DomSavant
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Joined: 5/31/2006 Status: offline
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With regard to the post where babysburnin related the story where her Dom told her she was so amazing.... It sounds to me like she has a wonderful, caring man. For the longest time, I've battled misconceptions about BDSM when talking to newbies and others. Many seem to think that it's ALL about whips and chains and the fringe stuff. Few seem to realize that it's what two people WANT to make of it. There are varying degrees of BDSM...some sadistic, some whose primary focus is on 'sensual torture'... As for me, I'm constantly amazed that all the so-called Internet Doms and Masters seem to disregard the Primary Rule: Always treat your sub or slave like a lady. (Barring, of course, mutually agreeable sessions). This is a small price to pay for someone who has offered herself up to you completely, placing her trust in you. Opening car doors for her, seating her at a restaurant...only INCREASES the submissive desires within a sub. There's more, but I think I've made my point. babysburnin's Dom or Master should be commended.
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