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RE: Scat watching/participation - 1/27/2012 8:57:26 PM

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Oh, and I'm not Black - but go figure.

Am I reading this correctly? As in you're saying, ".. and I'm not African American?"

And if so, is there a stereotype that you're referring to? Will you tell me what it is, please?

Or did I just miss something entirely in what you were saying?

Are all Africans half American? She preferred Darker skinned gentlemen, no nationality was specified.

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RE: Scat watching/participation - 1/27/2012 9:05:21 PM

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Is "she" - "I eventually did find a chick who's entire profile consisted of basically describing my entire watersports fantasy right down to the last detail, just nowhere near enough to me"?

The line about your ethnicity did not seem to necessarily follow to me as you did not mention, in the post I referenced, that in her profile she stated, "She preferred Darker skinned gentlemen, no nationality was specified." And even if you had mentioned it I'm not sure I understand what relation which ethnicity you are or are not had to do with the point you were trying to make over all.

"Are all Africans half American?" I do not know how to respond to this as I do not know in what manner you are asking the question.

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RE: Scat watching/participation - 1/27/2012 10:26:35 PM

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Much as I do not understand what point you're trying to make.

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RE: Scat watching/participation - 1/28/2012 10:35:08 AM

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RE: Scat watching/participation - 1/28/2012 12:12:49 PM

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I didn't know Black was out, to whom it may concern, I'm at a loss for words, literally, all I can say is there was no subtext unless you wanted to read one into it.

See I know and have known many people who are African, but not American, and some who are American, but resent being called African - it doesn't matter to me, I'll call you whatever you want me to call you, normally I don't need to mention it at all unless it's relevant information, which in this case it was, given that the person in question expressed a preference, which some people do.

BBC is, I think the standard identifier, which refers to the size and color of a cock - one merely assumes the rest of the person is expected to be of a matching hue, but perhaps I'm assuming too much?

So I can only amend that to say: "Oh, and my cock is neither Black nor especially large - but go figure".

Only point being, nothing is ever perfect.

Anyway, what as the topic again?

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RE: Scat watching/participation - 1/28/2012 1:37:59 PM

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I read no subtext into what you wrote, xssve. I only read what you wrote.

Perhaps my question, “Am I reading this correctly? As in you're saying, ".. and I'm not African American," would have been better asked clearly as, “Are you referencing ethnicity with this statement?

Yes, most African Americans/Blacks have a preference as to how they prefer to be referred to but it was not a point I was at all trying to make.

And my other questions, “And if so, is there a stereotype that you're referring to? Will you tell me what it is, please?" and
"Or did I just miss something entirely in what you were saying? “ were honest to god questions as they stood.

You were talking about watersports when, in what seemed a random manner to me at the time, you referenced ethnicity. I wondered why. I thought that perhaps there was a stereotype of which I was not aware that included Blacks/African Americans and watersports. If there was, I wanted to be educated.

The thing is, you referenced something only understood by you but that the rest of us could not see – information in a woman’s profile of which the reader had no knowledge. Thus I saw a seemingly random reference to ethnicity that I did not understand.

I was not trying to argue with you. I was not looking to start a fight. I honestly was just looking for some clarity and information/education because I’m the curious and studious sort.

Is there greater clarity between us now, xssve? Is the misunderstanding more clear and cleared up?

Thanks for your time in trying to work this out with me.

I believe the last posts were about watersports, scat, and pica.

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RE: Scat watching/participation - 1/28/2012 3:27:50 PM

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Oh, and I'm not Black - but go figure.

Am I reading this correctly? As in you're saying, ".. and I'm not African American?"

And if so, is there a stereotype that you're referring to? Will you tell me what it is, please?

Or did I just miss something entirely in what you were saying?

I have the same questions...

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RE: Scat watching/participation - 1/28/2012 3:35:19 PM

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I just dug a trench & put kevlar on when I read the original post

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RE: Scat watching/participation - 1/28/2012 4:12:29 PM

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Oh, and I'm not Black - but go figure.

Am I reading this correctly? As in you're saying, ".. and I'm not African American?"

And if so, is there a stereotype that you're referring to? Will you tell me what it is, please?

Or did I just miss something entirely in what you were saying?

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Watersports on the other hand seems to be relatively uncontroversial, and I eventually did find a chick who's entire profile consisted of basically describing my entire watersports fantasy right down to the last detail, just nowhere near enough to me.

Oh, and I'm not Black - but go figure.

I had a "huh" moment too and then reinterpreted it as:

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I eventually did find a chick who's entire profile consisted of basically describing my entire watersports fantasy right down to the last detail, just nowhere near enough to me, and she specified a preference for Black men, which I am not.

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RE: Scat watching/participation - 1/28/2012 4:27:53 PM

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Obviously, I'm not as quick on the up take at times. lol

I had to ask for clarification. *facepalm*

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RE: Scat watching/participation - 1/28/2012 5:15:47 PM

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Kudos for you for asking for clarification...and it was confusing as written.

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RE: Scat watching/participation - 1/28/2012 5:25:24 PM

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Awww, shucks! Thanks.

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RE: Scat watching/participation - 1/29/2012 6:02:42 AM

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Allright, is it all sorted out now? Sorry for the confusion, I don't discriminate myself, it's all good.

Anyway, the thread was about scat, not piss, the whole story was just to illustrate to the OP that it's not as simple as just fetish shopping.

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RE: Scat watching/participation - 1/29/2012 10:52:01 AM

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A "little" urine is a world apart from a whole bladderful, getting every damn where. Kiddie pools, bathtubs, the back yard...you have to PLAN for watersports. And, URINE EVERYWHERE. Just not the same, Roch.

Hell, I drank over a pint of it once, straight from source. She was crouching over my face at the time. She'd been drinking white wine, and it tasted of it. Piece of cake. Pee doesn't bother me at all.

Shit now I want to talk about food, except I'd rather do it in the piss thread, if it's all the same - what kind of wine does go with piss?

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RE: Scat watching/participation - 1/29/2012 10:55:33 AM

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Chateau Neuf du pape

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RE: Scat watching/participation - 1/29/2012 11:15:13 AM

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There's a story there I'm sure - does it have anything to do with the only Pope ever struck by lightning?

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RE: Scat watching/participation - 1/30/2012 10:31:44 PM

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Actually FemmeDominion, I followed exactly what he meant from his original post. So though SOME of the people here may not have followed it, I certainly read his post to infer that the lady in question was only seeking black men.

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RE: Scat watching/participation - 1/31/2012 5:25:21 AM

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S'allright, I was tempted to ask if FD had a chip on her shoulder but I didn't, knowing full well that racism is not entirely unknown these boards; mercifully, unusual enough that you could probably name names, but still enough to acquire a sensitivity to it.

And I think I'm the only one still confused - is Black in or out? I ask, and not facetiously, believe it or not, because while I've used African American, or AA for brevity, I have, and still do run into the odd African National from time to time, Kenyan distance runners come here from time to time to train at altitude for example, and I used to end partying with them periodically, I had a shipmate from Eritrea back in the day - best partner I ever had, funny little guy, could draw chicks like flies with his French banter and smooth continental manners, I miss that dude, bitches be falling as they say now, lol.

But yeah, although they're scarce around here, I knew Brothers from Little Rock to Long Island, New Orleans to Chicago, and by "knowing", I mean living, day in and day out, 24/7, eating, sleeping, even using the bathroom together. People are all pretty much the same in macrocosm.

But then race relations isn't the topic, if I'm leery of anybody it would be Domina's, lol - that whole human ashtray thing - bbrbrbrbrbrbrbrb!

Makes even toilet slave seem a little less inhumane.

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RE: Scat watching/participation - 1/31/2012 5:34:19 AM

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All I know is it seems like guys are crazier than women when it comes to this shit.

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RE: Scat watching/participation - 1/31/2012 5:40:20 AM

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All I know is it seems like guys are crazier than women when it comes to this shit.

Ha! Pun!

And really, it's true that men are more into the smeary smelly things generally. When women are into it (I am thinking of Femcar here) there is a different mental aspect to the whole thing, it's "Wow, someone is pissing on me", not "Yay, Piss!".

There's this novel by Samuel R. Delaney called The Mad Man that really illustrates this... the book is astounding, but I had to turn off ALL my sense memory and just look at the words.

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