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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 2/3/2012 7:34:30 PM

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Just wondering if you came across someone who offered you a sum amount of money, had a similar personality, and maybe 50-65% of your kinks matched up...After you met them and everything seemed okay...would you sell yourself? How much is the minimal would you take?

I know its weird, but I am just curious

I haven't found anyone willing to pay yet....but I have to say....I AM affordable (and I offer terms at reasonable interest rates).

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 2/5/2012 1:13:40 AM

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Well it would depend on a lot of things. Would I get to keep the money for myself, or after this person paid me would they keep it?

I think I could for the right amount of money and a really good match, at least personality wise. Since I would selling myself I would have to handle their kinks.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 2/5/2012 7:10:48 AM

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I posted this in the Beating a Transexuals ass thread, but listen to what she says towards the end of the interview.

Those who are in this thread to hang out a shingle can ignore, lol.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 2/5/2012 8:18:01 AM

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I would be worried it was a scam. If it is not, well, why not? My mother always said "You can marry more money in 15 minutes than you can earn in a lifetime.". How is this any different? Make sure you know what you are getting into and have a safety net, though

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 2/5/2012 9:46:59 AM

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The reality is that IF I found someone with the majority of my kinks and they wanted me I cannot see any way shape or form where they would need to buy me. I can pretty well guess I am going to go willingly LOL.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 2/5/2012 11:13:29 AM

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myself, no...might consider acting as a pimp if it was strictly a business relationship though.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 2/5/2012 11:19:23 AM

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myself, no...might consider acting as a pimp if it was strictly a business relationship though.

Ewwww.

Someone choosing to sell their own body is one thing. Someone profiting from having someone else selling their body is something else entirely.

I am on record on this thread for supporting the legalization of prostitution. And part of the reason that I support that is precisely to remove the role of "pimp" - one which I see as nothing but exploitive.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 2/5/2012 8:54:14 PM

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Depends on what I was agreeing to do, but yes, I would. And I wouldn't come cheap, I'm thinking 1k

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 2/8/2012 9:11:07 AM

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Just wondering if you came across someone who offered you a sum amount of money, had a similar personality, and maybe 50-65% of your kinks matched up...After you met them and everything seemed okay...would you sell yourself? How much is the minimal would you take?

I know its weird, but I am just curious

It would depend on what they wanted me to do, and on what I would be getting in return ( and I am not referring to the monetary part ).
Payment, once again, would depend on what they wanted me to do...what's more, if it was something that really interested me, I could be persuaded to do it for free

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 2/8/2012 9:36:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: Justyourpet

Just wondering if you came across someone who offered you a sum amount of money, had a similar personality, and maybe 50-65% of your kinks matched up...After you met them and everything seemed okay...would you sell yourself? How much is the minimal would you take?

I know its weird, but I am just curious

Coming I very late on this, but yes. Depending on the who, what, when and why, but yes.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 2/8/2012 10:49:20 AM

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Depends on what I was agreeing to do, but yes, I would. And I wouldn't come cheap, I'm thinking 1k

1K? That's all? Oh honey, if someone asked me to sell myself to them it would be MUCH higher than that, I can guarantee you. LOL. 1K is a penny in the bucket.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 2/8/2012 4:35:49 PM

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I have pulled out all the stops this year and am driven to lose a ton of weight and be in the shaoe I,have been in,since my 20s. Personal trainer, Bikram yoga, permission,to wear sweats at work on certain days, eating well, all of it.

Couple things I am using to motivate myself, one being to become a paid escort/dominant. In my past I have charged for sex but I was much younger. It more fantasy than reality but there are older professional women who can afford it, who cant find attractive fit men who they can also respect as dominants and who would be willing to pay.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 2/8/2012 6:12:41 PM

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I saw a posting for this very thing a few years ago by a male dom for a female sub, not sure what site...it sounded on the serious side as it was very well thought out...and offered low six figures for 1-2 years "work" then you were cut loose or perhaps the agreement was up for renegotiation with no obligation on either end.

as for me it does pique my interest in many many ways...I have no desire to break the law in any way. somehow make it legal, make it compatible between the two of us, financially rewarding for the time period that I am giving up and I am interested.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 2/8/2012 8:59:01 PM

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Not to me. We live mostly pay check to paycheck. 1k would be quite the amount of extra money. Course maybe that's why I should charge more lol, because we live almost paycheck to paycheck.

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Depends on what I was agreeing to do, but yes, I would. And I wouldn't come cheap, I'm thinking 1k

1K? That's all? Oh honey, if someone asked me to sell myself to them it would be MUCH higher than that, I can guarantee you. LOL. 1K is a penny in the bucket.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 2/9/2012 1:29:57 AM

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It's tough to negotiate and say please at the same time. Any gal I would hang with does not need to write me a check.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 2/18/2012 8:10:48 AM

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 2/18/2012 8:28:15 AM

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for the right price?? hell yes!!

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 2/18/2012 8:57:59 AM

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To a woman I found attractive? Yes, I would have to admit that yes, I would sell myself.
Don't really have to any more, but there was a time when I was buried in debt and supporting a stay-at-home wife and young kid, and I actually considered the possibility of becoming a gigolo to supplement my job. Didn't know how to start or where to find contacts, so I just kept slogging and eventually paid my way out of my problems with regular work, but I wasn't able to provide properly for my then family.
But the question has to be different for a man than for a woman, because a man has to find some way to generate the "gallant reflex." I don't think most women would appreciate paying a man for sex and then him not being able to get it up.
For a woman, no matter how unattractive the man, all you have to do is open your legs and close your eyes.
Granted, since my part is relatively external, and men are less emotional about sex, I can see that the mental part for a woman must be a lot harder, not trying to say that female prostitutes have it easier than males! I'm sure it is quite the opposite.

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 2/18/2012 9:20:59 AM

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I wouldn't sell myself forever, but Angie sure could rent me for an hour or two...and for her, I'd, ahem, cum cheap :-)

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RE: Would you sell yourself? - 2/18/2012 7:07:22 PM

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It's really easy to get vanilla sex for free nowdays, if neither of you are total dropkicks. So I think people offer money for sex, to top up imbalances in looks, fitness, time, personality or sanity. So the question comes down to what's their flaw, that you wouldn't fuck them for free? In the kink world you get the added factor of what sex act you wouldn't do for free and why?

So to translate that into kink. "Would you give up one of your limits to someone who doesn't match your profiles desired demographic, for money?"

or for the Dom's, would you pay someone you don't like, to do something they don't like?

Do you need the money or do you just want the money or do you want the degradation?