to do the ignor thing now, if i dont he will just talk me into stuff again.


Funny stuff aside; If you still think he can *talk* you into things then you really haven't got to *that place*.

There's a difference between *wanting out* and *getting out*.

agirl



quote:

ORIGINAL: agirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: chatterbox24


quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1


quote:

ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

Oh here we go!

I told him I needed to end it and he told me He is not done so therefore its not done. He went into how I knew he was not usual and that I knew he was the TRUE ALPHA for me, and that if a man was screened thru him then I could have my needs met thru someone else. TOld me our mental dynamic was to beautiful to release, and was I aware I was the only one who would wear his collar. Also told me only one other had wore it before for years which he had never even told me that story before.

Gotta be strong, I want to fall for it again!!!




Oy. Ok, well tell him it is done and to kiss your ass as you walk out on him, unless of course, that would be construed as too much sex for him.


Hahaha, I think it would be darling. Too funny. I am just going to do the ignor thing now, if i dont he will just talk me into stuff again.


Funny stuff aside; If you still think he can *talk* you into things then you really haven't got to *that place*.

There's a difference between *wanting out* and *getting out*.

agirl



quote:

ORIGINAL: agirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: chatterbox24


quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1


quote:

ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

Oh here we go!

I told him I needed to end it and he told me He is not done so therefore its not done. He went into how I knew he was not usual and that I knew he was the TRUE ALPHA for me, and that if a man was screened thru him then I could have my needs met thru someone else. TOld me our mental dynamic was to beautiful to release, and was I aware I was the only one who would wear his collar. Also told me only one other had wore it before for years which he had never even told me that story before.

Gotta be strong, I want to fall for it again!!!




Oy. Ok, well tell him it is done and to kiss your ass as you walk out on him, unless of course, that would be construed as too much sex for him.


Hahaha, I think it would be darling. Too funny. I am just going to do the ignor thing now, if i dont he will just talk me into stuff again.


Funny stuff aside; If you still think he can *talk* you into things then you really haven't got to *that place*.

There's a difference between *wanting out* and *getting out*.

agirl



^^exactly this.


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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 12:35:11 PM   
xXLithiumXx


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If Barbie is so popular, why do you have to buy her friends?

Ideas don't stay in some minds very long because they don't like solitary confinement


You have to believe in yourself. -Tsun Tzu-

Resident Malkavian.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 12:41:23 PM   
LaTigresse


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^^ Whoa.


Step awaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyy from the hookah


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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 12:53:57 PM   
OsideGirl


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I am just going to do the ignore thing now, if i dont he will just talk me into stuff again.


Yup, block his phone number, mark his email as spam or just change your email address. Close out your collarme account and start a new one. Do NOT talk to him again. Period.


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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 1:07:59 PM   
agirl


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Status: offline 		Being a dom wasn't the problem, being a narcissist was. And people don't tend to choose to have this disorder anymore than I chose my OCDness.

While I can have no attachment whatsoever to my ex, I wouldn't deny him my friendship on, what I consider, a superficial level. He's not a BAD person , he's a person with a disorder that is likely to hamper him for his entire life. I am not in thrall to his *wonderfulness* and he is still a worthwhile person with many nice traits.

Also, from what I've read and understand, the OP isn't particularly *submissive*, she wasn't into it, nor was she seeking it. The guy in question raised it and was the thrust of the notion.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 2:30:39 PM   
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Oh FFS!

I feel so much better about every dumbass relationship decision I have ever made now, and there have been some doozies.


You and me both, Hibster.

OP, say it all out loud. "I drive once a month and give him a blowjob and clean his house and give him money. He won't fuck me, he doesn't want to see me naked, and we've been together two years. Now my resolve to leave him might be crumbling."

Yeah, it sounds JUST AS MORONIC when you say it out loud.

Now say this, out loud: "I am a beautiful, charming person. I deserve happiness. I deserve to have my needs met. I deserve FAR MORE than this dickwad is willing to give me."

Yeah, that sounds better.

Cali

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 3:11:52 PM   
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Seems like he tried giving you what was designed to make you overlook your basic issues. So he'll 'allow' you to get fucked by someone else, great, you however would like it to be him, so that's something, but not what you want. Plus, who says he'll ever 'approve' someone for that position? He'll probably have issues with anyone you bring up. And why wear the guy's collar if he's not what you want? If your mental dynamic is so beautiful then why were you having issues with it?  It's just so empty in the end what he gave you. Btw, he doesn't need to release you, just walk the hell away- you release yourself.


HAHAHA, been there too. BTW, no one was ever approved.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 3:45:05 PM   
xXLithiumXx


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ORIGINAL: xXLithiumXx

^^ Whoa.


Step awaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyy from the hookah




That was totally NOT the hookah's fault. I swear it!

That was all about my retarded cable service.

Smackings have been doled out, and the offenders will be executed post haste.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 4:49:49 PM   
chatterbox24


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Status: offline 		QUotes from actual conversation: This is me asking questions about him wanting money.

me: Tell me Master how is givng You money going to help me other then making Your dream come true and making You happy?
How will this make me grow?
Other then being a giving person and showing great generosity
I think this is a valid question. It takes a great deal of trust as You said. It deserves an answer dont You think?

Him: Extending my power will reflect on you. You have to stop thinking it's you vs me. When you make contributions you're contributing to my growth and my energy is shared expenantially with you.

Does that make any sense to anyone? This was from our earlier conversation when I told him at the end it was over.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 5:08:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

QUotes from actual conversation: This is me asking questions about him wanting money.

me: Tell me Master how is givng You money going to help me other then making Your dream come true and making You happy?
How will this make me grow?
Other then being a giving person and showing great generosity
I think this is a valid question. It takes a great deal of trust as You said. It deserves an answer dont You think?

Him: Extending my power will reflect on you. You have to stop thinking it's you vs me. When you make contributions you're contributing to my growth and my energy is shared expenantially with you.

Does that make any sense to anyone? This was from our earlier conversation when I told him at the end it was over.



Did you actually call him Master during this conversation? I mean, if it is over, then he ceases to deserve that title from you.

As to it making sense: he is talking out his ass. Is he in politics by any chance?

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