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Greetings from Ontario - 2/18/2012 12:05:20 PM   
WanderingWishes


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Anyway I am a submissive from a city called kingston up here in Canada land. The D/s scene is practically dead from what I can find.
I've been looking for someone local to have a meet up with, make friends with and maybe get into some D/s or BDSM or whatever acronyms they have for it.

I'm pretty fresh in real life bondage and such, but I happen to play a game called second life where I serve a Mistress, and also play in a gor RP sim.
I'm planning to move to my Mistress in real life when I can. We've become the greatest of friends, she feels like the only true family I have. We are so close and know basically everything about each other, helped each other through hell and back.

I have permission to seek out someone to do a bit of play with, to see how well I stack up for real life submission. Everyone knows online and real life are different.

But... things have gotten really desperate for me. I've been mulling over providing a web cam service for money, as much as I hate to do that, but I have to find anything I can to be able to eat.

I am a transsexual, still preop. And most of my family and friends have outcasted me for it. I am jobless and homeless right now. Been bunking with a couple old friends from school who are less than supportive at times. I also have my boyfriend with me from the US who is not legally allowed to work... so I have a huge mess.

I'd actually really strongly consider moving in with someone if I could find someone nearby with a room to rent out. But that's not really the issue right now.
I'm not exactly sure what I am trying to say, I'm just nervous right now.

I'd like to meet someone in kingston, make some new friends, get into some play if possible. Maybe even find a new roommate (fellow sub or dom/me, doesn't matter) or even a "vanilla" person who wont berate me for being "a freak" because of my body or mentality.

If someone could point me to some cam sites that take in preop trannies too I guess that would help. I'd like some info on that whole thing if I can find it.
I am really leery of using google to search up that kind of stuff as I am very protective of my computer.

I guess that's enough rambling for now. I guess I'll see what comes of this.

Thanks for the read and I hope I can learn some things here, if nothing else develops.
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RE: Greetings from Ontario - 2/18/2012 12:12:24 PM   
ashjor911


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Status: offline 		hello
how is the Snow this year up there?
Welcome

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RE: Greetings from Ontario - 2/18/2012 1:24:43 PM   
Delilya


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RE: Greetings from Ontario - 2/18/2012 2:28:16 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Crap.  I'm sorry.  Just letting you know, craigslist is a good place to find jobs fast.  What's your previous work experience?

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RE: Greetings from Ontario - 2/18/2012 3:20:22 PM   
WanderingWishes


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Status: offline 		Heh... thank you all..

First, there is barely any snow at all this year. Very strange these last few years. Normally we'd be up to our knees in snow but I have only seen maybe 4 or 5 good snow falls where anything stayed. Been mostly rain.

Second my job history seems to be mostly food service and cleaning. (and it just now hit me that there may be a connection between that and my submissive nature... or it could be coincidence... hehe)

Craigslist eh? I never tried that one before. I hope the people posting are alot more trans-friendly than most places I have been to. It would probably all be fine if it wasn't for that cursed little M on my legal documents....

I'm still a little jittery about being on this site. This is something I always hid in shame but now it's been coming out hard and fast. The more I get into it the more I like it. I can't wait until I can be with my Mistress. She is the greatest person I have ever met. (and if she isn't... well it's not like I have anything to lose...)

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RE: Greetings from Ontario - 2/18/2012 4:12:24 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		WanderingWishes, this site is fairly trans-friendly.  There are a few here who are anti-trans unfortunately, but there is a much larger number that are trans-accepting.

I can't speak to your local scene of course, but the Colorado scene is populated by folks I would describe as trans-bored.  They don't care whether someone is trans or not.  No political correctness, no conservative reactions, just simple acceptance.


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RE: Greetings from Ontario - 2/18/2012 4:23:30 PM   
sebastien31


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Status: offline 		Greetings from Montreal. Good luck, i'm sure you'll get through this. Welcome to CollarMe, you will find a lot of very good people here.

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RE: Greetings from Ontario - 3/8/2012 9:06:49 PM   
juliadryad


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RE: Greetings from Ontario - 3/9/2012 3:46:54 AM   
ashjor911


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helloo
Welcome you too

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RE: Greetings from Ontario - 3/12/2012 9:47:25 AM   
OohAahMrs


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