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SweetDommes -> RE: Why am I not taken seriously? (3/5/2012 8:29:59 PM)
Very true. It still makes my head hurt sometimes. Even with my job, working with people who have done some really nasty, horrible things, I still like to think the best of people and hope that they are rational, intelligent adults rather than little kids with their fingers in their ears going 'lalala, can't hear you' every time someone says something that disturbs their "reality"

SweetDommes -> RE: Why am I not taken seriously? (3/5/2012 8:49:26 PM)
Ok, I'm going to derail a bit, but if the OP is around, maybe it will help him out. I saw a profile that the main picture was of a stuffed animal bound. The owner of the profile explained why he used that as his profile picture, and it amused me. As did his journal entry about people who request that potential partners be "D&D free" - he took it in a humorous route and questioned why people didn't want anyone who played Dungeons & Dragons, then he realized that it meant "drug & disease free" - it struck me as funny. We began chatting - no expectation of anything, as we are looking for different things, but just conversing. In the course of our chatting, the topic of pictures was brought up, and I made a comment about guys who send us pictures of their "junk" ... so he sent me a picture of his "junk" - which included his backpack, a sword (ornamental only, and of the metal variety, not the flesh variety), and a few other miscellaneous things. It shows that he's smart, has a sense of humor, and has a life that doesn't revolve around kink. These are all good things. I love chatting with this guy, even though he's not local, and (as I said before) we're looking for different things ultimately - because he sees me as a person and treats me like a person.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Why am I not taken seriously? (3/5/2012 9:10:17 PM)
I have been criticised forhaving pictures of "flowers and rodents" on my profile...but all my pictures are "about" me, rather than "of" me. Lots of conversations get started over those pictures, and NOT about my bra size!

SweetDommes -> RE: Why am I not taken seriously? (3/5/2012 9:14:46 PM)
I'll admit, we have pictures of floggers on our profile (not as the main pic - that one is me [:D] ) but that's because I made them, and I was trying to sell some for awhile. But we do have pictures of us with our cats up (and yes, that's exactly what we show people when they ask to see our "pussies" [sm=biggrin.gif] ) The pictures of us are not graphic, they are not kink related at all - they show us how we are, day to day ... we are people, and we have pets. and if I could get decent pictures of us with the dogs, I'd have them up too.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Why am I not taken seriously? (3/5/2012 9:16:06 PM)
Yet there are no guinea pig pictures[&o]

SweetDommes -> RE: Why am I not taken seriously? (3/5/2012 9:21:24 PM)
heck, I can fix that - just give me a bit LOL

MistressDarkArt -> RE: Why am I not taken seriously? (3/5/2012 10:54:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SingleServant quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven quote: ORIGINAL: SingleServant quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Yoou do know that the "mature women" you seek can see this commentary, right? Yes I know. I do not care. By mature I am referring to women in their mid to late 20's, not in the battleaxe age range. You're 53..... and an optimist. I have a seven figure net worth. That actually makes it very easy. Money attracts them, in the end they never get any of it. [sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=rofl.gif] It just so happens I'm 53 too. By your definition, I guess that makes ALL of us battle-axes including you SingleServ, so what's your beef? What precisely of value do you bring to the table, old battleaxe? quote: Option # 1 Older, over weight, multiple divorced, minimally educated , minimally employed, multiple dependent children, sarcastic , bi polar , women who take on the role of a "dominant woman" when in fact they are simply unpleasant and disfunctional women. Let's see how much you know about 53-year old me, SingleServ. I have no children (by choice), no drama, dysfunctions or issues of any importance in my life, am not bi-polar or 'multiple-divorced', nor overweight nor 'minimally educated', and am only sarcastic when dingledouches inspire it. There goes your asinine theory, so can it, cupcake. If I wanted a partner 30 years my junior as you say you do, I would have one; no shortage of young men come a'flocking. But I'm only interested in youthful outlooks coupled with mature values. So a negative, doom-and-gloom, name-calling deluded self-aggrandizing bitter grump in a whining 53 year old body would get nowhere with me now...or 30 years ago...not for every last dime of a self-purported 7 figure net worth. I care about what someone is actually WORTH to me as a person, and do not give a flying fig about a dollar amount. How very myopic of you to claim to know best for the OP; by his inquiry here that young man actually has a chance. Unless you magically become a bright ray of sunshine, you, on the other hand, are finished in the world of loving D/s partnerships. Your purported 7-figure net worth might buy you sessions, but can't actually buy you love. I offer you no sympathy, but most sincerely, I pity you. ETA: And Serv, dude? Please use your implied lofty education to properly spell 'o b e d i e n t' on your profile, 'k?

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Why am I not taken seriously? (3/5/2012 11:09:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes As did his journal entry about people who request that potential partners be "D&D free" - he took it in a humorous route and questioned why people didn't want anyone who played Dungeons & Dragons, then he realized that it meant "drug & disease free" - it struck me as funny....I made a comment about guys who send us pictures of their "junk" ... so he sent me a picture of his "junk" - which included his backpack, a sword (ornamental only, and of the metal variety, not the flesh variety), and a few other miscellaneous things. This made me LOL. I need to find one of him in my area.

SweetDommes -> RE: Why am I not taken seriously? (3/5/2012 11:37:37 PM)
Heh, if he were in your area, I'd send you his profile name. He's a great guy, and I certainly hope that he finds someone who suits him.

kalikshama -> RE: Why am I not taken seriously? (3/6/2012 6:22:49 AM)
quote: I have a seven figure net worth. That actually makes it very easy. Money attracts them, in the end they never get any of it. May I suggest http://www.sugardaddy.com/ ? ETA: My coworker just sent me this link: The Sugar Daddy recession The economic downturn has forced some women into arrangements with unsavory men, and made desperation into a fetish

kalikshama -> RE: Why am I not taken seriously? (3/6/2012 6:55:49 AM)
quote: By mature I am referring to women in their mid to late 20's I was about to comment that the only people who refer to 25-29 year old as mature are teenagers, but then I thought perhaps this is true regarding sex workers (?)

MistressDarkArt -> RE: Why am I not taken seriously? (3/6/2012 11:05:05 AM)
quote: SingleServant Option # 1 Older, over weight, multiple divorced, minimally educated , minimally employed, multiple dependent children, sarcastic , bi polar , women who take on the role of a "dominant woman" when in fact they are simply unpleasant and disfunctional women. d y s f u n c t i o n a l There, fixed it for you. How much minimal education did you say you have?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Why am I not taken seriously? (3/6/2012 4:13:29 PM)
You are a very funny person. Funny in the sense of comical. Thanks for sharing.

MusicalBoredom -> RE: Why am I not taken seriously? (3/6/2012 4:33:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SingleServant ...You should not be worrying about the aging battle axe dommes and young hookers that populate this site. I want to be the young hooker!

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Why am I not taken seriously? (3/6/2012 4:35:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MusicalBoredom quote: ORIGINAL: SingleServant ...You should not be worrying about the aging battle axe dommes and young hookers that populate this site. I want to be the young hooker! Excellent!! I could use some CougarPoints(tm). So far I have one offer of turkish coffee, and another for licking hummus off my ass... what's your ante?

GloriousMorning -> RE: Why am I not taken seriously? (3/6/2012 4:36:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MusicalBoredom I want to be the young hooker! I'd rather be the old battle ax, in fact so bad that I'm practicing it while I'm in my thirties!.

SingleServant -> RE: Why am I not taken seriously? (3/6/2012 4:38:24 PM)
You can keep your ability to spell correctly. I will live with my spelling definnciccy and my 6.5 million............

MusicalBoredom -> RE: Why am I not taken seriously? (3/6/2012 4:46:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus quote: ORIGINAL: MusicalBoredom quote: ORIGINAL: SingleServant ...You should not be worrying about the aging battle axe dommes and young hookers that populate this site. I want to be the young hooker! Excellent!! I could use some CougarPoints(tm). So far I have one offer of turkish coffee, and another for licking hummus off my ass... what's your ante? Wait, I have to do stuff?!?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Why am I not taken seriously? (3/6/2012 4:52:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MusicalBoredom quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus quote: ORIGINAL: MusicalBoredom quote: ORIGINAL: SingleServant ...You should not be worrying about the aging battle axe dommes and young hookers that populate this site. I want to be the young hooker! Excellent!! I could use some CougarPoints(tm). So far I have one offer of turkish coffee, and another for licking hummus off my ass... what's your ante? Wait, I have to do stuff?!? Well yeah! You don't expect an old battleaxe like me to do all the work!

MusicalBoredom -> RE: Why am I not taken seriously? (3/6/2012 5:00:21 PM)
Well I am an ass man.

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