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lizi -> RE: Is there some sort of oxymoron here... (2/26/2012 5:30:48 AM)
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Let's see, basically your premise here is that it's nudity is allowed on the site after some policy changes over the years so why should either gender have a problem with it. Also it's a double standard that women complain about the nude pictures of men, but why do they then have up nude pictures themselves. Oh...and everyone should be used to nudity in the media in this present day, plus this is a kink site, it should be a given that we'll encounter adult themes. Hope I got it all correct there.
One thing you're not taking into account that seems rather blatant is the difference between the sexes, how they think, and what they want. A woman generally wants a relationship, a man may want a relationship, but may also take whatever sex comes his way. Therefore she cares about the quality of the men she wants to meet, a picture of someone's penis or ass puts out the premise that the pic's owner primary purpose is being here for the penis or ass. It's like a target or bullet point- short and sweet, this is what this person is here for and what they are concentrated on. Men however will generally look lovingly at breasts and vagina all day long. It's a gender thing. The genders have different wiring and different goals- that's not an oxymoron, it's apples and oranges.
You're forgetting that a lot of scammers and men use female nudity to generate interest to their profiles too. So it's not all women out there posting up vag pictures.
Why should people do something simply because it's allowed or why do they have to be ok with it because the rules of a place say it's fine? Do you go to the grocery store in your pajamas? Pj's are clothing, there's no rule against posted on the outside of the store. Would you go take your dog to the dog park with unbrushed hair or shaving cream slathered over your face? Why not, no rules against it. It's incredibly disingenuous to think that everyone should conform to the rules or no rules of places without having their own personal standards come into play.
It doesn't seem to me that there are so many oxymorons here at all. People function at the level that makes them comfortable or reflects what is valuable to them. If anything is to be expected, it's that a large gathering of many human beings will have many differences. Saying they should all be in line with this or that is useless because it's not simply whimsy that is dictating how they feel.
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