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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 5:10:29 PM

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Why in christs name are you still talking to him like that? Drop the crap and ask him if he thinks you're a freaking moron that would just continue to pad his wallet.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 5:15:18 PM

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Why in christs name are you still talking to him like that? Drop the crap and ask him if he thinks you're a freaking moron that would just continue to pad his wallet.

Well, of course he thinks she is a moron.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 5:17:19 PM

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QUotes from actual conversation: This is me asking questions about him wanting money.

me: Tell me Master how is givng You money going to help me other then making Your dream come true and making You happy?
How will this make me grow?
Other then being a giving person and showing great generosity
I think this is a valid question. It takes a great deal of trust as You said. It deserves an answer dont You think?

Him: Extending my power will reflect on you. You have to stop thinking it's you vs me. When you make contributions you're contributing to my growth and my energy is shared expenantially with you.

Does that make any sense to anyone? This was from our earlier conversation when I told him at the end it was over.

Sure it makes sense, he's trying anything to get you to think he knows what he's doing- he doesn't want his freebies to end. It makes perfect sense. If you were being taken care of emotionally, physically, and financially wouldn't you put in some major effort to keep that comin? If it's not you vs him and it's the two of you together, then you have to be satisfied as a couple, you're not. It's already been shown that when you make contributions in whatever way, they benefit his growth and energy and have nothing for you at all. It's crap. Walk away. Don't contact him again. Realize you're being tempted and read what CalifChick wrote again

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You and me both, Hibster.

OP, say it all out loud. "I drive once a month and give him a blowjob and clean his house and give him money. He won't fuck me, he doesn't want to see me naked, and we've been together two years. Now my resolve to leave him might be crumbling."

Yeah, it sounds JUST AS MORONIC when you say it out loud.

Now say this, out loud: "I am a beautiful, charming person. I deserve happiness. I deserve to have my needs met. I deserve FAR MORE than this dickwad is willing to give me."

Yeah, that sounds better.

Cali

If you are done with this, what do you care if what he says makes sense or not? I"m not being rude, just redirecting you towards what you seemed to want to do which is to get rid of this relationship that goes no where and doesn't satisfy you.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 5:18:07 PM

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That's the worst part, he's probably getting a huge kick out of this.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 5:20:12 PM

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chatterbox24, would you like to hear my over/under on this situation?

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 5:20:57 PM

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I would!!!

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 5:21:21 PM

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quote:

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QUotes from actual conversation: This is me asking questions about him wanting money.

me: Tell me Master how is givng You money going to help me other then making Your dream come true and making You happy?
How will this make me grow?
Other then being a giving person and showing great generosity
I think this is a valid question. It takes a great deal of trust as You said. It deserves an answer dont You think?

Him: Extending my power will reflect on you. You have to stop thinking it's you vs me. When you make contributions you're contributing to my growth and my energy is shared expenantially with you.

Does that make any sense to anyone? This was from our earlier conversation when I told him at the end it was over.

Let me guess... common goals.

Honey... run.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 5:22:26 PM

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good god, are you that desperate that you cater to this sort of thing?

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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

QUotes from actual conversation: This is me asking questions about him wanting money.

me: Tell me Master how is givng You money going to help me other then making Your dream come true and making You happy?
How will this make me grow?
Other then being a giving person and showing great generosity
I think this is a valid question. It takes a great deal of trust as You said. It deserves an answer dont You think?

Him: Extending my power will reflect on you. You have to stop thinking it's you vs me. When you make contributions you're contributing to my growth and my energy is shared expenantially with you.

Does that make any sense to anyone? This was from our earlier conversation when I told him at the end it was over.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 5:27:18 PM

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The fucking loser can't even spell "exponentially."

I generally consider myself retired from playing State The Obvious, but this guy is so full of shit he squeaks.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 5:28:36 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

QUotes from actual conversation: This is me asking questions about him wanting money.

me: Tell me Master how is givng You money going to help me other then making Your dream come true and making You happy?
How will this make me grow?
Other then being a giving person and showing great generosity
I think this is a valid question. It takes a great deal of trust as You said. It deserves an answer dont You think?

Him: Extending my power will reflect on you. You have to stop thinking it's you vs me. When you make contributions you're contributing to my growth and my energy is shared expenantially with you.

Does that make any sense to anyone? This was from our earlier conversation when I told him at the end it was over.

1) His spelling is jacked up-Exponentially is the word he was looking for OOOOOO...yeah...

2) You giving him money? WTF? No way.

3) WHY are you talking to him again?

4) Please tell me you didnt really call him Master?

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 5:36:22 PM

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OP, what would you tell your daughter, or best friend if they came to you with this implausible tale of sexually gratifying a man who didn't reciprocate, while also cleaning for him and for the icing on the cake- giving him money too? What would you tell that friend about this situation? Because I really can't see how you don't see how ridiculous this is.

If your friend related the conversation to you about how giving him money is supposed to reflect exponential energy onto her, what would you think? That she was an idiot for even listening to that?

What are you doing here OP? Are you happy? If you're leaving then leave, dont' give him a chance to hook you into wasting more time. He doesn't decide when you leave, you do. Of course he'll vote to keep you around, hell, I would.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 5:56:34 PM

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KillerAngel, those are the types of questions I always ask. I wonder what she would tell her mother, if she were in a similar situation?

ETA: The OP should also ask herself how she will feel in one year, five years or ten, if the situation continues in the same vein.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 5:58:08 PM

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If it were my Mother, I'd bitchslap the guy.
If it were my bff, I'd bitchslap her.
So on, and so forth, but there would defo be a lot of bitchslapping, for sure.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 5:59:53 PM

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Shouldn't we love and respect ourselves as much as we love and respect our mothers, sisters and best friends?
I know it's easier said than done, but it really *is* that simple.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 6:06:58 PM

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Absolutely.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 6:17:20 PM

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He wants to collar me soon and told me to think about the words I want to say to him. He told me it would be "an intimidate ceremonious event" Could this mean he might finally have sex with me or please me in some way? I have spend the last 3 to 4 months being a superior slave after my decision I could live without him. I have spent alot of time trying to make up for the time I was an EXTREMELY DIFFICULT SUb to train. Giving him gifts, telling him how wonderful he is, being faithful etc.

Uh, no, he's not going to please you, whatever he's doing now, you can expect that not to change - women always expect men to change, and are disappointed more often than not, it's wishful thinking.

And the truth is, you can say that about women too, people in general - what you see is usually what you get.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 6:20:02 PM

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The problem is that it's easy for us to discern the duplicity and to say what should be done.
Our hearts always make things messier than they would be.
If we were making decisions for others, and they for us, things might be much easier.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 6:26:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

QUotes from actual conversation: This is me asking questions about him wanting money.

me: Tell me Master how is givng You money going to help me other then making Your dream come true and making You happy?
How will this make me grow?
Other then being a giving person and showing great generosity
I think this is a valid question. It takes a great deal of trust as You said. It deserves an answer dont You think?

Him: Extending my power will reflect on you. You have to stop thinking it's you vs me. When you make contributions you're contributing to my growth and my energy is shared expenantially with you.

Does that make any sense to anyone? This was from our earlier conversation when I told him at the end it was over.

After all the venom the OP spewed on me regarding my remarks, for some strange reason I feel vindicated. So the OP asks "Does that make sense" Nothing about you in reference to the relationship makes any sense.

Although from his perspective everything was going his way. FFS you were paying blow him and cleaned his abode for good measure! Not to mention how many other lame ass bitches are doing the exact same thing you are doing.

After you vilified me in previous post, I get extreme pleasure in saying I told you so. Smirk

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 6:30:22 PM

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Lol.......someone bitch slap me!

Yes I did call him Master in the conversation becuase im so used to it. No I am not going back IM done. I just wanted to show you what nonsense psycho babble answers I would get and tell you NOTHING!
ANd to answer Your question...........yes he is involved in studies of capitalism....in the last two yrs......studying my pocketbook......lol.

I think I would go after a man like this who got involved with my daughter, I would be a lioness. Yes sometimes we dont show ourselves the respect we do give others. WOmen are like that sometimes and its not a good thing.

NOt too worry, the moron here has gained some IQ points in the last 24 hours. I am NOT GOING BACK TO THAT.

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RE: Master does not want sex - 1/24/2012 6:38:05 PM

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If it were my Mother, I'd bitchslap the guy.
If it were my bff, I'd bitchslap her.
So on, and so forth, but there would defo be a lot of bitchslapping, for sure.

Yeah, I do a slight variation of the mother/daughter/bff thing- I picture whatever my kids would say. Those 3 men that love their mom (me!) more than anything - what would they say? Would they be happy for me? Would they want to find the guy and do some bitchslapping? They're a tough crowd to play to, I always use them as my voice of reason.

If my 3 found out I was doing something like the OP was doing, the guy would never be found again for daring to disrespect me that much, and they'd probably lock me in a room for a month to make sure I was thinking reasonably before letting me out in society again. They make me lift my head up high and look for people that will respect and love me as much as they do. If I can't see something clearly on my own because of those pesky emotions, thinking of them surely does help me clear things up. There are so many times when I stopped to think what they would think about a certain situation. That always sets me off in a better direction.

OP....who does that for you? Who would look at this situation you are in and wonder what the hell you were doing? Channel them and find some strength and self-respect.

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