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DarkSteven -> RE: need advice (2/2/2012 3:19:35 AM)
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ORIGINAL: toptiersub
Not really sure what to think of my current situation. I started talking to a female who claimed to be dominant with years of experience. I had been on the site for a couple of weeks and she seemed to be legit. She had access to my bank account and paypal and some of my personal information. Nothing was ever taken, but she would never verify herself on cam or with pictures. So we got to talking and she tells me that she doesn't like people who lie. So I am following her rules and doing everything she is asking of me until I told her I had a little over $400 left from my last pay check, but I actually spent some of it and when she asked me to prove the $400+ I said I only have a few hundred dollars left. She got all upset and deleted me from her contacts and refuses to speak to me. So my question is. If a dominant women with years of experience claims to be so. Why is she so easily offended? Shouldn't she take control of the situation and punish me or come up with a way to deal with me?
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1. DO NOT give someone access to your bank account unless you know them very well IRL. Not someone you've known for two weeks online.
2. Online claims mean little. She may have been a man with no experience. You never know.
3. I have exchanged pictures. I have never verified nor been verified.
4. Why is she easily offended? If someone lied to me in the first two weeks of a relationship, I'd be less than happy as well.
5. Shouldn't she take control of the situation and punish me or come up with a way to deal with me? You're asking about the Dommes' Union rules, which all Dommes must subscribe to, right? There ARE no rules that Dommes follow - each is different.
So take ElanSubdued's advice, assuming "she" left you anything in your accounts, and count yourself lucky that you weren't taken for more.
And unhide your profile if you really want to meet Dommes here.
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