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RE: And another thing . . . those damn drawings! - 3/3/2012 7:27:30 PM   
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..and I dislike those drawings, too. Just sayin'.


It gets much, much worse than that and I'm sure you know it.


Yes, it does, but I'm just really fucking sick of those drawings.

. . . and I wish I had a dollar for every guy who emailed that crap to me, thinking I'll be pleased at the gift.

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RE: And another thing . . . those damn drawings! - 3/3/2012 7:35:11 PM   
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I must get used to nothing, Peon. I offered up my opinion on those drawings because I thought that's what we were doing, offering up personal opinions. That being said, your excuse that this is simply the guys vs. girls way of things is lame, too. Gee, this is the way it's always been so 1. why change now? and 2. oh goodie! an excuse to be obnoxious.


Right. So, you think that the men who send such pictures will even be reading this thread, let alone caring about your, or Baroana's, opinion?

It seems to me that there are two options here. First, you can hope that the sorts of men who send such pictures will read this thread and reform themselves; or you can hope that you, as a female receiving such pictures (and a rich variety of other nasty crap), will somehow become inured to it. Well, up to you, and the OP - whatever you (both) think is the best survival tactic.



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RE: And another thing . . . those damn drawings! - 3/3/2012 7:45:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		It seems to me that I never questioned once whether or not anyone will or will not read or respond to this thread. It was not started by me. I only entered into it to voice my agreement with the OP's opinion, because that's one of the reasons we start threads, is simply to voice an opinion or three and to discuss them. I saw what she said and went "oh YEAH, THOSE stupid things..", and then of course there was your thinly-veiled snark in reference to females all being this or that. Where I've been all this time while you were perfecting your little art form? Not here, that's for sure, but I will simply not have comments like yours going unanswered.
Now run along, little Peon, and find something that's actually useful to do, instead of passive-aggressively antagonizing people you don't even know for your personal therapy.
You cannot win this and it isn't a challenge.
Have a nice night.

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RE: And another thing . . . those damn drawings! - 3/3/2012 8:00:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		Those drawings make me giggle. I have a pal who's all in to those of us with "shape", and not even he likes them! So they're grotesque, I prefer them to the gaping anus shots. Both help thin the herd and speed the path to "hide".

(And Darling--you know they don't get you, eh? So leave the rantyranting be.)



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RE: And another thing . . . those damn drawings! - 3/3/2012 8:00:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't overly mind them myself, an avatar is simply an avatar, but I am curious if it bothers you because the pic portrays the huuuuuge ass? Would you feel differently if it portrayed an athletic woman? Just curious.

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RE: And another thing . . . those damn drawings! - 3/3/2012 8:00:31 PM   
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Guys, please stop using those damn drawings as your main profile pics! You know the ones I'm talking about. Some woman with a giant ass and thighs sitting on some guy's face. God, I'm going to scream if I see one more of those!

well, the way i deal with pics i dont like is to block or hide the persons profile.. yes, it takes a few secs to do, yes, you have to do that to all the ones you dont like but, hey, better than seeing them over and over again.. Its really not like those guys come to the forums and the light bulb goes off for them and they get you mean them.. jmo, of course..


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RE: And another thing . . . those damn drawings! - 3/3/2012 8:05:18 PM   
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I don't overly mind them myself, an avatar is simply an avatar, but I am curious if it bothers you because the pic portrays the huuuuuge ass? Would you feel differently if it portrayed an athletic woman? Just curious.


I take the Fifth.

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RE: And another thing . . . those damn drawings! - 3/3/2012 8:13:27 PM   
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It seems to me that I never questioned once whether or not anyone will or will not read or respond to this thread. It was not started by me. I only entered into it to voice my agreement with the OP's opinion, because that's one of the reasons we start threads, is simply to voice an opinion or three and to discuss them. I saw what she said and went "oh YEAH, THOSE stupid things..", and then of course there was your thinly-veiled snark in reference to females all being this or that. Where I've been all this time while you were perfecting your little art form? Not here, that's for sure, but I will simply not have comments like yours going unanswered.
Now run along, little Peon, and find something that's actually useful to do, instead of passive-aggressively antagonizing people you don't even know for your personal therapy.
You cannot win this and it isn't a challenge.
Have a nice night.


Oh Christ . . . OK, if you insist that I'm chock full of 'passive-aggressive' anger - I can't be bothered to dispute it. I know this is the buzz-term of the now and that there's no way either to prove it or defend against it. Such is the nature of cod-psychoanalysis.

Perhaps the bottom line is that I have a small penis and it's actually this that informs all my opinions? Who knows? It's such a mystery. But, to me, a bit of a tedious mystery and a waste of time considering it for all parties.

There are broadly two ways to deal with the OP's complaint, so far as I can see. One way is to commiserate and amplify, with comments along the lines of 'Oh yes, aren't such men wankers? Aren't men in general so awful?', etc, etc. If that's what's crucial here than I'll agree that, yes, of course they are. My opinion is that such men are arses. Does that wrap up the whole matter? All settled, now?

Fine, if that helps. It very often doesn't, though - and I know this from some of the things that femdom friends have told me - hideous, unbelievably nasty things. The other way is actually to offer what I think is the only way to a solution. That is what I have tried to do. A woman using CM *just must* be tough enough to take the crap that comes, because there's no other way that I, for one, can see to deal with it.

What I'm getting at is that the nastiness that one sex can and does, ordinarily, give to the other in real life, will be amplified, ten times, on the Internet, and on sites like this. It does take a special kind of toughness to deal with it, and both sexes have to learn what they need to learn, in order to survive.



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RE: And another thing . . . those damn drawings! - 3/3/2012 8:18:32 PM   
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A woman using CM *just must* be tough enough to take the crap that comes, because there's no other way that I, for one, can see to deal with it.



What toughness? I can understand getting tired of something, but heck, it's only virtual crap from virtual strangers anyway.

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RE: And another thing . . . those damn drawings! - 3/3/2012 8:22:57 PM   
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There are broadly two ways to deal with the OP's complaint, so far as I can see. One way is to commiserate and amplify, with comments along the lines of 'Oh yes, aren't such men wankers? Aren't men in general so awful?', etc, etc. If that's what's crucial here than I'll agree that, yes, of course they are. My opinion is that such men are arses. Does that wrap up the whole matter? All settled, now?




Nonetheless, I have the right to complain about things I don't like. Moreover, it's not men in general that I have a problem with. It's those goddamn drawings. The thing that irks me most is that I detect a patronizing intent behind the use of those things. It is as if they think those images are what we want to see.

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RE: And another thing . . . those damn drawings! - 3/3/2012 8:34:34 PM   
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The thing that irks me most is that I detect a patronizing intent behind the use of those things. It is as if they think those images are what we want to see.


God alone knows. You might think that I, as a male, would be able to offer an insight - but I can't. I don't know what men hope to achieve by sending pictures of their erect dicks or their anuses, either. Me, like most men on CM - I get cmails from women - girls, really - who honestly believe that I'll want to send them money if they send me pictures of themselves in the nuddy. Why?

The Internet, and sites like this especially, make tits out of both sexes. There it is. It's just bloody embarrassing, basically, if you happen to be of the sex being the tit in question.

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RE: And another thing . . . those damn drawings! - 3/3/2012 8:34:46 PM   
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Guys, please stop using those damn drawings as your main profile pics! You know the ones I'm talking about. Some woman with a giant ass and thighs sitting on some guy's face. God, I'm going to scream if I see one more of those!



To be a snot about this, but how is this topic related to this forum subsection?

It's not a question and it's not directed to "Mistresses".

It would be better in the general BDSM or ask a sub forums don't you think?


Then again I'm just a silly, useless, disrespectful, selfish, male sub who doesn't understand that Dommes are always right and never wrong it seems... so what's my question matter?

*shrugs*

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RE: And another thing . . . those damn drawings! - 3/3/2012 8:37:03 PM   
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Guys, please stop using those damn drawings as your main profile pics! You know the ones I'm talking about. Some woman with a giant ass and thighs sitting on some guy's face. God, I'm going to scream if I see one more of those!



To be a snot about this, but how is this topic related to this forum subsection?

It's not a question and it's not directed to "Mistresses".

It would be better in the general BDSM or ask a sub forums don't you think?


Then again I'm just a silly, useless, disrespectful, selfish, male sub who doesn't understand that Dommes are always right and never wrong it seems... so what's my question matter?

*shrugs*



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RE: And another thing . . . those damn drawings! - 3/3/2012 8:39:16 PM   
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The thing that irks me most is that I detect a patronizing intent behind the use of those things. It is as if they think those images are what we want to see.


God alone knows. You might think that I, as a male, would be able to offer an insight - but I can't. I don't know what men hope to achieve by sending pictures of their erect dicks or their anuses, either. Me, like most men on CM - I get cmails from women - girls, really - who honestly believe that I'll want to send them money if they send me pictures of themselves in the nuddy. Why?



I am stumped on the dicks and anuses issue. However, I think it has been empirically proven that men will part with their money in order to see a naked woman.

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RE: And another thing . . . those damn drawings! - 3/3/2012 8:42:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		On topic, no, I don't care for them.  Those caricatures are only a slight bit above 1) the classic dick pic and 2) the bent over, spread cheeked, 'brown eye' shots.  Nobody is scoring points with those pics with Me.

Off topic, dang it, peon!  Behave, dear.  Go read your mail.


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RE: And another thing . . . those damn drawings! - 3/3/2012 8:44:47 PM   
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To be a snot about this, but how is this topic related to this forum subsection?

It's not a question and it's not directed to "Mistresses".

It would be better in the general BDSM or ask a sub forums don't you think?


Then again I'm just a silly, useless, disrespectful, selfish, male sub who doesn't understand that Dommes are always right and never wrong it seems... so what's my question matter?

*shrugs*

I believe the OP may have wanted to hear other opinions on them from others in the same demographic.  Of course, I can not speak for the OP.


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RE: And another thing . . . those damn drawings! - 3/3/2012 8:44:54 PM   
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RE: And another thing . . . those damn drawings! - 3/3/2012 8:46:09 PM   
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To be a snot about this, but how is this topic related to this forum subsection?

It's not a question and it's not directed to "Mistresses".

It would be better in the general BDSM or ask a sub forums don't you think?


Then again I'm just a silly, useless, disrespectful, selfish, male sub who doesn't understand that Dommes are always right and never wrong it seems... so what's my question matter?

*shrugs*

I believe the OP may have wanted to hear other opinions on them from others in the same demographic.  Of course, I can not speak for the OP.

Edited for quoting.


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RE: And another thing . . . those damn drawings! - 3/3/2012 8:46:23 PM   
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I believe the OP may have wanted to hear other opinions on them from others in the same demographic.  Of course, I can not speak for the OP.



That was pretty much it.

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RE: And another thing . . . those damn drawings! - 3/3/2012 8:48:54 PM   
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Read his mail? Hah!

Either he reads it or I start bugging you.

Mawahahahaha.


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