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PolyDommesgirl -> RE: Beating a transsexual's ass (2/4/2012 7:08:47 AM)
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i had to leave the covo last night. It was late, i was tired, and i believe the moderator was on top of every word said, as the boards seemed very slow to me.
MrBukani, i appreciate your opinion on this subject and the subject of honesty.
i would like to point out that much of your argument is based on your perceived possible future circumstances. Your argument also seems heavily influenced by your personal beliefs and current life paradigm, which may not be the same for anyone else.
As such, i thank you for letting us know you and NS would not want to be in a relationship with people like me. You have done us both a favor. You now know about us, and we know about you. Cross 2 people of the search list of the 6 billion. There it is decided.
Now when you began to act as a defendant to someone, who never asked for a defense counselor, to someone you have never met, or known, i feel you may have crossed the line.
You mention taking away a male partners right to have children. Why are you so concern about that. Have you managed to keep every one of your sperm, to ensure your will have that right and opportunity? Likening to women who freeze their eggs? Hmm i doubt it.
Furthermore, how do you know that they want to have children? How do you know that conversation has not or will not happen? And why do you assume the child needs to be biologically theirs?
In O/our circumstances, W/we do not want children. My Partner, does not want children for medical reasons, i do not want children because i know my circumstances at this point, and i would not make a decent parent. (Believe it or not, there are hundreds of men and women who do not want children.)
However, if W/we did decide W/we wanted children, there are hundreds if not thousands of children who are in need of fostering or adoption. As is the case for the couple we are discussing.
Another example you state is that you believe that the transgender person is being selfish.
Selfish. SELFISH? Are you serious? Come walk a mile in my moccasins.
i have had gender issues for nearly 35 years.
i have had and lost 18 different jobs thus far due to environmental and social incompatibility.
i have lost my first wife and lost my first born child. To top it off, my ex refuses to talk to me and refuses to let my child speak to me. The most sickening part, my ex has filled my daughter's head that some how i will abuse or molest her because i have sought my alignment.
i have been physically assaulted and verbally abused almost annually until i was 35.
i have spent thousand of dollars on antidepressants all in the name of FITTING your mold of how a person should behave and act in society.
During those 35 years i contemplated suicide on numerous occasions.
SELFISH you say, because i don’t want such volatility in my life?
SELFISH you say, because i want a sense of normalcy in my life?
SELFISH you say, because i because i want some to love, and to love me?
SELFISH because i wanted the same standard of living as my peers?
With all do respect Sir, if that that is your belief, so be it. i embrace my selfishness, because i just like you are, entitled to these qualities of life.
Now that my personality an physical appearance match, and i am accepted by the majority of society, save a few people like you.
Well as the old saying goes, you can't please all the people all of the time.
i am not so self absorbed to want, need or require your acceptance.
Perhaps that's because i am in a different place or space right now. To those in (Real Life) whom i have come out to, i have received nothing but support. Maybe in your environment, i would not receive such support.
Currently in my life, i get to wake up to 35 horses on a beautiful ranch. In my life i get to pick up a camera; any time i desire; and take pictures of animals, people, and nature. (http://ehveechic.deviantart.com/) In my life i am a chauffeur to celebrities, and vacationers. In my life i am learning about Reiki, and Buddhism.
i just turned 40, and i am happier now than ever before. Except when i encounter people like yourself.
Maybe that is the problem for you. Perhaps you have been programmed to be unhappy and you dislike seeing others attain a state of joy and happiness.
What ever the case, life goes on.
Again thank you for sharing your constricted and limited belief system. Thank you for letting everyone know you would rather create barriers between people over one aspect of their lives.
i bet you have 1000s other traits that would make you and i great friends. i bet you have a couple 100 of qualities that would you a great partner. It is truly a shame that you would let 1 thing destroy all of that potential.
Your personality is one that seeks reasons to be exclusive, rather than inclusive.
That in my opinion makes you discriminatory and prejudiced against those who do not conform.
The more people you push away, the fewer people you will have to play with.
Good luck with that.
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