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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 1/30/2012 4:43:23 PM

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if our personalities match and all that, why would I sell myself to him? I want a relationship with him....he didn't have to buy me. I gave myself to him, freely.

So in answer to your question....no.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 1/30/2012 5:06:27 PM

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Have to admit - at the end of the day, I would have to like the person, which pretty
much says i haven't ever been desperate enough to sell myself......

For me, the person I have to like at the end of the day is myself, and I'd much rather
have the financial institutions hounding me and thinking ill of me for failing to pay on time,
little by little, than giving 100% of myself to someone as a form of payment.

The funny thing is, I would gladly give away my liver, or my kidneys, etc, if it were to benefit
someone I hold close to my heart. Heck, I may even give away some pussy for a good cause.
Making it a financial transaction somehow cheapens the deal for me.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 1/30/2012 5:13:22 PM

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I'd also like to add, the fact that you have outstanding student loans isn't as detrimental on
your credit as you think it may be, nor are outstanding medical bills. I would suggest you send
a letter to the major credit bureaus explaining that while you are behind, you are still making
payments consistently. They will have that letter attached for those reviewing your file to read.
Keep your chin up!

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 1/30/2012 5:13:23 PM

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All kidding aside, this is a seriously difficult question.

I grew up in NYC and I've known some pretty nasty prostitutes (not in the "Biblical" sense). I knew and dated a few "exotic dancers" and the only differences between them and street walkers are: 1) they work indoors B) a bit more pricey.

I was involved with a young lady, back in 06 (I think) who had been unemployed for a time and was having trouble making ends meet. She refused to consider any other kind of employment other than her (very specific) former job ... until someone asked her to be an "escort" (That's pronounced: "High-priced hooker" for those of you in Poughkeepsie).

She came to me with the idea like it was the heavens opening up and mana falling from the sky. I told her, if she took the job, we were through.

I also have no moral objection. It's your body do with it as you will; just don't ask me to treat you like every other lady I meet. I won't. There's a reason for it, though ...

It has been my experience that ladies that work as dancers/hookers/escorts/whatever become jaded in a very distinct way, after a time. I don't know if it's a matter of looking at men as nothing more than a paycheck or something deeper (like an inward anger that they're "forced" into this by whatever circumstances).

Either way, I have seen the changes happen to all those I knew before they entered that line of work and have observed the same behavior in those I hadn't known, previously.

So, while a part of me says: "Wait! You want to pay me for having sex? Wow! There is a God!", an even bigger part of me just feels that I would start to see ladies differently and I don't want that.

There's another element, here. I once was in a relationship with a lady that had a ton of money and liked to throw it around. That was not a problem, at all. I can graciously accept gifts in the spirit in which they're intended. Then, she started changing the clothes I wore. I've never been much of a "clothes horse" so, I had no issue with that.

As time went on, she started very subtly ... very passively "demanding" other changes. Small ones at first, to be sure (like the clothing, etc.) but, they started getting to be a bit much.

This is (I think) where the difference in dominance and submission may come in. I think any situation like this would vest a decent amount of power/control with the spender. I believe it's inherent. That would present more of a problem (I think) for a dominant type.

I'm an easy guy to get along with in a relationship and I've even been known to acquiesce to certain things (she wants the bedroom done in pink/whatever) but, there are lines ... things that are important (she wants to paint my guitar pink) that just are not negotiable.

I think the kind of person that we are (D/s) has to enter the equation. I am not saying that all submissives have the potential to be a whore. I'm saying that those rare few that truly are submissive would have less issue with this type of arrangement than someone who is dominant, certainly.

Peace and comfort,

Michael

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 1/30/2012 5:16:37 PM

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No one would buy me.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 1/30/2012 5:37:31 PM

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Yes...and cheap too...but then again it is not as if people are lining up to take advantage of me.

Do I hear an offer?

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 1/30/2012 6:33:31 PM

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How is what your proposing any different than marriage? Except you can walk away quickly if it doesn't work out?

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 1/30/2012 7:43:55 PM

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I hate whores.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 1/30/2012 8:01:34 PM

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I was the mistress of a very wealthy man for about 24 months, he bought me a new vehicle, rented me a house, paid for my all my bills, I had one of his credit cards to shop with, tons of traveling and gifts, all the accoutrements, sounds great on paper, but then he started acting like he owned me. Guess what? He did. Don't do it. You will regret it.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 1/30/2012 9:29:21 PM

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 1/30/2012 9:42:00 PM

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lol sadist that was funny :p

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 1/30/2012 9:44:05 PM

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At least you know I don't take myself too seriously ...and for the right price, I'm available.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 1/30/2012 9:48:44 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: fucktoyprincess

quote:

ORIGINAL: Justyourpet

For the most part its not about sex although sex is involved.

If sex is involved, in any way, shape, or form, you are dealing with prostitution laws. My original statement still stands. Be absolutely sure you have precautions in place. Be absolutely sure you trust the people you are dealing with. Prostitutes in the U.S. are routinely victims of physical abuse, rape, and other crimes. And this is partly because people have the mentality that if they have paid for your services, they are not bound by regular rules. This is a fact. So proceed how you will, but I would not reject someone's safety advice just because most of the play is non-sexual.

Yeah I am definitely trying to be safe as possible doing this...I guess you can never be too safe and even being safe things can go wrong. Thank you for the advice and everything by the way.

osidegirl
I would make sure he did before I went.

for people wondering how much it would be 10 k up front and then 3 years of college worth so...quite a bit.

I come from an extremely poor background and my school is pretty much paid for by financial aid(although its messed up right now from missing to much classes) and I really am having my doubts. I am going to talk a good little bit with him first before I decide.

and thank you alot aynne for your experience

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 1/30/2012 9:51:12 PM

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Hella funny. First audible chuckle of the day.. thanks RS

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 1/30/2012 10:31:33 PM

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Justyourpet,
Thank you for receiving my humorous and extravagantly overstated reply so well. . . . ok, it was a barely legal hijack. The thought I had been selling myself all along crossed my mind while I was working on this detailed reply so I couldn’t resist the cut, paste & post. I ask that the readers don’t derail this rather nice thread replying to my humor.

As far as your OP and replies so far, I can tell you that I feel I sell myself every time I work for money. In my personal view of reality, in a country where prostitution is legal in several states and in a world where prostitution and paid (arranged marriages) marriages are legal in many countries, I take the broad world view. If the situation suits both parties, go for it and do it with pride!

I have had experience with and know people that have paid finders fees or outright paid for slaves and/or foreign brides. It was a simple interview process and a deal was made. Like any relationship, some quickly failed miserably, some lasted to term and a few worked out so well, they lasted a lifetime so far.

I wish you the best in your endeavors and know that at least one old school kinda’ guy on these forums thinks what you are doing can only be judged by you and the person you plan to make the arrangement with. Think it through, work out the details and plan for a mutually equitable way to dissolve it if it doesn’t work.

Best wishes,
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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 1/31/2012 12:19:53 AM

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I wouldn't sell myself, and it would be rather redundant if I did. I give myself freely and completely to the man I love, respect, and trust. And only to him, my Master. I am entirely his--and it's a relationship, not a financial exchange. So no, I would not sell myself--to give myself to him is the reward in itself, I do not seek payment or compensation. The motivation for being with someone--for me--is always simply being with them. The relationship itself. I would not do it for anything else.

As for selling myself out of "necessity's" sake... My body is not my own to sell and thus I couldn't make that decision even if it was what I thought was best. That being said, even if I were not owned I would rather steal, beg, and scrape garbage from the streets if I had to do so to survive. I would never sell myself, even in the most desperate of situations.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 1/31/2012 12:33:28 AM

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The question is almost impossible to answer, because there are so many "it depends" variations.

To take a couple of extreme examples...

If someone I wasn't attracted to offered my five bucks for a shag, I'd say no.

If a clean, healthy, dude offered me $10,000,000 to blow him (and provided that the risks of STD were managed) I'd chow on that cock, lick my chops and walk out of the hotel room with my check and every ounce of my self respect intact.

I can't really be more precise than that - I'd have to treat each proposition on a case by case basis.

What's the minimum amount I'd take? Well, I suppose that unless it were a significant amount (say what I'd earn in a month) I'd be more likely to ignore the money, make the decision as if none had been offered and if it were yes, I wouldn't ask for the payment.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 1/31/2012 12:34:16 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aynne88

I was the mistress of a very wealthy man for about 24 months, he bought me a new vehicle, rented me a house, paid for my all my bills, I had one of his credit cards to shop with, tons of traveling and gifts, all the accoutrements, sounds great on paper, but then he started acting like he owned me. Guess what? He did. Don't do it. You will regret it.

Lol this is exactly what I was talking about in my financial domination thread a while back. Take her advice people.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 1/31/2012 2:11:02 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aynne88

I was the mistress of a very wealthy man for about 24 months, he bought me a new vehicle, rented me a house, paid for my all my bills, I had one of his credit cards to shop with, tons of traveling and gifts, all the accoutrements, sounds great on paper, but then he started acting like he owned me. Guess what? He did. Don't do it. You will regret it.

I was in a similar situation but I will admit I was a pro Domme at the time. One of my clients offered to buy me a four bedroom house in the city. He was a millionaire and the only catch was, he wanted to be my favorite slave. I accepted, went house hunting and found a fabulous property which I decorated and furnished with his money.
All was good for about eight months but this sort of gift doesn't come without a heap of headaches. He started to become demanding and consumed with jealousy. He started stalking me and even had my itemized phone bills re-directed to his house.
He once took me to his mansion in the country where I met a woman who he had previously told me was his housekeeper. It turned out he had purchased the house for her some years before but then tried to demand it back when he started seeing me.
When I sat him down and told him I was signing the house over to him and moving out, he became temporarily insane. Even though he knew it was over, on my birthday he tried to give me a Lamborghini (which was really hard to refuse!!) He even told me well after it was over that he had re-written his will and left everything to me and I told him that if he had, I would be giving all the money to the RSPCA (a charity he despised)
If it looks too good to be true it probably is too good to be true. Of course it would of been a different situation if I had been in love with him but I was always clear with him that, that would never happen.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 1/31/2012 2:52:58 AM

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yes cheap

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