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Public humiliation/Blackmail Games - 2/22/2012 10:43:08 AM

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Any ideas on public humiliation? enforced fem on male though blackmail

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RE: Public humiliation/Blackmail Games - 2/22/2012 10:46:33 AM

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Public as in among kinky like minded people?

Or public as in at the mall?

Because the second one isn't kosher.

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RE: Public humiliation/Blackmail Games - 2/22/2012 10:50:17 AM

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public humiliation as in like minded people in the main... but exposure to close friends and family, total account control and chastity, forced to embrace feminism 24/.

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RE: Public humiliation/Blackmail Games - 2/22/2012 10:53:39 AM

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Unless those friends or family are kinky or have agreed to be included in the dynamic, it's not a good thing. It's rude and could be upsetting for them.

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RE: Public humiliation/Blackmail Games - 2/22/2012 10:54:35 AM

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i hear you, but respectfully dont agree... its there faces of despair that drive the passion

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RE: Public humiliation/Blackmail Games - 2/22/2012 11:02:29 AM

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Nice to see that getting your jollies is more important than showing respect for the feelings of your friends and family.

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RE: Public humiliation/Blackmail Games - 2/22/2012 11:24:20 AM

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i hear you, but respectfully dont agree... its there faces of despair that drive the passion

No, I don't think you hear her. I won't speak for her, so you get what I think. I think that you have a fantasy and wish to go forth whatever we might feel about it, but you did ask. Involving other people in getting your rocks off, should be a consensual act, in my opinion.

The 'despair' the humiliated submissive would feel has nothing to do with anything. I can do that without exposing others unless it is agreed upon before I take action.

If you are looking for kinky ways we would do it, you aren't going to get much in the way of 'interesting' answers here because you are one of many that think your enjoyment and seeking of kinky things to do that line up with your fantasy, aren't something we will take part in here or elsewhere. Most aren't going to assist you. Not only do you not care if your kink involves others that may not want to be involved, you really don't care that you are trying to manage something here with your question. Do you think we're stupid or this is a free for all and anything goes and we might just join you? Naw... but then you may see that by the end of page one.

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RE: Public humiliation/Blackmail Games - 2/22/2012 11:58:28 AM

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Kink is meant to enrich your life, not destroy parts of it. Consider the rammifications of actions before you do them.

Public humiliation among other kinksters is grand, horrifying someone's family and possibly estranging them is not.

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RE: Public humiliation/Blackmail Games - 2/22/2012 5:17:22 PM

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In other words using your vanilla friends and family members as props in a D/s based fantasy you wish to enact where you are "forced" ( wink,wink,) to do something you are actually thrilled to do with little to no regard to the impact this fantasy trip would have on those friends and family members.....

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RE: Public humiliation/Blackmail Games - 2/22/2012 5:19:45 PM

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In other words using your vanilla friends and family members as props in a D/s based fantasy you wish to enact where you are "forced" ( wink,wink,) to do something you are actually thrilled to do with little to no regard to the impact this fantasy trip would have on those friends and family members.....

The way I read it, the worse they feel about it the better he would like it ...

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RE: Public humiliation/Blackmail Games - 2/22/2012 5:27:17 PM

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I agree. And he has no regard at all for his family or friends. In fact he demonstrates a desire to inflict emotional pain on his family members which is very sick in my view. I do not think the original poster is a submissive, he seems more like a sociopathic manipulator.

I suspect it has always been all about him all of the time for a very very long time.

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RE: Public humiliation/Blackmail Games - 2/23/2012 11:01:36 AM

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Just going to chime in as another kinky person saying "No". Scaring or scarring "the straights" is not acceptable. They have not consented to taking part in your play, and see no reason why you should want to force yourself on some one that way. You should ask yourself this: Is it safe? No, you could get seriously hurt (did you think of that one?). Is it sane? No, no one in their right mind would want to victimize anyone else this way. Is it consensual? I think many of us have agreed, absolutely not!

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RE: Public humiliation/Blackmail Games - 2/23/2012 12:46:48 PM

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I'm still stuck on the statement that it's humiliation to "embrace feminism 24/7".

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RE: Public humiliation/Blackmail Games - 2/23/2012 12:47:49 PM

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And also again people throwing around the word "sociopath" to mean anyone who does things they don't approve of..

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RE: Public humiliation/Blackmail Games - 2/23/2012 12:55:37 PM

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Also, have you actually thought that seeing this person being publicly humiliated could backfire on you? The 'public' you inflict this on unwillingly might actually take offence, take pity on the sub and decide to beat the living crap out of you in return...

Just a thought...

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RE: Public humiliation/Blackmail Games - 2/23/2012 1:09:38 PM

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And also again people throwing around the word "sociopath" to mean anyone who does things they don't approve of..

Besides it's not necessarily sociopathic behavior, probably more of a compulsive fixation. Basically, he wants to get his sexual fixation fulfilled with no thought to the consequences. He lacks empathy for the harm done to others, the but that's not necessarily sociopathic behavior. It could just be stemming from the fixation on his fetish to the point that he can't see past it.

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RE: Public humiliation/Blackmail Games - 2/23/2012 1:17:25 PM

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And also again people throwing around the word "sociopath" to mean anyone who does things they don't approve of..

I agree... many think a sociopath covers a multitude of things it doesn't. A sociopath is self focused and don't care about the needs or anything else of anyone but themselves, though they can act that part and know to do so. They are truly about power dynamics and manipulation to get what they want. They are also harmful and often time dangerous, moving into being a psychopath. There is a big difference between someone stuck on fantasy and self and a true sociopath. To put that title to people that were not born a sociopath, dilutes the full meaning of a sociopath and confuses poor behavior with a true medical condition. Its irresponsible at the least.

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RE: Public humiliation/Blackmail Games - 2/23/2012 1:24:05 PM

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I'm still stuck on the statement that it's humiliation to "embrace feminism 24/7".

And/or... that one can be forced into something they really want. On one hand... it can be seen as insulting to those that might be insulted, shows a poor view of a number of things and an unrealistic role play. Force me to do it.. I hate it and find it humiliating... but I love it and will beg to the point of stupidity for it.

Go figure...

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RE: Public humiliation/Blackmail Games - 2/23/2012 3:54:27 PM

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Sociopaths have little regard for the feelings of others and manipulate others in order to get what they desire. The original poster demonstrates this lack of empathy for his family and friends, not just people he does not know. The price in emotional pain his family and friends will pay in his quest to get off from this experience is simply not a factor for him. He views them as props and not people who are emotionally bonded to him.

In my view the original poster is a sociopath.

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RE: Public humiliation/Blackmail Games - 2/23/2012 4:01:34 PM

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I don't know that the op mentioned family. The op sounds like every other forced fem wanna be that has presented on the forum. Addicted to a fantasy with little regard to anyone else. Unless every addicted fantasy seeker is a sociopath and we need an addition to the description of what a sociopath is... this is pretty typical behavior around here. Being self focused and not caring about others isn't the only 'symptom' of a sociopath and the damage done is far more serious than neglecting to be concerned about a public humiliation scene of being dressed like a woman being blackmailed. lol

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