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RE: Setting my sub up to be used - 2/17/2012 3:06:27 AM   
MsSylverdawn


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Status: offline 		Really I dont think so but then again.. my mistake was to be offended by the thought of someone under the age of legal consent being involved in collar me and making those sort of decisions.

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RE: Setting my sub up to be used - 2/17/2012 1:03:43 PM   
Fornica


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsSylverdawn



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RE: Setting my sub up to be used - 2/17/2012 1:05:44 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Its a sort of a melon ball, I guess.

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RE: Setting my sub up to be used - 2/17/2012 1:06:23 PM   
Fornica


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RE: Setting my sub up to be used - 2/17/2012 1:07:07 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Ja, thats the one, the one with melon balls in it, used for the harvest festival toasts in Ypsilanti.

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RE: Setting my sub up to be used - 2/17/2012 2:36:26 PM   
MsSylverdawn


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Status: offline 		oh no at five am I made a spelling mistake.... let me go self flagellate... mea culpa.. mea culpa..

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RE: Setting my sub up to be used - 2/17/2012 3:19:53 PM   
MissImmortalPain


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Status: offline 		If the issue is a legal one...they are both of the age of consent, at least as far as sex goes. In the states one of them wouldn't be able to drink but that wasn't any part of their question. Infact they could both serve in and die for the military. That seems like a good enough reason to treat them as adults.

As for spelling errors, more of a typo....we all make them at some point(lord knows I do)




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RE: Setting my sub up to be used - 2/17/2012 6:03:37 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Fornica

I thought maybe a wooden shoe?



Nope....melon ball.

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RE: Setting my sub up to be used - 2/18/2012 2:54:19 PM   
myrgth


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Status: offline 		One of the best things about being involved in your local community and getting to know people is that you will know people who are available or open to such requests.

With a bi experience, I've asked friends to help set up the experience - either if their sub was available or who they may know who would be interested.  There are many swingers and such who are bi.

Otherwise, I would say that starting in the gay/bi community might get you a bit further than going at it cold.

On line would make me leery for a one time experience.  I would much rather it be someone I know and trust or someone who comes highly recommended, who I can verify in some way is D&D free.

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RE: Setting my sub up to be used - 2/18/2012 6:07:13 PM   
Madame4a


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From: Washington, DC area
Status: offline 		I would never go the online route.. because I really like to know people well that I engage with... on many levels. And even in the 'community', on a face to face basis, this is really hard. Finding a man for this purpose is almost harder than finding a unicorn...

I tried it for a couple of years with someone I played with for awhile.. we could never work it out... ultimately, I was looking at having both men under my control... we never even came close to finding someone appropriate...

for my money, the best option is to engage with others in the community, get to know people really well and see eventually if someone seems to be the right fit...

ETA ... I should read all the response.. and yes, what myrgth said... but I wouldn't approach the gay community with this...

< Message edited by Madame4a -- 2/18/2012 6:08:21 PM >

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RE: Setting my sub up to be used - 2/18/2012 7:41:10 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Ja, thats the one, the one with melon balls in it, used for the harvest festival toasts in Ypsilanti.


Melon balls.

(Are there 2 L's in "Mellon balls"?)

I think the (one of the) OP('s) was incorrect...I believe there are 2 L's.

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RE: Setting my sub up to be used - 2/18/2012 7:45:26 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Fornica

I thought maybe a wooden shoe?



Fornica......

You really need to stop changing photos....because my hayud is turning into jello.

It's not right.

I'm 53, a child of the 60's....I only have a few brain cells left. Berkley, San Francisco.....etc....

I'm using sticky notes now for some of the most mundane shit....those photos are causing discombobulation.

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RE: Setting my sub up to be used - 4/12/2012 5:18:02 PM   
DominaCeleste


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Status: offline 		I totally lucked out. My ex volunteered to help me out with my new boy.

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RE: Setting my sub up to be used - 4/12/2012 5:57:03 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Yeah, I'm actually kind of surprised about the responses saying this is hard to do.  It's not.  If you are out there in your local community, it isn't terribly hard to find volunteers.

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RE: Setting my sub up to be used - 4/12/2012 8:36:32 PM   
cloudboy


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You have opened up the ALL TIME TOPIC OF THIS FORUM. If you can keep it going for 59 pages, I will sign up as your BULL!

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RE: Setting my sub up to be used - 4/12/2012 8:40:33 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		If that happens, I want pics!

(Yeah, like anyone was surprised that was coming.)


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RE: Setting my sub up to be used - 4/13/2012 12:35:13 AM   
FrostedFlake


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Status: offline 		Similar results come of giving a hand grenade to a chimpanzee.

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RE: Setting my sub up to be used - 4/13/2012 12:50:11 AM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: FrostedFlake

Similar results come of giving a hand grenade to a chimpanzee.

Something good might happen, but don't bet the rent.

I'm kind of surprised at this response, too.  Would you care to elaborate?


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RE: Setting my sub up to be used - 4/13/2012 1:14:09 AM   
PupMark


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain
Personally I wouldn't use the net for this. I wouldn't ask this of anyone I didn't know very well and trust on an extreme level.


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
Regardless of the scene, I wouldnt ask someone I didn't know and trust to get near anyone that was mine.


Both quoted for the truth.

Just think what youre asking him to do.
You know that you are looking for a bi/gay guy right ?
You must want it (both of you) 100%. He will not be the same after that you know.



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