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Anger - 2/28/2012 8:34:26 AM   
TheBootyMan


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Status: offline 		My domm friend seems to have a lot of it. I always seem to be making her angry one way or the other and she lashes out quite a bit. I know I'm not the easier guy to get along with but damn....I was wondering if anger is a big part of the mistress world and part of the reason you do what you do.
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RE: Anger - 2/28/2012 8:35:09 AM   
kalikshama


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RE: Anger - 2/28/2012 8:37:49 AM   
TheBootyMan


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Status: offline 		You think? Maybe you angry too.

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RE: Anger - 2/28/2012 8:48:14 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I don't remember the last time I was really angry. So yeah, it's you.

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RE: Anger - 2/28/2012 8:49:45 AM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		At the base of all your dealings here seems to be this attitude where 'we' are all this big group apart from the rest of the world. It's like you keep making BDSM out to be some cult that is outside the usual norm. It's not. People into this are just like anyone else. So you met a woman who has anger issues, why not ponder if that's at the base of why she likes shopping or gardening?

Sure...there are people with anger problems who include BDSM in their life, and there are people who don't. Actually, in my own small circle I'd have to say that the people I know who include this as part of their life are less angry than the population at large, but that may be my own preference in play for associating with people that are pleasant and mature.

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RE: Anger - 2/28/2012 8:55:19 AM   
TheBootyMan


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Status: offline 		Maybe you are on to something. Maybe the dooms are less angry as a whole because they get to let it out by giving their slaves a good ass warming or titty twist now and then.

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RE: Anger - 2/28/2012 11:07:51 AM   
SaharahEve


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ORIGINAL: TheBootyMan

My domm friend seems to have a lot of it. I always seem to be making her angry one way or the other and she lashes out quite a bit. I know I'm not the easier guy to get along with but damn....I was wondering if anger is a big part of the mistress world and part of the reason you do what you do.


Anger is inevitable sooner or later, as is the discipline (of some form) to follow if you are in service to a Mistress, but if you find you're making Her angry all the time, you might want to reevaluate your mutual compatibilities. I know that sounds like really shallow advice, but it's amazing how so many men ignore the obvious. Seeking out a Mistress or slave doesn't somehow change the fact that personal compatibility is an enormous concern. If men could just stop for a moment, collect their drool and come clean with themselves, there would be less headaches all around, I think, when they direct their attentions to the task of finding a Mistress to serve.


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RE: Anger - 2/28/2012 11:14:54 AM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SaharahEve


quote:

ORIGINAL: TheBootyMan

My domm friend seems to have a lot of it. I always seem to be making her angry one way or the other and she lashes out quite a bit. I know I'm not the easier guy to get along with but damn....I was wondering if anger is a big part of the mistress world and part of the reason you do what you do.


Anger is inevitable sooner or later, as is the discipline (of some form) to follow if you are in service to a Mistress, but if you find you're making Her angry all the time, you might want to reevaluate your mutual compatibilities. I know that sounds like really shallow advice, but it's amazing how so many men ignore the obvious. Seeking out a Mistress or slave doesn't somehow change the fact that personal compatibility is an enormous concern. If men could just stop for a moment, collect their drool and come clean with themselves, there would be less headaches all around, I think, when they direct their attentions to the task of finding a Mistress to serve.



You need to read his previous posts to understand what is going on. He's not a sub.


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RE: Anger - 2/28/2012 11:30:08 AM   
SaharahEve


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

You need to read his previous posts to understand what is going on. He's not a sub.



Ah, gotchya. Well, as for having "dom friends," I never have a problem with that, assuming they remain respectful. Sometimes, however, they somehow think they're above the men who serve me, and that opportunistic "alpha male" bs tends to annoy me. Along with that comes the stupid flirting and insinuations. I suppose in that respect, "collect your drool and come clean with yourself" still applies, lol.

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RE: Anger - 2/28/2012 12:05:48 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		Dominants tend to be bad-tempered, whereas subs tend to be annoying, TBM. That's about the size of it, from my point of view.

IMO, both sides would benefit from regular wholesome exercise, as could be found in boot camps or Himalayan treks, for instance.

I hope that helps.

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RE: Anger - 2/28/2012 12:12:26 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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ORIGINAL: TheBootyMan

I was wondering if anger is a big part of the mistress world and part of the reason you do what you do.



Nope, though I'm only speaking for myself and every female dominant I know.

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RE: Anger - 2/28/2012 12:16:30 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Peon, people that like to believe they are submissive or slaves when they are only a slave to their own kink are indeed annoying. Still, not worth getting angry over.

Considering that a polite 'No thank you. Please take the time to actually READ the profile of the person BEFORE sending them an email. It will save both parties considerable time.' is seen as being bad tempered and receives a bad tempered and rude reply. I must wonder exactly who has anger issues.

Beating sassy slaves actually IS wholesome exercise.

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RE: Anger - 2/28/2012 12:34:53 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		It was *minutes* ago when I wrote my last post, La T. Life's changed and I've moved on since then.

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RE: Anger - 2/28/2012 12:59:17 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Perfect solution! Well, I think anyway. Rather than blame what someone does on the whole group of people that may carry a 'title' and then find fault with everyone that responds to you, why not see your dominant as an individual... kind of like that vomit friend of yours? Oh... and... have her vomit on both of you.. I bet that would take a whole lot of anger out seeing as though vomiting on someone, not into it it feels humiliated, dirty, worthless and unhappy and she could vent her anger.

Feed her something really good... like lots of texture and color... get her mad and push the vomit guy in front of her, stand beside him and let your domina you love so much and wish to serve in the way of her not being vanilla and boring your ego, vent her anger. Everyone is happy, even you because you may not like anger or vomit... but going by your many threads and posts... you like humiliation and to harass people. Just wash your clothes before you go home to your wife, she didn't consent to be part of the game from what you have said previously. You cannot harass her in all fairness. So you miss out on one thing you like very much... harassing people... but you get the rest.

Bonus... your friend stops calling you every hour when he is consumed with not getting any.




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RE: Anger - 2/28/2012 1:03:23 PM   
xanzabelle


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Status: offline 		You're annoying. You should be thankful that she puts up with your annoying ass.

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RE: Anger - 2/28/2012 1:12:28 PM   
LoreBook


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Status: offline 		I'm not bad-tempered nor am I often angry, and if a sub/slave who served me made me angry often then they wouldn't be my sub/slave, no different from a vanilla situation. If the MATH made me mad all the time he would be the MWUTBATH in pretty short order, just as I'm sure he'd give me the heave-ho if I made him angry often.

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RE: Anger - 2/28/2012 1:32:56 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		A friend goes trekking in Nepal every year. I am sure that contributes to her cheerful disposition.

As for the OP, he should find better employees.

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RE: Anger - 2/28/2012 1:45:30 PM   
kalikshama


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You think? Maybe you angry too.


Nope.

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RE: Anger - 2/28/2012 4:35:09 PM   
searching4mysir


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ORIGINAL: TheBootyMan

You think? Maybe you angry too.



I'm a sub and a quite happy one since Master and I are marrying this summer.

It's you. Particularly if you behave near her the way you do in the forums here.

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RE: Anger - 2/28/2012 4:39:30 PM   
Alecta


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Status: offline 		I'd be angry too, if I had you as a boss. *eyeroll*

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