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becoming more submissive - 2/28/2012 11:22:41 AM

HEIDISslave

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good evening master and misstress and subs and or slaves.
slave was wondering if any of you could other advice on helping slave become more submissive for its owner.
slave wants nothing more in the world then to make her happy. and is working hard to improve itself all the time.
slave was wondering if there is any advice anyone could offer slave to improve?
and if not sorry for wasting your time.
p.s. thankyou for reading aswell.
all the best.
slave

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RE: becoming more submissive - 2/28/2012 11:26:08 AM

myotherself

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I would suggest that the slave asks its owner what she thinks a slave should do.

And then do it, to the best of its ability.

Simples!

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RE: becoming more submissive - 2/28/2012 11:26:54 AM

Lockit

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Not having any idea what 'slave' has done to make its mistress happy, from the sounds of it... 'slave' has got it down pat.

There is no way for anyone else to know what has or hasn't taken place and what might need to... if you were 'our' slave. You aren't, so you need to ask her.

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RE: becoming more submissive - 2/28/2012 11:31:48 AM

HEIDISslave

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thankyou both for your replys.
slave does. but slave is always wanting to think of ways to surprise her.
and make its owner happy.
slave just wants to learn to become more submissive.
but slave will always do its research to improve itself.
slave will ask its owner again next time it speaks to its misstress.
sorry if slave has wasted any off your time.
and slave apprecietes any advice.
slave is looking to devolop as best it can for its owner.
and is always looking for new ways to better itself for her.
so slave will apply it all straight away.
thankyou once again.
slave

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RE: becoming more submissive - 2/28/2012 12:12:03 PM

poise

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HEIDISslave

slave just wants to learn to become more submissive.

The best way to be the best submissive ever is to submit to your owners wishes.
I could tell you that you would be a much better submissive if you were to go
clean out behind every single electrical outlet in your home, but maybe your
owner likes all that dust and cobwebs forming there.

The thing is, you aren't our submissive, so it isn't our place to offer suggestions.
What if your Master/Mistress doesn't want you to be more submissive than you already are?

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RE: becoming more submissive - 2/28/2012 12:13:40 PM

Rochsub2009

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As others have stated, we can't help you to learn how to make your Domme happy. Only she can tell you how to do that.

But the best advice that any sub can use in becoming more submissive is the following:

Pay attention to what your Domme tells you to do. Then do it.

I promise you that if you do that, your Domme will be very pleased with your submission.
-Roch

< Message edited by Rochsub2009 -- 2/28/2012 12:14:11 PM >

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RE: becoming more submissive - 2/28/2012 12:14:48 PM

OsideGirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HEIDISslave

slave just wants to learn to become more submissive.

You're making this WAY more difficult than it actually is.

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RE: becoming more submissive - 2/28/2012 1:03:36 PM

HEIDISslave

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thankyou for your reply.
slave will do what is asked of it by its owned to the best of its ability.
and yes that is true, but from what slave knows its owner wants it to develop as a submissive and slave.
these things take time slave knows.
but slave was just looking for ways to better itself.
slave is gratful for your reply.
slave

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RE: becoming more submissive - 2/28/2012 1:05:23 PM

HEIDISslave

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thankyou.
your advice is very helpful and to the point.
slave will always do what its owner asks of it to the best of its ability.
slave is gratful for the advice.
thankyou

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RE: becoming more submissive - 2/28/2012 1:07:19 PM

HEIDISslave

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sorry slave had no intentions of making it difficult.
confusing or wasting anybodys time.
slave should have worded the article more specifically
sorry for wasting your time.

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RE: becoming more submissive - 2/28/2012 1:08:32 PM

Lockit

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Now see slave... if you asked me how you could be a better slave... I might have told you.. to stop fucking calling yourself slave in the third person and that might have upset your dominant.

I might say... stop with the online humble slave act... and again, might have upset your dominant and maybe even made you lose some of that humble slave online act and you might have become defensive and cursed me.

So what I will say is... we are different and what your dominant wants could be far different than what might tend to irritate others. Go to the source of your ultimate slavery. It can only truly be appreciated there.

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RE: becoming more submissive - 2/28/2012 1:12:48 PM

OsideGirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HEIDISslave

sorry slave had no intentions of making it difficult.
confusing or wasting anybodys time.
slave should have worded the article more specifically
sorry for wasting your time.

What I meant is that you way over thinking this. There are no set formulas. Learning how to serve someone else is about human interaction between the two of you. It's not about being the uber-submissive, it's about learning that person, being responsive and/or proactive.

< Message edited by OsideGirl -- 2/28/2012 1:13:19 PM >

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RE: becoming more submissive - 2/28/2012 1:15:23 PM

xanzabelle

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Seriously? My only advice is stop with the 3rd person speak. It is irritating. My advice is to move to Gor.

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RE: becoming more submissive - 2/28/2012 1:22:00 PM

LoreBook

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How to be more submissive? Well I suppose you could obey more. I know it seems obvious, right? Well that's because it is. Obeying the Dominant is the essence of submission, so if you already obey completely you're out of luck, you're as submissive as submissive can be.

Now if what you're asking is how to be a better submissive for your owner, well you would have to ask her what she wants and likes, but hopefully, if you are her devoted slave, you will know her and her desires well enough to know what she wants of you and how you could better meet those desires.

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RE: becoming more submissive - 2/28/2012 1:32:50 PM

HEIDISslave

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quote:

asked me how you could be a better slave... I might have told you.. to stop fucking calling yourself slave in the third person and that might have upset your dominant.

I might say... stop with the online humble slave act... and again, might have upset your dominant and maybe even made you lose some of that humble slave online act and you might have become defensive and cursed me.

So what I will say is... we are different and what your dominant wants could be far different than what might tend to irritate others. Go to the source of your ultimate slavery. It can only truly be appreciated there.

thankyou, i will stop in the 3rd person speak. just as i have no intentions of pissing alot of people off.
and i must admit, i had to re-read that a few times
but i must admit, that is fantastic and good advice!
especialy the last line about your ultimate sourse of slavery!
thankyou i am gratful about that. i could curse you. but that would gain nothing for neither me nor you.
but that is true. what one looks and wants, may be a thing what another hates and despises.
thankyou once again!!

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RE: becoming more submissive - 2/28/2012 1:35:20 PM

HEIDISslave

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quote:

for your owner, well you would have to ask her what she wants and likes, but hopefully, if you are her devoted slave, you will know her and her desires well enough to know what she wants of you and how you could better meet those desires.

thankyou,. i will stop the 3rd person speak. as sevral people above have been annoyed by me doing so.
and i do not plan on annoying anyone, it was not my intention when starting this thread.
and over time i hope to learn what she likes and what makes her happy more.
but these things take time. that i know.
but i hope to learn what makes my owner happy. and develop from there.
thankyou for your reply

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RE: becoming more submissive - 2/28/2012 1:57:21 PM

hangemhigh1953

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Pardon me if my assumptions are incorrect, but... do you know your Mistress in real life or is this online only? Your profile seems to imply the latter.

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RE: becoming more submissive - 2/28/2012 2:03:18 PM

poise

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quote:

ORIGINAL: hangemhigh1953

Pardon me if my assumptions are incorrect, but... do you know your Mistress
in real life or is this online only? Your profile seems to imply the latter.

It get's worse. His profile was created on 2-12, and he claims it's only to communicate
with MistressHeidi, who happened to have passed away in January of 2011.

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RE: becoming more submissive - 2/28/2012 2:14:25 PM

Lockit

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Oh shit! How do you please a dead dominant?

Well, that puts a different slant on things!

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RE: becoming more submissive - 2/28/2012 2:15:58 PM

mnottertail

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

Oh shit! How do you please a dead dominant?

Well, that puts a different slant on things!

Well, a little STFU for eternity would be a good start. Maybe mow the lawn once in a while, clean the stone.

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